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Divorce can be emotionally and financially challenging, and one of the biggest concerns people have is how to finance the process. From filing and attorney fees to establishing separate households, the costs can quickly add up.

Knowing how to pay for divorce is particularly tricky because most people don’t necessarily plan for a divorce and, as result, likely don’t have a special bank account where they’ve been saving up for a divorce. This can leave you feeling stuck in a tight corner.

For anyone scratching their head and wondering how to pay for a divorce, we have some answers. Here’s a look at how you can cover the cost of divorce while still keeping an eye on your long-term (post-divorce) financial health.

How Much Does Divorce Cost?

We’ll start with the crummy news: Getting a divorce, already a difficult experience, is also expensive. While the cost varies depending on where you live and the complexity of the divorce, the average cost of a divorce in the U.S ranges between $15,000 and $20,000. That said, a simple DIY divorce could run a lot less (as little as $200). A complicated divorce (with disagreements around child custody or dividing up property), on the other hand, could run well over $100,000. Gulp.

Factors that can affect the cost of a divorce include:

•   The state where the divorce takes place

•   Whether the couple lives in an urban or rural area

•   Whether it is contested or uncontested

•   Whether or not you hire professional legal help

•   The complexity of the couple’s finances

•   Whether or not there are child custody issues involved

How Do I Pay for My Divorce?

Ideally, every individual, couple, and family would have some emergency money set aside to cover unforeseen events. While many aren’t thinking the money would be for a divorce, that could qualify as an unexpected expense.

If you don’t have much, or any, rainy day savings, here are some steps that can help you manage the cost of your divorce.

•   Create a budget. A good place to start is to assess your financial situation and create a realistic budget for your divorce. Take a look at your income, expenses, and any debts you may have. This will help you determine how much you can allocate towards your divorce costs, find areas where you may be able to cut costs, and develop a strategy to finance your divorce.

•   Negotiate with your spouse. If possible, see if you can reach an amicable agreement with your spouse regarding the division of assets and paying expenses. This can help reduce legal fees and minimize the overall cost of the divorce process.

•   Explore mediation. Mediation is a cost-effective alternative to traditional divorce litigation. A neutral mediator helps facilitate discussions between you and your spouse, allowing you to work together to reach mutually agreeable solutions. Mediation can often be less expensive and less time-consuming than going to court.

Borrow From Friends and Family

If you need some financial assistance to cover the costs of your divorce, reaching out to friends and family is one option to consider. Loved ones who understand your situation may be willing to lend you money to help you through this challenging time.

You’ll want to approach borrowing from friends and family with caution, however. You want to be sure that you’ll be able to pay the money back and clearly communicate that you intend to repay the money. Also be sure to discuss any expectations or terms, and ensure that the arrangement is legally documented to avoid misunderstandings or strain on personal relationships.

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Is a Personal Loan a Good Option to Pay for Divorce?

Another option to finance your divorce is to consider a personal loan.

Personal loans are often unsecured (meaning you don’t have to put up an asset as collateral) and can be used for a variety of purposes, including legal costs. They can provide you with the necessary funds to cover divorce-related expenses while allowing you to make manageable monthly payments over a fixed period, typically three to five years.

If you have good to excellent credit, a personal loan can be a better choice than using a credit card for your divorce costs, since rates are typically lower. A personal loan may also allow you to borrow a larger amount than your current credit card limit allows. Personal loans also come with fixed monthly payments, which can be easier to budget for.

Before applying for a personal loan for your divorce however, you’ll want to consider the annual percentage rates (APRs) and repayment terms offered by different lenders. Be sure to carefully assess your ability to repay the loan to avoid adding further financial stress during and after the divorce process.

Putting Your Financial Health First

While it’s crucial to address the immediate financial challenges of a divorce, it’s equally important to prioritize your long-term financial health. Here are some tips to help you navigate this process.

•   Protect your credit. Divorce can have a significant impact on your credit score. To minimize the impact, you’ll want to be sure to close joint accounts and establish individual accounts. Be sure to also monitor your credit report regularly to ensure accuracy and address any issues promptly.

•   Update legal and financial documents. It’s a wise idea to review and update your will, insurance policies, retirement accounts, and other legal and financial documents to reflect your new circumstances. You’ll also want to update beneficiaries and ensure your assets are distributed according to your wishes.

•   Focus on rebuilding. After the divorce, take steps to rebuild your financial stability. Set financial goals, create a savings plan, and consider ways to increase your income or reduce expenses. Building a solid financial foundation will help you regain control of your life and prepare for the future.

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The Takeaway

Financing a divorce can be a challenging task, but with careful planning and consideration, it is possible to navigate this process successfully. Key steps include assessing your financial situation, exploring various options such as negotiation and mediation, and, if needed, borrowing from friends and family or getting a personal loan to help cover the costs of the divorce.

Think twice before turning to high-interest credit cards. Consider a SoFi personal loan instead. SoFi offers competitive fixed rates and same-day funding. See your rate in minutes.

FAQ

How are finances split in a divorce?

Before a divorce can be finalized, couples will need to draft a legal document that outlines how they’ll split their assets. Once a judge determines the agreement fair and legal, it becomes part of the divorce settlement.

Do I have to pay my spouse’s credit card debt in divorce?

In general, you’re responsible for any credit card debt that’s in your name or for joint credit card debt. But if you live in a community property state, you may also be on the hook for a portion of your spouse’s credit card debt, as long as the debt was incurred during your marriage.

How can I prepare my finances for divorce?

There are steps you can take to prepare your finances before the paperwork is filed. One helpful strategy is to keep track of your income and household expenses, such as food, child care, home repairs, and housing. It’s also a good idea to estimate future expenses, such as your child’s school tuition. This information will come in handy as you create a post-divorce budget, but it can also help the judge determine how to split your combined assets and debts.

About the author

Julia Califano

Julia Califano is an award-winning journalist who covers banking, small business, personal loans, student loans, and other money issues for SoFi. She has over 20 years of experience writing about personal finance and lifestyle topics. Read full bio.

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Thinking about installing a new deck, replacing a front door, or even adding an extra bedroom to your home to help increase its resale value? Considering that your home is one of the biggest investments you’re likely to ever make, it makes sense that you’d be interested in increasing its value with some upgrades.

But as you probably guessed, not all remodeling projects provide the same return on investment (ROI).

Using Remodeling Magazine’s Cost vs. Value 2024 report, which compares the average cost of 23 remodeling projects in 150 housing markets, let’s look at some of the most popular home improvements based on estimated ROI, time commitment, and cost.

Things to Consider Before Starting a Home Improvement Project

It’s important to note that national averages only tell part of the story. Labor and supply costs, styles, and consumer preferences can vary by location. So before you dive into a project, you might want to consider hiring a contractor, real estate agent, or appraiser to come to your house and give an opinion on which upgrades might provide the most value based on where you live.

You may also want to factor in any immediate needs that a remodeling project can help satisfy. Let’s say, for instance, you’d like to add an extra bathroom. While you may only recoup part of your expenses, having an additional washroom may be worth the cost of a renovation.

Top Home Improvement Projects to Help Increase Your Home Value

Looking to prioritize your wish list? These remodeling projects earned top spots on the Cost vs. Value report.

Garage Door Replacement

Average Cost: $4,513

Resale Value: $8,751

Costs Recouped: 193.9%

General Time Commitment: A few days

Removing an old garage door and replacing it with an attractive, sturdy new one could return every dollar of your initial investment — and then some, according to the Cost vs. Value report. It’s an effective way to improve your home’s appearance from the outside while increasing your home’s functionality for years to come.

With an average cost of $4,513, which includes the door and the cost of labor, it’s also a relatively affordable renovation. While most homeowners would likely hire someone to help install the new garage door, it is something that you could potentially do on your own (with the help of a friend) over the course of a weekend.

If you hire someone to install the door for you, they will likely come to your home twice: first, to take measurements and give you a quote, and then again to install the door.

Entry Door Replacement (steel)

Average Cost: $2,355

Resale Value: $4,430

Cost Recouped: 188.1%

General Time Commitment: One week

A new, safe front door is an attractive quality to prospective homebuyers. Replacing your entry door and jambs with a steel door, “including clear dual-pane half-glass panel, jambs, and aluminum threshold with composite stop,” should get you a good bang for your buck, according to the Cost vs. Value report.

Even better, you and a friend can probably handle installation on your own, though you can certainly hire an installation expert. If you decide to go the pro route, they’ll likely need to come to your home to take initial measurements and then return for the installation. Another option is to measure and order the door yourself and just get help with the installation.

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Manufactured Stone Veneer

Average Cost: $11,287

Resale Value: $17,291

Cost Recouped: 153.2%

General Time Commitment: One month

Removing the vinyl siding and adding a stone veneer to the bottom third of your home’s street-facing façade is an effective way to help increase the value of your home, returning 102.3% of the cost of renovation. First impressions matter when it comes to selling a home, and stone veneer is a popular look right now.

Whether you tackle this project yourself or hire a handyperson to help with the installation, this project will take several days to complete. If you choose to hire someone, understand that the construction days might not be successive, so the exterior of your home could be under construction for several weeks to a month or longer.

Minor Kitchen Remodel (Midrange)

Average Cost: $27,492

Resale Value: $26,406

Cost Recouped: 96.1%

General Time Commitment: Four to eight months

When it comes to kitchen remodels, less may be more, at least when it comes to ROI. According to the Cost vs. Value report, major kitchen remodels recoup anywhere from 38% to 49.5% of costs. Meanwhile, a smaller upgrade recoups 96.1% of costs.

What does a minor remodel include? Think faster-turnaround jobs like installing a new sink and faucet or replacing items like cabinet fronts, cooktop, oven range, refrigerator with new models, countertops, or floors.

When creating your budget, you’ll probably want to factor in the cost of expert help, such as an electrician, plumber, and contractor. You’ll also want to be realistic about how long you can devote to the project — and be without a working kitchen. Expect several months at minimum for a remodel.

Wood Deck Addition

Average Cost: $17,615

Resale Value: $14,596

Cost Recouped: 82.9%

General Time Commitment: Three to six months

Nothing beats enjoying family and friends on a deck in your backyard on a sunny day. Potential buyers are typically rightfully happy to pay extra for a deck, and a wooden deck installation could recoup half of what you spend. And ideally, you’ll get the chance to enjoy the deck before you sell your home.

A deck installation is a pretty large project. It will likely need to pass an inspection and adhere to your city’s building codes, and it could increase your property taxes and home insurance costs. So it pays to get the job done right the first time, which may mean enlisting the help of a designer or architect. These pros can map out an initial plan, and a contractor can handle the building.

An online home renovation cost calculator can help provide you with a rough idea of how much a wooden deck — and any other home upgrade project — could cost.

HVAC Conversion/Electrification

Average Cost: $18,800

Resale Value: $12,422

Costs Recouped: 66.1%

General Time Commitment: Anywhere from 1-2 days up to several days, depending on whether your home requires structural changes

Replacing a fossil fuel-burning HVAC system with one that runs on electricity isn’t cheap. Nor is it one to try to DIY. But according to the Cost vs. Value report, you could stand to get back roughly two-thirds of what you put in. Homeowners who decide to make the conversion may also notice a savings in their heating and cooling bills. And there are environmental benefits to consider as well.

Unless you’re a licensed HVAC technician, this is a project best suited for the professionals. Consider speaking with a few different HVAC installation teams to compare potential systems and cost options.

Remodeling Projects With the Lowest Potential ROI

While these upgrades may not deliver the biggest returns, they could still be worth exploring if they fit your budget and lifestyle needs.

Primary Bedroom or Bathroom Addition

Average Cost: $164,649 for midrange; $339,513 for upscale

Resale Value: $58,484 for midrange; $81,042 for upscale

Cost Recouped: 35.5% for midrange; 23.9% for upscale

General Time Commitment: Four to eight months

Adding on a primary bedroom or bathroom may enhance your living experience, but it might not add much to your bottom line. Despite the project’s hefty financial and time commitment, it generally fails to deliver even one-third of the investment.

However, while not a great return, a home addition project of this size could change to the value of your home. For example, a $300,000 home that adds a primary suite for $164,649 could potentially return about $58,000 on the investment. A home that sells for $358,000 instead of $300,000 is a 19.3% increase in the home’s value. If you were to get enough use from the addition to justify the other cost you can’t recoup, it could still be a fine investment.

Again, these figures are purely hypothetical, and the value of expanding your home can depend on a multitude of factors. And if you decide to move ahead with a primary bedroom or bathroom addition, you’ll want to think through how you’ll finance the project. Some options include applying for a home improvement loan, using home equity, dipping into your savings, or using credit cards.

Recommended: Homebuyer’s Guide

Bathroom Addition

Average Cost: $58,586 for midrange; $107,477 for upscale

Resale Value: $20,334 for midrange; $34,997 for upscale

Cost Recouped: 34.7% for midrange; 32.6% for upscale

General Time Commitment: Four to eight months

A bathroom remodel tends to be cheaper than a primary bathroom addition, and it generally sees a slightly better potential ROI. But again, a bathroom addition or any large remodeling project should be considered in terms of both ROI and what you want to get out of your home while you are living in it. And that’s a calculation that only you and your family can make.

The Takeaway

Home renovation shows make upgrades look quick and easy. And while sometimes they can be, in many cases, renovations can be costly and time-consuming. As you consider which ones to make, you will likely want to factor in your return on investment (ROI).

Not all remodeling projects provide the same level of ROI. Projects such as replacing a garage door or adding a stone veneer to your home’s façade tend to see better ROI than adding an extra primary bedroom or bathroom. But ROI is only one consideration. You should also need to consider what you want to get out of your home and whether the time and cost of taking on a big project are worth it.

Think twice before turning to high-interest credit cards. Consider a SoFi personal loan instead. SoFi offers competitive fixed rates and same-day funding. See your rate in minutes.

FAQ

What home improvements offer the most value?

According to the Remodeling Magazine’s Cost vs. Value 2024 report, the top three home improvement projects that have the best ROI are: replacing the garage door (193.9% of costs recouped), replacing the entry door with a steel version (188.1% of costs recouped), and adding manufactured stone veneer to the home’s exterior (153.2% of costs recouped).

Which home improvement is least likely to increase the value of your home?

Wallpapering, built-in electronics, wall-to-wall carpeting, and a swimming pool are examples of projects that typically don’t increase the resale value of your home.

Does new flooring increase home value?

New flooring can potentially boost the value of your home, especially if your current flooring is worn or in poor condition. Hardwood flooring often provides significant ROI, though luxury vinyl plank and tile flooring can also add value.

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If you’re cash poor and home equity rich, a cash-out refinance could be the ticket to funding home improvements, consolidating debt, or helping with any other need. With this type of refinancing, you take out a new mortgage for a larger amount than what you have left on your current mortgage and receive the excess amount as cash.

However, getting a mortgage with a cash-out isn’t always the best route to take when you need extra money. Read on for a closer look at this form of home refinancing, including how it works, how much cash you can get, its pros and cons, and alternatives to consider.

What Is a Cash-Out Refinance?

A cash-out refinance involves taking out a new mortgage loan that will allow you to pay off your old mortgage plus receive a lump sum of cash.

As with other types of refinancing, you end up with a new mortgage which may have different rates and a longer or shorter term, as well as a new payment amortization schedule (which shows your monthly payments for the life of the loan).

The cash amount you can get is based on your home equity, or how much your home is worth compared to how much you owe. You can use the cash you receive for virtually any purpose, such as home remodeling, consolidating high-interest debt, or other financial needs.

💡 Quick tip: Thinking of using a mortgage broker? That person will try to help you save money by finding the best loan offers you are eligible for. But if you deal directly with a mortgage lender, you won’t have to pay a mortgage broker’s commission, which is usually based on the mortgage amount.

How Does a Cash-Out Refinance Work?

Just like a traditional refinance, a cash-out refinance involves replacing your existing loan with a new one, ideally with a lower interest rate, shorter term, or both.

The difference is that with a cash-out refinance, you also withdraw a portion of your home’s equity in a lump sum. The lender adds that amount to the outstanding balance on your current mortgage to determine your new loan balance.

Refinancing with a cash-out typically requires a home appraisal, which will determine your home’s current market value. Often lenders will allow you to borrow up to 80% of your home’s value, including both the existing loan balance and the amount you want to take out in the form of cash.

However, there are exceptions. Cash-out refinance loans backed by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) may allow you to borrow as much as 85% of the value of your home, while those guaranteed by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) may let you borrow up to 100% of your home’s value.

Cash-out refinances typically come with closing costs, which can be 2% to 5% of the loan amount. If you don’t finance these costs with the new loan, you’ll need to subtract these costs from the cash you end up with.

💡 Quick tip: Using the money you get from a cash-out refi for a home renovation can help rebuild the equity you’re taking out. Plus, you may be able to deduct the additional interest payments on your taxes.

Example of Cash-Out Refinancing

Let’s say your mortgage balance is $100,000, and your home is currently worth $300,000. This means you have $200,000 in home equity.

If you decide to get a cash-out refinance, the lender may give you 80% of the value of your home, which would be a total mortgage amount of $240,000 ($300,000 x 0.80).

From that $240,000 loan, you’ll have to pay off what you still owe on your home ($100,000). That leaves $140,000 (minus closing costs) you could potentially get as cash. The actual amount you qualify for can vary depending on the lender, your creditworthiness, and other factors.

Common Uses of Cash-Out Refinancing

People use a cash-out refinance for a variety of purposes. These include:

•   A home improvement project (such as a kitchen remodel), a replacement HVAC system, or a new patio deck

•   Adding an accessory dwelling unit (ADU) to your property

•   Consolidating and paying off high-interest credit card debt

•   Buying a vacation home

•   Emergency expenses, such as an unexpected hospital stay or unplanned car repairs

•   Education expenses, such as college tuition

Qualifying for a Cash-Out Refinance

Here’s a look at some of the typical criteria to qualify for a cash-out refinance.

•  Credit score Lenders typically require a minimum score of 620 for a cash-out refinance.

•  DTI ratio Lenders will likely also consider your debt-to-income (DTI) ratio — which compares your monthly debt payments to monthly gross monthly income — to gauge whether you can take on additional debt. For a cash-out refinance, many lenders require a DTI no higher than 43%.

•  Sufficient equity You typically need to be able to maintain at least 20% percent equity after the cash-out refinance. This cushion also benefits you as a borrower — if the market changes and your home loses value, you don’t want to end up underwater on your mortgage.

•  Length of ownership You typically need to have owned your home for at least six months to get a cash-out refinance.

Tax Considerations

The money you get from your cash-out refinance is not considered taxable income. Also, If you use the funds you receive to buy, build, or substantially improve your home, you may be able to deduct the interest you pay on the cash portion from your income when you file your tax return every year (if you itemize deductions). If you use the funds from a cash-out refinance for other purposes, such as paying off high-interest credit card debt or covering the cost of college tuition, however, the interest paid on the cash-out portion of your new loan isn’t deductible. However, the existing mortgage balance is (up to certain limits). You’ll want to check with a tax professional for details on how a cash-out refi may impact your taxes.

Cash-Out Refi vs Home Equity Loan or HELOC

If you’re looking to access a lump sum of cash to consolidate debt or to cover a large expense, a cash-out refinance isn’t your only option. Here are some others you may want to consider.

Home Equity Line of Credit

A home equity line of credit (HELOC) is a revolving line of credit that works in a similar way to a credit card — you borrow what you need when you need it and only pay interest on the amount you borrow. Because a HELOC is secured by the equity you have in your home, however, it usually offers a higher credit limit and lower interest rate than a credit card.

HELOCs generally have a variable interest rate and an initial draw period, which can last as long as 10 years. During that time, you can make interest-only payments. After the draw period ends, the credit line closes and payments of principal and interest begin. Keep in mind that HELOC payments are in addition to your current mortgage (if you have one), since the HELOC doesn’t replace your mortgage.

Home Equity Loan

A home equity loan allows you to borrow a lump sum of money at a fixed interest rate you then repay by making fixed payments over a set term, often five to 30 years. Interest rates tend to be higher than for a cash-out refinance.

As with a HELOC, taking out a home equity loan means you will be making two monthly home loan payments: one for your original mortgage and one for your new equity loan. A cash-out refinance, on the other hand, replaces your existing mortgage with a new one, resetting your mortgage term in the process.

Personal Loan

A personal loan provides you with a lump sum of money, which you can use for virtually any purpose. The loans typically come with a fixed interest rate and involve making fixed payments over a set term, typically one to five years. Unlike home equity loans, HELOCs, and cash-out refinances, these loans are typically unsecured, meaning you don’t use your home or any other asset as collateral for the loan. Personal loans usually come with higher interest rates than loans that are secured by collateral.

Pros of Cash-Out Refinancing

•  A lower mortgage interest rate With a cash-out refinance, you might be able to swap out a higher original interest rate for a lower one.

•  Lower borrowing costs A cash-out refinance can be less expensive than other types of financing, such as personal loans or credit cards.

•  May build credit If you use a cash-out refinance to pay off high-interest credit card debt, it could reduce your credit utilization (how much of your available credit you are using), a significant factor in your credit score.

•  Potential tax deduction If you use the funds for qualified home improvements, you may be able to deduct the interest on the loan when you file your taxes.

Cons of Cash-Out Refinancing

•  Higher cost than a standard refinance Because a cash-out refinance leads to less equity in your home (which poses added risk to a lender), the interest rate, fees, and closing costs are often higher than they are with a regular refinance.

•  Mortgage insurance If you take out more than 80% of your home’s equity, you will likely need to purchase private mortgage insurance (PMI).

•  Longer debt repayment If you use a cash-out refinance to pay off high-interest debts, you may end up paying off those debts for a longer period of time, potentially decades. While this can lower your monthly payment, it can mean paying more in total interest than you would have originally.

•  Foreclosure risk If you borrow more than you can afford to pay back with a cash-out refinance, you risk losing your home to foreclosure.

Is a Cash-Out Refi Right for You?

If you need access to a lump sum of cash to make home improvements or for another expense, and have been thinking about refinancing your mortgage, a cash-out refinance might be a smart move. Due to the collateral involved in a cash-out refinance (your home), rates can be lower than for other types of financing. And, unlike a home equity loan or HELOC, you’ll have one, rather than two payments to make.

Just keep in mind that, as with any type of refinance, a cash-out refi means getting a new loan with different rates and terms than your current mortgage, as well as a new payment schedule.

The Takeaway

A cash-out refinance can be a useful way to obtain better mortgage terms and get extra money to fund important projects or emergency needs. Since it draws on the equity in your house, it can be a particularly good strategy to use when you want to make improvements in your home that will increase its value.

Turn your home equity into cash with a cash-out refi. Pay down high-interest debt, or increase your home’s value with a remodel. Get your rate in a matter of minutes, without affecting your credit score.*

FAQ

Are there limitations on what the cash in a cash-out refinance can be used for?

No, you can use the cash from a cash-out refinance for anything you like. Ideally, you’ll want to use it for a project that will ultimately improve your financial situation, such as improvements to your home.

How much can you cash out with a cash-out refinance?

Often lenders will allow you to borrow up to 80% of your home’s value, including both the existing loan balance and the amount you want to take out in the form of cash. However, exactly how much you can cash out will depend on your income and credit history. Also, you typically need to be able to maintain at least 20% percent equity in your home after the cash-out refinance.

Does a borrower’s credit score affect how much they can cash out?

Yes. Lenders will typically look at your credit score, as well as other factors, to determine how large a loan they will offer you for a cash-out refinance, and at what interest rate. Generally, you need a minimum score of 620 for a cash-out refinance.

Does a cash-out refi hurt your credit?

A cash-out refinance can affect your credit score in several ways, though most of them are minor.

For one, applying for the loan will trigger a hard pull, which can result in a slight, temporary drop in your credit score. Replacing your old mortgage with a new mortgage will also lower the average age of your credit accounts, which could potentially have a small, negative impact on your score.

However, if you use a cash-out refinance to pay off debt, you might see a boost to your credit score if your credit utilization ratio drops. Credit utilization, or how much you’re borrowing compared to what’s available to you, is a critical factor in your score.

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Many parents are thinking about financial literacy in a new light. Money has always been complicated, but the world of digital transactions and ready credit has made it even more so. But because personal finance classes in schools may not be required, it’s largely up to parents to help their kids become money savvy.

Parents can try to set their kids on the right path by teaching them the investment basics you wish you’d learned when you were young. Here are some actionable, age-appropriate tips for teaching your kids about investing.

Set the Stage: From Saving to Investing

If your children have their own savings accounts, or even a piggy bank, you’re off to a good start. But at some point, you can start introducing more advanced financial topics (with examples whenever possible). Every kid is different, so you’ll have to gauge your children’s interest and comprehension. These are some concepts to discuss.

Risk vs Reward

Conventional wisdom says that the riskier the investment, the higher the payout. But the opposite is also true. The riskier the investment, the more you can lose.

Explain to kids that unlike a savings account, which is safe but grows money slowly, an investment account usually carries more risk, so it may grow faster but it also may lose money.

Diversifying Investments

Even a young child should be able to understand diversification by the phrase “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.” When teaching older kids, you can give examples of different types of investments — stocks, bonds, mutual funds, real estate, and other investments — and explain the role each might play in a portfolio.

Supply and Demand

The stock market is generally driven by supply and demand. If more investors demand to own stocks, the market rises. If there are more sellers than buyers, the market falls. As an example, you might be able to talk about how the price of a hard-to-get toy drops over time, or how clothes get cheaper when they’re out of season.

Researching Investments

If you have children who love to look up things online, why not make the most of that interest and skill set? Ask them about the companies they think might be a good investment, and then check out the reality. (Some of their favorite brands may be privately traded, so that’s another conversation you can have.)

Older kids can look for news stories that summarize analysts’ reports.

Gaming and the Market

Another way to get older kids interested in investing? Let them learn and practice trading with an online game or app. There are many options out there, including animated games that give kids a goal and ask them to make investment choices about getting there.

Play Follow the Market

Once your kids understand a little bit about how the stock market works, you can begin following the markets together and track how they’d do if they were actually invested in a particular stock, for example. Older kids might like to create an online watch list of their favorites on finance sites where they can watch market movements without risking actual cash.

Go Buy the Book

It might sound like a pretty old-school way to explain investing to kids, but there are books out there that include plenty of illustrations, fun language, and important lessons, including these:

What All Kids (and Adults Too) Should Know About … Savings and Investing, by Rob Pivnick, covers saving, budgeting and investing.

Go! Stock! Go!: A Stock Market Guide for Enterprising Children and Their Curious Parents, by Bennett Zimmerman, follows the Johnson family as they learn the fundamentals of stocks and bonds, the mechanics of investing, and the ups and downs of risk and reward.

I’m a Shareholder Kit: The Basics About Stocks — For Kids/Teens, by Rick Roman, is a spiral-bound book that was last updated in May 2018 and is designed to appeal to kids who want to know about investing and managing their money.


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Make It Real With a Custodial Account

If you want to give kids a taste of what investing is like, you can open a custodial account and either make some picks yourself or let your children do the choosing.

Custodial accounts give kids financial visibility but limited responsibility because they are not allowed access to the account’s money or assets. In almost all cases, the parent is responsible for managing the money until their child reaches adulthood.

Many discount brokers offer investment accounts for kids online. Some brokers have also introduced hybrid products for teens that allow them to save money, spend, and invest all in one place with the supervision of their parents.

What to Invest in

One way to make the lesson more meaningful might be to think about the things that are important to the kids at each stage of life and pick a stock that represents it. (The company that makes their favorite snacks, for example, a top toy brand, or a clothing label.)

As your children get older, they can have more input, and you can talk about how dividends work, the power of compounding returns, and what it means to buy and hold. If your kids can’t decide between two companies, they can work together to research the better choice.

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It’s important to note that there are pros and cons to creating investing portfolios for minors, so you’ll likely want to check out any consequences related to future taxes and when the child applies for financial aid for college.

Discuss Compounding Returns

Want to show your kids the magic of compounding interest? The Compound Interest Calculator on the Securities and Exchange Commission’s Investor.gov website is easy to use and understand. Just plug in an initial amount, how much you expect to add each month, and the interest rate you expect to earn. The calculator will chart out an estimate of how much your child’s initial deposit would grow over time.

To take it a step further, you can teach your children to use the “Rule of 72” to compare different types of investments. According to this rule, money doubles at a rate where 72 is divided by the percentage gain. So, if your child is looking at an investment that returns 4% annually, it will double in 18 years, or 72 divided by 4.

Share Your Own Family’s Adventures in Investing

Whether it’s a success story or a cautionary tale, kids can learn a lot from their family history. For example, in a conversation about the value of investing and goal-setting, you could talk about how your parents and grandparents made and saved their money vs. how it’s done today. Focus on storytelling instead of lecturing, and encourage questions to keep kids involved.

The Takeaway

There are many ways to introduce kids of all ages to the concept of investing. The simplest one is to share with them your own investing history and perspectives. Beyond that, use websites, videos, books, and other tools — including a custodial account, if you want — to illustrate the how-tos, dos, and don’ts of investing.

Keep it fun, and don’t forget to share some of your own goals and financial plans with your kids. Kids learn by participating in real life. Someday your adult children might be telling tales around the dinner table about how your lessons helped advance their financial savvy.

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