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You’re undoubtedly used to those bills coming in every month, such as your housing costs, food, and car insurance, but you may sometimes wonder if there’s a way to better manage them. Budgeting for your recurring living expenses can help you take control of your cash and spend and save smarter.

While there are various techniques you could use, a good starting point can be to first get a handle on your needs vs. wants and next determine which budget technique will work best for you.

What Are Living Expenses?

Basic living expenses, as the name implies, are ones necessary for daily living, with main categories including housing, food, clothing, transportation, healthcare, and relevant miscellaneous costs.

Although not everyone would define basic living expenses in the exact same way, here is a breakdown of expenses to consider.

Housing

For homeowners, this can include their mortgage payment, property tax, and insurance payments, along with monthly utilities and basic maintenance costs.

If living in a condo, this includes condominium fees. For renters, it can include the monthly rent payment, utilities, renters insurance, and any other housing-related costs they’re responsible for paying.

Food and Beverage

Basic expenses would include buying groceries for the family, but not restaurant food or other optional food or drink expenses. So while, yes, dinner at a sushi restaurant is technically food, dining out doesn’t count as a basic living expense. You could do without it.

Clothing

This includes clothes for work and school for the family, plus footwear, underwear, outerwear, casual clothing, pajamas, and so forth. Designer clothing and other pricier items are typically not categorized in basic living expenses. The same holds true for buying a cool sweater that’s on sale but you don’t truly need it.

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Healthcare

Expenses in this category can range from monthly payments for healthcare insurance, to copays and additional bills from doctors, dentists, specialists, and so forth. It also includes copays for prescription medications and over-the-counter meds.

Transportation

Transportation expenses can include car payments and insurance, gas, and maintenance. It can also include Uber and taxi expenses, public transportation tickets, parking fees, and so forth.

Other Expenses

Cleaning supplies for the home or apartment, personal care items, cell phone and internet bills, and similar items can also be included in a list of basic living expenses.

Minimum Debt Payments

Not to be overlooked are making sure you stay current on such things as student, car, and personal loan payments, as well as at least the minimum due on credit cards.

Average Living Expenses in the USA

The average living expenses can vary greatly depending on where you live and your household size. Here is a snapshot of a few locations across the country and how much monthly living expenses are, using data from the Economic Policy Institute.

Wants Versus Needs

The challenge, in many of these categories, can be to successfully determine which of these expenses are truly needed and which are extras that would be more appropriately categorized as “wants.” In and of itself, there’s nothing wrong with paying for “wants” that fit within the budget but, for the purposes of making a basic living expense budget, it’s important to tease them apart.

Paying a cell phone bill, for example, could be considered important for safety and to facilitate communicating with work and family. Getting the latest and greatest cell phone for its bells and whistles, meanwhile, is crossing over into a want, not a need.

In the 1970s, something called the Growth-Share Matrix was developed, and it may help people who are wondering how to categorize living expenses and then prioritize them. The process includes listing all expenses, and then putting wants in one column and needs in another. Each column can then be divided into high or low priority. So, when budgeting living expenses, there would be four categories:

•   High-priority needs

•   High-priority wants

•   Low-priority needs

•   Low-priority wants

Another way to name these categories is:

•   Must have

•   Should have

•   Could have

•   Won’t have

This makes it easier to see what must be paid and what is optional. When making a budget, it can make it easier to choose where to put any discretionary funds. In other words, these methods may be able to help people answer these questions: What are living expenses that must be paid? Which ones are more optional?

When making a budget, it’s important to also account for any credit card payments, personal loan payments, student loan payments, and other debts that must be paid. After documenting all these expenses, figuring out how to calculate living expenses is as easy as some quick math. Figuring out how to budget for these expenses is the next item on the agenda.

Allocating Your Income

Although no two financial situations or budgets are exactly the same, there’s been a long-standing rule of thumb when making a budget that says people shouldn’t spend more than 30% of their after-tax income on housing.

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics’ most recent analysis of how people spend their income, the percentages stack up as follows:

•   Housing: 32.9%

•   Transportation: 17%

•   Food: 12.9%

•   Personal insurance/pensions: 12.4%

•   Healthcare: 8%

•   Apparel and services: 1.2%

This accounts for nearly 85% of what people, on average, have been spending. It shows that, on average, people are slightly above the recommended percentage for housing expenses.

3 Types of Living Expense Budgeting Methods

There are numerous ways to craft a budget; in fact, we’ve created a guide to cover the different types of budgeting methods. One of the keys to effective budgeting is picking a strategy that allows for consistency. Here are some approaches to consider:

1. Proportional Budget

For people who have divided up their expenses into needs and wants, proportional budgets may make sense. This is a budgetary strategy where monthly income is divided into three categories:

•   Needs

•   Wants

•   Savings

In one type of proportional budget, known as the 50/30/20 rule, 50% of income would go towards needs; 30% towards wants; and 20% towards savings and debt repayment beyond the minimum. It typically makes sense to do this calculation with after-tax income, which is take-home pay.

Advantages of a proportional budget include that it’s a simple formula, which may make it easier to stick to. Plus, it keeps a focus on the big picture, clearly distinguishing between needs and wants. It can also be a useful method for people who want to save money in a straightforward way.

However, this budget method may not work well for people who are still working on separating needs from wants. And if a person’s needs currently take up more than 50% of income earned, then the 50/30/20 percentage breakdown may work as a goal vs. something that can be fully implemented right away.

Recommended: 50/30/20 Calculator

2. Line-Item Budget

A line-item budget is a granular method where you track expenditures, line by line, in relevant categories. This can be helpful for people who want to keep their focus on spending money on basic living expenses because they can easily see how much of their money is going into what category.

This approach offers clear financial tracking and detailed insights into spending patterns, but lacks flexibility and can be time-consuming to manage.

3. Envelope Budget

The envelope system is another way to create a household budget, and it may be the most hands-on way to manage money. People using this method withdraw enough money from the bank each month to cover each budget category. Then, they put the appropriate amount for each category in a separate envelope: housing expenses in one, grocery expenses in another, and so on.

Once a particular envelope is empty, then no more money can be spent in that category for that month, unless cash is taken from another envelope, which reduces the amount that can be spent on that envelope’s category.

This method can work well for people who appreciate a tactile way of handling money. If you’d prefer not to work with cash, you can adapt the envelope method to a cashless system using digital tools like a budgeting app or spreadsheet.

Recommended: Money Management Guide

Budgeting Tips

Here’s some advice as you create and live on a budget:

•   When creating a budget, look for expenses that can be eliminated or at least reduced. For example, you might cut a streaming service or two or drop all that you subscribe to and find free entertainment through your public library’s resources.

•   It is also wise to incorporate savings into a budget. If you don’t already have a healthy emergency savings fund, you might first focus on that. “You’ll hear that a healthy emergency fund should cover between three and six months’ worth of living expenses — rent or mortgage, bills, food, and other essentials,” says Brian Walsh, CFP® and Head of Advice & Planning at SoFi. “Since you never know when an emergency might happen, it’s best to keep your fund relatively liquid.” Once that’s funded, you might then save for other personal goals, including retirement.

•   Consistency is key. When budgeting is a part of daily life, it can make it much easier to reach financial goals than when it’s a sporadic activity. If budgeting fades from focus for a month, don’t quit. Get right back on track.

•   Finally, when help is needed, ask for it, whether from trusted friends and/or relatives or a qualified financial advisor.

What If Your Income Doesn’t Cover Your Living Costs?

If your income doesn’t cover your living expenses, you have two options (or you could do a combination of both):

•   Reduce your expenses. You might take a roommate, move in with a family member for a while, start shopping at warehouse clubs, or decide not to eat out as often.

•   Increase your income. This might mean looking for a new job, training up for a different career, or starting a side hustle.

These methods can help you cover your living costs. Worth noting: If part of the issue is considerable debt that is negatively impacting your spending power, you might meet with a nonprofit credit counselor for advice on eliminating that drain on your funds.

The Takeaway

Understanding and managing your living expenses is a critical step toward achieving financial stability. By clearly identifying your needs vs. wants and choosing a budgeting method that fits your lifestyle, you can take better control of your money and make more informed financial decisions.

Whether you’re looking to trim costs or boost your earrings, smart budgeting can help you live within your means and work towards your financial goals. Your financial institution may offer tools to help you track your money and budget successfully.

Interested in opening an online bank account? When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with eligible direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.

FAQ

What are considered living expenses?

Living expenses are the minimum expenditures needed to survive. They typically include housing and utilities, food, clothing, healthcare, insurance, and minimum debt payments.

What is the average living cost in the U.S.A.?

The average monthly expenses for American households total $6,440, according to the most recent Consumer Expenditure Survey from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS).

What salary is needed to live comfortably in the U.S.A.?

The salary needed to live comfortably in the U.S. will depend on many factors, such as cost of living, location, and household size and configuration. In Bankrate’s 2025 Financial Freedom Survey, nearly half (45%) of all adults said they would need to make $100,000 or more a year to feel financially secure; roughly one-quarter (26%) said they need to make $150,000 or more; and a smaller group (16%) said they would require over $200,000.

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If you have a bank account, cashing a check is a simple process; you just deposit it and can then use the funds once it’s cleared.

However, about 4.5% of American households don’t have a bank account, according to a recent study from the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation. They must therefore rely on alternative methods to cash a check. These workarounds can take a bit of time and energy, but can help you access cash if you are in this situation.

Here, you’ll learn about how you can cash a check if you don’t have a bank account or can’t use it for some reason. You’ll find out the pros and cons of each technique, as well as some important information about using checks and checking accounts.

7 Places Where You Can Cash a Check

There are several ways to cash a check if you don’t have a bank account. Some of these alternatives may come with fees or extra legwork. And some may have restrictions on the dollar amount they will cash. Here’s a closer look at the different ways you can cash a personal or business check without a bank account.

1. Cash the Check at the Issuing Bank

Look at the check to see which bank issued it and if there is a brick-and-mortar branch near you. Sometimes that bank will allow a non-customer to cash a personal check without a bank account if the payee comes in person. The teller can usually determine whether funds are available. The same often holds true for business checks.

•  Those that do provide this service often charge a flat fee (say, $8) or percentage of the check amount.

•  Some large banks will cash a check under a certain amount, $5,000 for example, without a fee.

•  Worth noting: If a bank does collect a fee, it may try to persuade the non-customer to open an account to avoid paying that charge.

2. Cash at a Retailer

Where else can you cash a check without a bank account? Several retailers such as Walmart and some grocery-store chains offer check-cashing services through their customer-service departments, usually for a flat fee based on the size of the check. For instance, at Walmart, there is a $4 fee for checks of up to $1,000 and a $8 fee for those over $1,000.

The amount charged and restrictions on the types of checks cashed will vary, however. For this reason, it’s important to check with each retailer in your area that offers this service to find one that works for your situation.

3. Payday Lending Store

Stand-alone check-cashing and payday-lending stores will cash many types of checks of varying amounts. However, the problem with payday loan check cashing services is that they are often the most expensive, charging a percentage of the check amount as well as a flat fee. For many people, this is best thought of as a last-chance option.


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4. Prepaid Debit Cards

Some banks and financial institutions allow unbanked consumers to deposit checks directly to a prepaid debit card. Some big banks allow you to use their ATM system to deposit checks onto the card for a monthly service fee.

In other cases, using an app, you can use your smartphone to take pictures of your checks and deposit them into any type of account, including a prepaid card. This is often free, but you may have to wait up to 10 days before the funds from the check are available. In some cases, you can pay a relatively large fee, usually about 2% to 5% of the check value, for quicker access to the funds.

5. Employer-Sponsored Payroll Debit Card

Some large employers have programs that allow you to deposit your paycheck directly onto a reusable debit card. Be sure to look at the various types of fees associated with these cards. You may wind up paying overdraft, ATM, transfer, and inactivity fees in addition to general service fees.

6. Sign Your Check Over to Someone Else

Another option would be to sign a check over to a trusted friend or relative. This person could then deposit the check in their account and withdraw the funds, once available, and give them to you.

This is a simple process. Some verification is involved, and then you usually just need to write “Pay to the order of” and the name of the person on the back of the check and then sign it. However, it’s vital that this person can be relied upon to give you the cash once they deposit the check in their checking account and it clears.

7. Check Cashing Outlet

If you need to cash a check without a bank account, you could also visit a check cashing outlet. This can be expensive, though: Fees can be around 10% of the check’s value.

Here, consider the pros and cons of each in chart form:

What to Consider Before Cashing a Check

To help determine which check-cashing option is best for you, keep the following in mind.

Check Amount

In general, larger checks are harder and more expensive to cash without a bank account than smaller sums. Walmart, for instance, will usually only cash checks up to $5,000 or $7,500.

Check-cashing stores may have similar limits, or higher fees for larger checks. For large checks, depositing into a prepaid debit card may be the best option.

Fees

As we’ve seen above, almost every non-bank checking service entails fees when cashing your check. They can vary widely, with check-cashing and payday-lending stores usually being the most expensive.

It can pay to look for the least expensive alternative in your area, especially if you are able to access the bank that issued the check.

Identification Requirements

To show that the check rightfully belongs to you, you’ll need to show at least one form of government-issued identification, such as a license or passport. With large checks, you may be required to show two forms of ID.

Recommended: How to Write a Check to Yourself

Personal Checks

Personal checks can be more difficult to cash without a bank account than government-issued or payroll checks. Many check-cashing stores won’t accept any personal checks, and retailers may have lower limits on how much they’ll cash, usually a couple hundred dollars.

Here’s one workaround: Ask the person writing you the personal check to send a money order or cashier’s check instead.

Can You Cash a Check Without ID?

To cash a check without ID, you have a few options:

•  Check with the issuing bank and see if they will allow you to cash it without identification or with an alternative method of identification.

•  Sign the check over to someone else, have them cash it, and give you the funds.

•  If you have an account but no ID, deposit the check, wait for it to process, and then withdraw the funds.

•  Use ATM check cashing, if possible.

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How to Cash a Large Check Without a Bank Account

The methods for cashing a large check without a bank account are similar to methods for cashing any other check. You will likely want to be a bit more cautious and double-check the process in advance:

•  Sign the check over to a trusted friend or relative

•  Visit a check-cashing outlet.

Opening a Bank Account

Cashing a check without a bank account can often be costly and inconvenient. After exploring the options above, you may find that your best option for the long term involves opening a bank account. A bank account makes saving and spending easy, safe and flexible. Some points to consider when opening an account:

•  What do you need to open a checking account? You’ll usually need to make sure you qualify for an account, have an ID, and be willing to share basic personal information such as your birthdate, address, phone, social security number, etc. You’ll also need an initial deposit, which can often be as little as $25.

•  Keep in mind, most banks have a minimum age to open a bank account; they won’t allow those under 18 to have an account without a parent or guardian as the joint owner.

•  If you have a history of banking issues, such as unpaid overdraft fees, you may not qualify for a traditional checking account. Instead, you may want to consider what’s known as a second-chance account, offered by many lenders. These accounts often charge a monthly fee and come with more restrictions than a traditional checking account. That said, many allow solid customers the opportunity to convert to a regular checking account in six months to a year.

The Takeaway

It is possible to cash a check without a bank account. Options include signing the check over to a trusted friend to cash it and give you the funds, seeing if the issuing bank will cash it, using the check to buy prepaid debit cards, and other tactics.

That said, opening a bank account can be a simple process and can provide not just check cashing but the foundation for your daily financial life.

Interested in opening an online bank account? When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with eligible direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.

FAQ

Can I cash a $5000 check without a bank account?

You will likely be able to cash a $5000 check at a retailer, such as Walmart, or at a check cashing outlet. Inquire about fees, though, before proceeding to be sure you are prepared.

How can I cash a large check immediately?

To cash a large check immediately, try your bank if you have one or the bank that issued the check. You might also be able to cash it by signing it over to a friend or relative who can give you the cash once it clears, buying prepaid debit cards with it, or going to a check cashing outlet.

What bank will cash a check without an account?

It’s often best to go to the bank that issued the check and see if they will cash it. They will be able to verify that the funds are available and may be willing to give you the money.

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Annual percentage yield (APY) is variable and subject to change at any time. Rates are current as of 11/12/25. There is no minimum balance requirement. Fees may reduce earnings. Additional rates and information can be found at https://www.sofi.com/legal/banking-rate-sheet

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Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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Students want to see one word when they get letters from their prospective colleges: accepted. Unfortunately, that likely isn’t going to be the result every time. Some students will end up on the college waitlist, but that doesn’t mean they won’t be accepted eventually.

Being waitlisted is not the same as being rejected. There’s still a possibility of getting accepted and attending that dream school.

Keep reading to learn more on what it means to be waitlisted for college and what to do if that happens.

What Does It Mean to Be Waitlisted?

Being waitlisted for college means you’re still up for consideration based on how many spaces are left after decision day. Getting accepted from the waitlist depends on how many accepted students choose to attend the school.

Decision day is May 1, when incoming freshmen are required to notify schools whether they will be attending or not. If not enough students accept their invites for schools to meet enrollment numbers, then students on the waitlist will be reevaluated and potentially accepted.

There’s no guarantee that accepting a spot on the waitlist will lead to being admitted, but that doesn’t mean you should give up. There are still things you can do to boost your chances.

Waitlisted or Deferred?

In some cases, a student may receive a letter saying they’ve been deferred rather than being put on the waitlist. So what’s the difference? A deferral usually involves students who applied for early action or early decision. These applications are generally turned in during November of senior year.

If a student applies via early action or decision and they receive a deferral, that means they have not yet been accepted but their application has been changed to regular decision. The application will be reviewed again during the regular decision time frame.

A deferral is different from a waitlist, but students who have been deferred generally want to take the same actions as those who have been waitlisted to better their chances of admission.


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What to Do When You Get Waitlisted

Students who have been waitlisted but still want to attend the school must first do one thing: Accept their position on the waitlist.

If you neglect to contact the school and accept your position, you’ll be removed from the list and won’t be considered for admission if there are spots left after decision day.

Once you’ve accepted your spot on the waitlist, there are a few steps you can take that may better your chances of being accepted. Here’s a close look.

Contact Admissions

When you receive a letter informing you that you’ve been waitlisted, there might be some instructions included. First and foremost, it’s a good idea to follow them.

Next, it’s often recommended that students contact admissions with a letter to further stress their commitment to attending the school. The letter should detail why you want to attend that school and why you believe that school is the best fit for you. You might also want to ask that the letter be kept in your file along with your other application materials.

Request an Interview

Asking for an interview can be helpful in getting off the waitlist. Meeting with someone in person may make you more memorable when it comes time to accept applicants from the waitlist.

If you already did an interview, it’s okay to request another one after receiving a waitlist decision. A second interview provides the chance to reinforce your commitment to the school and add any recent accomplishments to the conversation. This can be a great time to bring up anything special you have achieved during the spring semester.

Reserve a Spot at Your Second Choice

Even though it can be discouraging, it’s highly recommended that students who’ve been waitlisted for their first-choice school put a deposit down for their next-best option. Putting a deposit down on another school isn’t giving up on your dream school; it’s just an important safety net to ensure you have somewhere to attend.

Some students may opt to take a gap year if they don’t make it into their school of choice. This choice is highly personal, though, and there isn’t a clear recommendation on how beneficial or harmful it is. Some students may find a gap year useful and productive, while others may find that it deters them from going back to school on time.

Anyone committed to attending college in the fall will likely find it a smart move to put a deposit down on their second- or even third-place school, and then continue working on getting accepted off the waitlist for their first choice.

Recommended: How Many Colleges Should I Apply To?

Retake Tests

Students who did not score well on the SAT or ACT may want to consider retaking those tests if they’ve been waitlisted. Before you do that, however, it’s a good idea to contact the college to make sure it’s willing to accept additional application information. If the school will accept it, and you think you can get better scores, it could be helpful to go ahead and retake the tests.

Most colleges will accept scores from either test, but it’s best to check with each school to be sure. Both tests have a similar goal — testing for college readiness — but they vary slightly in timing and types of questions asked.

If you need to improve your test scores but have limited time or money, it may help to research the difference between the two tests and take the one you feel you can perform better on. Taking practice tests can also help you determine which test suits you better. Many students do take both tests, so that is an option as well.

Recommended: Do Your SAT Scores Really Matter for College?

Don’t Give Up

Make the end of senior year impressive. Don’t let that waitlist cause discouragement. If you truly want to make it off the waitlist, you’ll want to work even harder at the end of your senior year. Senior grades can still affect admissions, so keeping them high may help those who are on the waitlist.

If you still don’t get accepted to your dream school, it doesn’t mean you have to give up. Even if you’re not accepted from the waitlist, there are still a couple of options. You can accept admission from a different school and aim to transfer to your dream school after one to two years. This allows time to earn good grades, get the necessary credits, then transfer.

If your plan is to transfer schools, however, you’ll want to work closely with your counselor to make sure you’re taking the correct courses and carefully consider your choice of major, since not all credits will transfer to all schools.


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Ready to Start. What’s Next?

Whether you make it off the waitlist and get into your dream school or choose to accept admission at your second choice, you’ll be faced with tuition. So how to cover the cost of college? Tuition, fees, books, food, plus all the other costs of living adds up quickly.

Luckily, there are resources available to help students finance their college education. The first step for most should be filling out the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA®). The application will determine eligibility to receive federal aid. The eligibility for undergraduates to receive aid is most often based on their parents’ income. This process will inform students of how much federal aid they can receive, and what kind.

Federal aid can come in the form of grants, loans, and work-study. Grants don’t need to be repaid (unless you withdraw from school and owe a refund), but loans do. Federal loans come with some benefits that students won’t get with private student loans, including income-driven repayment plans and potentially lower interest rates.

Another option for funding the college experience is a private scholarship. There are a wide variety of scholarships available, with different eligibility requirements for each one. Some scholarships are need-based; some are merit-based.

If you can’t finance college completely with federal aid and scholarships, private student loans are also available. The eligibility for private student loans is usually based on the student’s (or cosigner’s) income and credit history. Rates and terms vary by lender, so it’s important for students to research their options before making a choice.

The Takeaway

If you find yourself waitlisted for college, it’s important to stay proactive and positive. Follow the steps outlined, such as submitting additional materials, staying in touch with the admissions office, and preparing for other options. While the wait can be stressful, remember that many students are admitted from the waitlist each year.

While you wait, you can also be proactive about finding ways to pay for college. This includes searching for scholarships and grants, applying for federal and private student loans, and possibly working a part-time job to save money.

If you’ve exhausted all federal student aid options, no-fee private student loans from SoFi can help you pay for school. The online application process is easy, and you can see rates and terms in just minutes. Repayment plans are flexible, so you can find an option that works for your financial plan and budget.

FAQ

Do waitlisted students usually get accepted?

Waitlisted students have a varied chance of acceptance, often lower than initially admitted students. The likelihood depends on the college’s enrollment needs and the strength of the waitlist. Some schools accept a significant number of waitlisted students, while others accept very few. Stay proactive and explore other options.

Is a waitlist basically a rejection?

A waitlist is not a rejection but a deferred decision. It means the college is interested in you but needs to see how their admissions process plays out. While it’s uncertain, it’s not the end of the road. Stay engaged and keep your options open.

How long do college waitlists last?

College waitlists can last several weeks to months, often until the school has a clearer picture of its enrollment. Some colleges may notify waitlisted students by May, while others wait until the summer. It’s important to stay patient and keep in touch with the admissions office.

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A credit card can be a useful financial tool and offer a number of perks, from the opportunity to build your credit to the chance to rake in lucrative rewards. However, using a credit card responsibly is key to enjoying those benefits. Otherwise, a credit card could harm your financial well-being rather than help it.

Using a credit card responsibly involves sticking to basic rules like making on-time payments and avoiding practices such as spending more with your card than you can afford to pay off. By learning some tips for how to use a credit card responsibly, you can make the most out of this financial tool.

How Do Credit Cards Work?

A credit card is a payment card that offers access to a revolving line of credit. You can tap into this credit line for a variety of purposes, including making purchases, completing balance transfers, and taking out a cash advance. Cardholders can borrow up to their credit limit, which is largely determined based on their creditworthiness and represents the maximum amount they can borrow.

It’s necessary to make at least a minimum payment by the due date each month in order to avoid a late fee. However, to avoid paying interest entirely, cardholders must pay off their balance in full each month; interest accrues on any balance that rolls over from month to month.

Many credit card companies charge compounding interest, which means that not only will you owe interest on any outstanding balance, you’ll also end up paying interest on the interest. That’s because this interest is calculated continually, then added to your balance, and it may be compounded daily. You may be shocked to see how much credit card interest you’ll pay if you only make the minimum payment each month.

Understanding Your Statement

A crucial component of knowing how credit cards work is understanding your monthly credit card statement. Your statement contains a number of important pieces of information about your credit card account, including:

•   Your account information

•   Your account summary, including your payment due date

•   All purchases made with the card

•   Your total credit card balance

•   The minimum payment due

•   When the credit card payment is due

•   Your available credit

•   Interest charges

•   Rewards summary

Many of these details are key to know in order to ensure you’re using a credit card wisely. For instance, knowing your payment due date will ensure you make your payment on time, avoiding any late fees and a ding to your credit score.

Checking on your available credit can help you ensure you’re not using too much of your credit, which can drive up your credit utilization rate and subsequently drag down your score.

10 Tips For Using a Credit Card Responsibly

To make the most of your credit card, here are several credit card rules to keep in mind — as well as some guidance on what credit card behavior to avoid.

1. Avoid Making Too Many Impulse Purchases

To use a credit card responsibly, you want to avoid overspending with it. How many purchases are “too many” depends upon how much your impulse buys cost and how easily they fit into your budget. Say you know you can pay off your credit card balance and otherwise meet your monthly expenses and savings and other financial goals. That’s an entirely different situation from one in which your impulse purchases are too costly to promptly pay off and/or prevent you from meeting other financial responsibilities or goals.

If you enjoy making spontaneous buys, you may consider including this as a line item in your monthly budget and then sticking to it. This could add enjoyment to your life without causing financial problems down the road.

2. Use the Right Credit Card

There are a variety of different types of credit cards, and depending on how you plan to use your credit card, one option may make more sense than another. Some credit cards are there to help you build your credit, while others pay out generous rewards.

Selecting which card is right for you requires a look at your financial habits and current situation. For example, if you know that you often end up needing to carry a balance, then it may make sense to find a card that prioritizes low interest rates. Or say you’re a frequent vacationer — in that case, you might benefit from a travel rewards card.

3. Take Advantage of Benefits Offered

Interested in another way to use your credit card responsibly? Signing up for eligible rewards programs like SoFi Plus can help cardholders make the most of their card.

Also know that each type of credit card may have slightly different reward programs. See what the full range perks offered by your card are — and if you’re not sure, check the card’s website or ask the credit card company for specifics. For example, you might need help understanding what unlimited cash back really means in terms of how you might benefit.

Once you know what perks are available, you can use them strategically. You may discover that the card(s) you have don’t provide the best benefits for you. For example, maybe your card offers one of its highest rewards rates for gas purchases, but you don’t do much driving. In that case, you might be better served by a rewards card that offers a flat rewards rate or that prioritizes a category in which you’re a frequent spender.

Finally, if you’re earning rewards points, it’s also important to consider the best way to use them. Sometimes it’s possible to get a bigger bang for your buck if, say, you use your rewards points at an approved store rather than opting for cash back.

4. Sign Up for Automatic Payments

To avoid missing payments or making them late, consider signing up for automatic payments or autopay. By enrolling in autopay, you’ll regularly have money transferred from a linked account each month in order to cover the amount due (or at least the minimum payment required).

Another option is to sign up for automatic reminders about payment due dates (by text, for example, or by email). You can do this through the credit card company or via a calendar app.

What’s most important is coming up with a plan that works best for you to ensure you make your payments on time. Otherwise, you could face late fees and adverse effects to your credit score.

Recommended: Does Applying For a Credit Card Hurt Your Credit Score?

5. Regularly Check Your Statements

Mistakes do happen on credit card statements and, unfortunately, fraudulent activities could impact your account. Check your statement every month to ensure that you made all the charges that appear, and that any payments you’ve made are accurately reflected.

If something is missing, review the statement dates to see if the transaction may have happened right after the statement cut-off date, for instance. If something seems off, contact your credit card company for clarification. In the case of any potentially fraudulent activity, it’s important to report credit card fraud to your credit card company immediately.

6. Pay More Than the Minimum

You’ve just read about how credit card interest works, so you’ll remember that only making the minimum payment doesn’t get you out of paying interest. To avoid credit card interest charges, you’ll need to pay off your monthly statement balance in full.

Understandably, this isn’t always possible, but even then, it still helps to pay as much above the minimum as you can afford to. This will at least cut down on the outstanding balance that accrues interest.

7. Don’t Close Out Old Cards

While it might seem logical to close out an older credit card you’re no longer using, you’ll want to think twice before you cancel a credit card. That’s because doing so can negatively impact your credit.

For starters, canceling a credit card will lower your credit utilization rate, which compares your total outstanding balance to your overall available credit limit. Closing out a card will cause you to lose that card’s credit limit, thus lowering the amount of credit you have available.

Closing an old card could also have an impact if the card in question is one of your older accounts. Another factor that contributes to your credit score is the age of your credit. By closing out an old account, you’ll lose that boost in age.

That being said, there are scenarios where it might make sense to close a card, such as if it charges a high annual fee. Just be mindful of the potential effects it will have on your credit before moving forward.

8. Maintain a Low Credit Utilization Rate

Another key tip for responsible credit card usage is to avoid maxing out your cards. Instead, aim to keep a lower credit utilization rate — ideally below 30%. The lower you can keep this utilization rate, the better your credit score is likely to be. Some financial experts advise keeping your utilization below 10% of your limit.


💡 Quick Tip: Aim to keep your credit utilization — the percentage of your total available credit that you’re using at any given time — below 30% (or lower). This could help you to maintain a strong credit score.

9. Avoid Unnecessary Fees

Another part of using a credit card responsibly is being aware of all of the fees you could face, and then taking steps to steer clear of those costs. Your credit card terms and conditions will spell out all of the fees associated with your card, as well as the credit card’s APR (or annual percentage rate) and the rules of its rewards program.

Many credit card fees are pretty easy to avoid. For instance, if you’ll incur a fee to send money with a credit card, simply avoid doing that and look for an alternative route. Similarly, you can avoid late payment fees by making on-time payments, and over-the-limit fees by not maxing out your credit card.

10. Avoid Applying for Too Many Cards

As you get into the swing of things with using your credit card, you may feel tempted to keep acquiring new cards, whether to keep on earning rewards or to capitalize on enticing welcome bonuses. But proceed with caution when it comes to applying for credit cards.

Applying for credit cards too frequently can raise a red flag for lenders, as it may suggest that you’re overextending yourself and desperate for funding. Plus, each time you submit an application for a credit card, this will trigger a hard inquiry, which can ding your credit score temporarily. Consider waiting at least six months between credit card applications.

The Takeaway

When used responsibly, credit cards can be helpful for a whole slew of things, from making online purchases to helping to build your credit. The key phrase to keep in mind is “when used responsibly.” To stay on top of your credit cards, tips like signing up for automatic payments, watching your utilization ratio, making the most of the rewards programming, and using the right type of credit card for your needs are all important.

Whether you're looking to build credit, apply for a new credit card, or save money with the cards you have, it's important to understand the options that are best for you. Learn more about credit cards by exploring this credit card guide.

FAQ

What are tips for effective credit card use?

Some ways to use credit effectively include paying your bill in full each month, never missing a payment due date, keeping your credit utilization low, and maximizing available rewards and perks.

What is the 2 3 4 rule for credit cards?

What is known as the 2 3 4 rule for credit cards refers to how a person should apply for new cards. This guideline says that the limits are typically for no more than two cards in 30 days, three cards in 90 days, and 4 cards in 120 days. If you go over those numbers, the credit bureaus may think that you are seeking too much credit.

What is the #1 rule of credit cards?

The top rule for credit cards and responsible usage is to always pay your balance in full and on time. This will allow you to avoid high-interest credit card debt.

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There are two options if you want to use your 401(k) to buy a house and not incur a penalty: a 401(k) loan or a hardship withdrawal. These options come with many rules and restrictions — and given the potential risk to your retirement savings, it’s wise to consider some alternatives.

Among the requirements: If you borrow money from your 401(k) to buy a primary residence, you’d have to pay back that loan with interest. If you take what’s known as a hardship withdrawal for a down payment on your principal residence, you have to meet the strict IRS criteria for “immediate and heavy financial need” for doing so.

You won’t owe tax on a 401(k) loan, but it generally must be repaid within five years. A hardship withdrawal (if you qualify) still requires that you pay income tax on the withdrawal. In addition, every workplace plan is different and may have different rules.

Before you consider using your 401k to buy a home, which could permanently reduce your retirement savings, explore alternatives like withdrawing funds from a traditional or Roth IRA, seeking help from a Down Payment Assistance Program (DAP), or seeing if you qualify for other types of home loans.

Can You Use a 401(k) to Buy a House?

A 401(k) is generally a type of employer-sponsored retirement plan, which you may be able to manage through the plan sponsor’s website (similar to investing online).

If your employer plan allows it, you can use your 401(k) to help buy a house, and it won’t be seen as an early 401(k) withdrawal with a 10% penalty. Here’s what you need to know.

2 Ways to Use Your 401(k) to Buy a House

There are only two ways you can use a 401(k) to buy a house, penalty free. Note that the following rules generally apply to other employer-sponsored plans as well, like a 403(b) or 457(b). But all retirement plans have different rules, so be sure to check the terms.

•   401(k) loan. If your plan allows you to borrow from your 401(k) to buy a house, you’ll avoid the 10% early withdrawal penalty, and you won’t owe tax on the loan. But you must repay the loan to yourself, plus interest.

•   Hardship withdrawal. If you’re under 59 ½, you may be able to take out a hardship withdrawal without incurring a 10% penalty, but only if you meet specific IRS requirements for “an immediate and heavy financial need.”

There are several conditions that qualify as a hardship, one of them is for the purchase of a primary residence, but not a second home.

You’ll owe income tax on a hardship withdrawal, regardless of the circumstances.

How Much of Your 401(k) Can Be Used for a Home Purchase?

The amount you can take out of a 401(k) depends on the method you use.

•   401(k) loan. You can generally borrow up to 50% of your vested balance, up to $50,000, whichever amount is less. If 50% of your vested balance is less than $10,000, you may be able to borrow up to $10,000.

Note that after you open an IRA, the rules for taking a withdrawal from these individual retirement accounts are different. You cannot take a loan from an IRA, for example. But you may be able to take an early withdrawal for a first-time home purchase, which is discussed below.

•   Hardship withdrawal. The limits on hardship withdrawals can be determined by your specific plan, but these withdrawals are generally limited to the amount needed to cover the financial hardship in question, plus the necessary taxes.

Depending on plan rules, a hardship withdrawal may include your elective contributions (savings) as well as earnings on those deposits. But in some cases you’re not allowed to withdraw earnings.

How a 401(k) Loan Works

It’s possible to take a loan from an existing 401(k), and in some ways this option may seem easier. Chiefly, borrowing from a 401(k) doesn’t come with the same level of credit scrutiny as taking out a conventional bank loan, and interest rates can be favorable as well.

Your employer generally sets the rules for 401(k) loans, but you typically must pay back the loan, with interest, within five years. If a person leaves their job before the loan is repaid, the balance owed could be deducted from the remainder of their 401(k) funds.

You don’t owe any income tax on a 401(k) loan. But you pay yourself interest to help offset the loss of investment growth, since the funds are no longer invested in the market. (Although having a 401(k) is different than a self-directed brokerage account, because it’s typically tax deferred, you do invest your savings in different investment options.)

You can take out a 401(k) loan for a few different reasons (e.g., qualified educational expenses, medical expenses), depending on your plan’s policies. Those using a loan to purchase a residence may have more than five years to pay back the loan.

How a 401(k) Hardship Withdrawal Works

While it’s possible to withdraw funds from your 401(k) and most other employer-sponsored plans at any time, if you do so before age 59 ½ it’s considered an early withdrawal. And though you’d owe income tax on any 401(k) withdrawal, in the case of an early withdrawal, you’d also face a 10% penalty.

There are some exceptions to the 10% penalty, one of which is for a hardship withdrawal.

In the case of an “immediate and heavy financial need,” the IRS may permit a 401(k) hardship withdrawal under specific circumstances — including for the purchase of a primary residence. Hardship withdrawals do not cover mortgage payments, but using a 401(k) for a down payment may be allowed.

Generally, the allowable amount of the hardship withdrawal is determined by the circumstances, plus applicable taxes.

The IRS has strict rules about qualifying for a hardship withdrawal. If you don’t meet them, the funds you withdraw will be subject to income tax and a 10% early withdrawal penalty. And unlike a 401(k) loan, you can’t repay the amount you withdraw, so you permanently lose that chunk of your nest egg.

Pros and Cons of Using a 401(k) to Buy a House

Here are the pros and cons of using a hardship withdrawal or a 401(k) loan, at a glance:

What Are the Rules & Penalties for Using 401(k) Funds to Buy a House?

Here’s a side-by-side look at some key differences between taking out a 401(k) loan versus taking a hardship withdrawal from a 401(k). Bear in mind that all employer-sponsored plans have their own rules, so be sure to understand the terms.

What Are the Alternatives to Using a 401(k) to Buy a House?

For some homebuyers, there may be other, more attractive options for securing a down payment instead of taking money out of a 401(k) to buy a house, depending on their situation. Here are a few of the alternatives.

Withdrawing Money From a Traditional or Roth IRA

Using a traditional or a Roth IRA to help buy a first home can be an alternative to borrowing from a 401(k) that might be beneficial for some home buyers, because you may be able to avoid the 10% penalty.

If you’re at least 59 ½, you can take a withdrawal from a traditional or Roth IRA without incurring a penalty. You will owe tax on money from a traditional IRA account, but not from a Roth IRA, as long as you’ve had the account for five years.

If you’re under 59 ½, you could face a 10% early withdrawal penalty. One exception is that a first-time home buyer can borrow up to $10,000 from an IRA without incurring a penalty. But the tax treatment differs according to the type of IRA.

•   Traditional IRA. A withdrawal for a first-time home purchase may be penalty free, but you will owe tax on the amount you withdraw.

•   Roth IRA. Contributions (i.e., deposits) can be withdrawn at any time, tax free. But earnings on contributions can only be withdrawn without a penalty starting at age 59 ½ or older, as long as you’ve held the Roth account for at least five years (a.k.a. the Roth five-year rule).

After the account has been open for five years, Roth IRA account holders who are buying their first home are allowed to withdraw up to $10,000 with no taxes or penalties. The $10,000 is a lifetime limit for a first-time home purchase, for both a traditional and a Roth IRA.

IRA funds can be used to help with the purchase of a first home not only for the account holders themselves, but for their children, parents, or grandchildren.

One important requirement to note is that time is of the essence when using an IRA to purchase a first home: The funds have to be used within 120 days of the withdrawal.

Low- and No-Down-Payment Home Loans

There are certain low- and no-down-payment home loans that homebuyers may qualify for that they can use instead of using a 401(k) for a first time home purchase. This could allow them to secure the down payment for a first home without tapping into their retirement savings.

•   FHA loans are insured by the Federal Housing Administration and allow home buyers to borrow with few requirements. Home buyers with a credit score lower than 580 qualify for a government loan with 10% down, and those with credit scores higher than 580 can get a loan with as little as 3.5% down.

•   Conventional 97 loans are Fannie Mae-backed mortgages that allow a loan-to-value ratio of up to 97% of the cost of the loan. In other words, the home buyer could purchase a house for $400,000 and borrow up to $388,000, leaving only a down payment requirement of 3%, or $12,000, to purchase the house.

•   VA loans are available for U.S. veterans, active duty members, and surviving spouses, and they require no down payment or monthly mortgage insurance payment. They’re provided by private lenders and banks and guaranteed by the United States Department of Veterans Affairs.

•   USDA loans are a type of home buyer assistance program offered by the U.S. Department of Agriculture to buy or possibly build a home in designated rural areas with an up-front guarantee fee and annual fee. Borrowers who qualify for USDA loans require no down payment and receive a fixed interest rate for the lifetime of the loan. Eligibility requirements are based on income, and vary by region.

Other Types of Down Payment Assistance

For home buyers who are ineligible for no-down payment loans, there are a few more alternatives instead of using 401(k) funds:

•   Down Payment Assistance (DAP) programs offer eligible borrowers financial assistance in paying the required down payment and closing costs associated with purchasing a home. They come in the form of grants and second mortgages, are available nationwide, can be interest-free, and sometimes have lower rates than the initial mortgage loan.

•   Certain mortgage lenders provide financial assistance by offering credits to cover all or some of the closing costs and down payment.

•   Gifted money from friends or family members can be used to cover a down payment or closing costs on certain home loans. As the recipient of the gift, you won’t owe taxes on the gift; the giver may have to pay a gift tax if the amount exceeds $19,000 for 2025.

Using Gift Funds for a Down Payment

By and large there are no restrictions on using gift funds — money given to you as a gift, not a loan — for a down payment on a home. The use of gift funds as part of a home buyer’s down payment has become more common, in fact. Nearly 40% of borrowers included some gift money as part of their downpayment, according to a 2023 survey by Zillow.

Gifts are allowed when applying for a conventional mortgage, as well as for Fannie Mae and FHA loans. In some cases, you may be required to provide a gift letter that documents that the money is a gift and not a loan. Again, the recipient generally doesn’t owe federal tax on a monetary gift, but the giver may owe a gift tax, depending on the amount.

How Using a 401(k) for a Home Purchase Affects Retirement Savings

Using your 401(k) money for anything but retirement has a very real down side, which is that it reduces the amount of money in your retirement account, even if that’s temporary, as it is with a 401(k) loan. As a result, you also lose out on any potential growth from your retirement investments.

With a 401(k) loan, you repay the amount of the loan with interest (and if you don’t you’ll owe taxes and penalties). Even so, you’ve depleted your account for a period of time, and, depending on the rules of your particular plan, you could be prohibited from making any contributions while you repay the loan.

The impact of a hardship withdrawal can be even more severe, because you’re not allowed to repay the amount you withdrew. So you lose a chunk of your savings, and you forgo the growth on that amount as well. In addition, some employer-sponsored plans may prohibit you from making contributions after taking a hardship withdrawal.

Impact on Long-Term Investment Growth

In other words, while there’s no 10% tax penalty for taking out a 401(k) loan or a hardship withdrawal, you do face a potential missed opportunity in that the amount you take out of the account is no longer invested in the market.

Thus, you lose out on any potential long-term investment growth — which can significantly cut into your potential retirement savings, when you think of the money you’re not earning, perhaps for many years.

The Takeaway

Generally speaking, a 401(k) can be used to buy a principal residence, either by taking out a 401(k) loan and repaying it with interest, or by making a 401(k) withdrawal (which is subject to income tax and a 10% withdrawal fee for people under age 59 ½).

If you meet the IRS criteria for a hardship withdrawal, though, you may avoid the 10% penalty, if your plan allows this option.

However, using a 401(k) for a home purchase is usually not advisable. Both qualified loans and hardship withdrawals have some potential drawbacks, including owing taxes and a penalty in some cases, and the potential to lose out on market growth on your savings. Fortunately, there are less risky options, as noted above. Making these choices depends on your financial situation and your goals, as well as your stomach for risk — especially where your future security is concerned.

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FAQ

What are the downsides of using a 401(k) to buy a house?

The main drawback of using funds from your 401(k), or any retirement account, is the potential loss of savings and investment earnings on that savings, which could substantially reduce your retirement nest egg.

When can you withdraw from a 401(k) without penalty?

If your plan permits a 401(k) loan, or if you qualify for a hardship withdrawal from your 401(k), you won’t be on the hook for a 10% penalty. But you would have to repay the loan with interest, and you would owe tax on the money taken for a hardship withdrawal.

Can you withdraw money from a 401(k) for a second house?

While it’s technically possible to withdraw money from a 401(k) for a second home, you would owe taxes and a 10% penalty on the amount you withdrew, so it’s not advisable.

How much can you take out of an individual IRA to buy a home?

You can withdraw up to $10,000 from an IRA for the purchase of a first home, but you would owe tax on that money (although you might avoid a 10% penalty).