How to Make Talking About Finances Fun, Not a Fight

How to Make Talking About Finances Fun, Not a Fight

Ask couples what they fight about most, and money is sure to be at the top of the list. Decades of research have shown that common clashes are sparked by different spending habits, different financial values (which influence spending habits), and how to raise financially smart kids.

While dealing with money isn’t always easy, it doesn’t have to drive a wedge in your relationship. These strategies can help ensure your financial discussions with your partner are productive and — dare we suggest — maybe even something to look forward to.

Key Points

•   Regular financial meetings should focus on life goals and values, not just money, to understand each other’s perspectives.

•   Create a safe, non-judgmental space for open financial conversations to build mutual respect.

•   Look for shared goals and points of agreement to build confidence and momentum in financial discussions.

•   Address financial topics as they naturally arise in daily life, using empathy and an open mind.

•   Reward yourselves for sticking to financial plans and achieving milestones to keep the process positive.

Meet Regularly — but Don’t Discuss Money

When couples fight about money, the classic mistake is to think that having a regular “money talk” will help solve things. Unlikely.

That’s because the source of most financial disagreements is that one person’s values don’t line up with the other’s. In order to truly ease money stress, you have to start by understanding the bigger wants and needs and priorities of your partner.

Make time to meet regularly and focus on things you both want out of life. It doesn’t have to be a long conversation — maybe 30 minutes, or an hour.

Come Prepared

Consider bringing a list of topics to each meeting, but don’t expect to cover them all. There will be other meetings, and it’s more important to leave each conversation with a sense that you understand each other better. Depending on the stage of your relationship, you might raise some common questions:

Do you want kids? Do you want pets? Do you want to live a certain lifestyle? Start a business? Retire early? Send the kids to private school vs. public?

How important is it to have a vacation each year, or is it more important to have a beautiful home — or both?

Do you both believe in working hard and playing hard? Working to live or living to work? These may sound like cliches, but dig into each topic to get at each person’s core feelings.

Create a Safe Space

A key aspect of these non-money talks has to be a spirit of openness, not criticism or judgment. You’re trying to get to know one another in a slightly different way. Ask questions, take time to listen to each other’s answers.

While these sessions may seem uncomfortable at first, having these non-financial conversations may actually prevent important issues from causing conflicts or money fights in the future.

Again, keep these conversations fairly short. The idea is to find common ground, and that may not happen right away. So don’t expect to agree, expect to learn something new about your partner.

Look for Shared Goals and Points of Agreement

Even couples that fight about money, also agree on plenty of financial issues. Be sure to pay attention as you discover these points in common, and celebrate the fact that you have them.

Knowing that you have financial goals and priorities in common, not just pain points, can build your confidence and momentum and lead to the good part of all this: Having more fun because you’re not stressed about money squabbles!

Address Financial Topics as Organically as You Can

Rather than set up more meetings (who has time?), you can use your newfound empathy and sense of shared values to tackle topics as they come up naturally in your day-to-day lives.

Now you can talk about spending when you get the credit card bill, or when you have to make a tough choice between two competing priorities. In some ways it’s less stressful to discuss whether to refinance the house or set up a Roth IRA when that question comes up organically, rather than trying to anticipate bigger issues.

Be sure to include something fun in your financial plan. Money is for the future, and it’s also for the present, so make sure you enjoy it.

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Let Go of Resentment

Financial inequity between partners — say, if one person has a lot of debt or there’s a large disparity between incomes — can be a common source of tension.

If you feel like one person’s debt is holding you both back, remember that it doesn’t have to last forever. There are many strategies for paying off debt — talking it through will help you find the right path for you both. You might also decide to meet with a financial advisor who can help you prioritize, create a budget, and perhaps even refinance to break even faster.

In cases of income disparity, it may help to reframe each partner’s contribution to the household. Yes, one person may bring in more (or all) of the household income, but be clear on the non-monetary intangibles that the other person is contributing. Cooking, cleaning, watching the kids, caring for aging relatives — these duties all add up and represent what each of you is bringing to the household.

Reward Yourselves

Create incentives to stick with your meeting schedule. Maybe that means taking your laptops to your favorite coffee shop, or treating yourselves to a movie night afterward.

Another idea is to reward yourselves as a couple after you hit a predetermined financial goal or milestone. For example, every month you successfully increase your emergency fund by a target amount, you might choose to enjoy a nice restaurant meal.

Even a free indulgence — like a walk around your favorite lake after the discussion — can be effective. Just make it something that you both enjoy (bonus points if it’s something that you don’t do all the time so it feels extra special). That way, you’ll look forward to it.

The Takeaway

The best way to take the sting out of discussing finances with your partner is to start by getting in sync as people, understanding each other’s values and perspectives. Scheduling time to talk monthly (or whatever cadence works for you) allows you to also savor the ways you are on the same page already, and what some of those shared goals are.

Don’t try to meet about big hairy financial goals that aren’t on the table yet. You do have to plan ahead, but it’s also important (and less stressful) to address money matters as they arise naturally. Then, get back to the fun of living your lives together the rest of the time.

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FAQ

How do you talk about money in a relationship?

Talking about money in a relationship requires openness and honesty. Start by setting up a regular time to discuss your financial goals, values, and concerns. Create a safe space where both partners can share without judgment. Try to only use “I” statements to express your feelings and avoid blame. This approach helps build trust and ensures both partners are on the same page.

At what point in a relationship should you talk about money?

It’s best to talk about money early in a relationship, ideally before moving in together or becoming financially intertwined. This could be after a few months of dating or when the relationship feels serious. Discussing financial matters early helps prevent misunderstandings and builds a foundation of trust. It’s also wise to revisit the topic periodically as your relationship and financial situations evolve.

What is a financial red flag in a relationship?

A financial red flag in a relationship includes secretive behavior about money, excessive debt, or an unwillingness to discuss financial matters. Other signs include lying about spending, refusing to contribute to shared expenses, and having different financial goals without a plan to reconcile them. Recognizing these red flags early can help you address issues and maintain a healthy, transparent relationship.


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Getting Back on Track After Going Over Budget

Even people who closely monitor their spending might go over budget now and then. What’s important is how they handle getting back on track.

If you go over your budget, there are a few different steps you can take to get back on course. And combining some of them might help speed up the budget repair process. Here’s what you need to know.

Key Points

•   After overspending, review financial statements to pinpoint why your spending doesn’t align with your budget.

•   Temporarily reducing non-essential expenses and minimizing exposure to spending temptations can help get your budget on track.

•   Building an emergency fund for unexpected expenses can help you avoid debt, while keeping your budget intact.

•   Exploring different budgeting methods to see what matches your lifestyle can improve financial management.

•   Avoid budgets that are overly punitive — creating a budget that realistically serves your needs is key to meeting financial goals.

Keep an Eye on Spending

Reviewing account balances and statements once a week is an easy way to keep track of money coming in and money going out. A few big purchases can easily upset an otherwise balanced budget.

Waiting until the end of the month to check in on accounts leaves you at risk for excess spending and potentially overdrawing a checking account or having a higher credit card bill than you anticipated.

Checking in once a week leaves time to self correct and adjust the budget to help balance the numbers.

Identify What Went Wrong

Going over budget sometimes means there’s uncertainty about where the money went. Overspending can mount quickly, putting the budget out of balance. It might only take a few extra additions to your grocery cart, an unexpected car repair, or a couple of splurge purchases.

When there is general overspending or if it’s just in a specific budgeting category, looking at recent bills and credit card statements might help identify where the money was spent. Were there too many restaurant meals, increasing food spending as a result? Was there too much temptation to shop online sales? Identifying budget lapses can make it easier to avoid them in the future.

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Cut Unnecessary Expenses Temporarily

When a budget is too restrictive, it can feel punishing. A budget can account for the unnecessary spending that makes life fun like travel, dining out, shopping, gifts, and beauty treatments. If these expenses create a problem in the budget, you can temporarily cut back on those categories. Once your budget is balanced again, those expenses can be put back into the mix. Balance is key.

Use a Budgeting Tool

A free budget planning app can help you customize your spending categories and even keep track of your bills. It will send you updates on your progress and let you see where your earnings and spending go each month. This can make creating a realistic budget even easier.

Build an Emergency Fund

One thing you can do to get back on track after going over budget is to make sure you have an emergency fund for financially difficult situations, such as expensive medical bills or necessary home repairs.

Emergency funds can also be used to prevent emergencies. For instance, an emergency fund might provide extra support if a debt payment is at risk of being paid late, which could incur fees and interest and add to your debt load.

💡 Quick Tip: If you’re faced with debt and wondering which kind to pay off first, it can be smart to prioritize high-interest debt first. For many people, this means their credit card debt; rates have recently been climbing into the double-digit range, so try to eliminate that ASAP.

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Explore Different Budgeting Techniques

Sometimes the trick to sticking to a personal budget—or bouncing back after going over that budget—is to try a different budgeting method. Not all methods work for all personality types. Take some time to find the right budgeting fit, even if the first few rounds don’t go according to plan. There are a few different popular budgeting methods that might help someone get their budget back on track, such as:

1. Line-item budget. This is probably what most people think of when they think of a budget. With a line item budget, the income and expenses are usually in a spreadsheet format where each expense is listed by category with the goal being not to exceed spending targets in any of the categories.

2. Proportional budget. This type of budgeting system requires dividing monthly income into three categories—needs, wants, and savings—based on percentages. The budgeter will allocate a spending percentage to each category and aim to stick to that budget. A common proportional budget is the 50/30/20 budget, with 50% of income going to needs, 30% to wants, and 20% to savings.

3. Paying-yourself-first budget. For those who want to keep their budget simple, this method is pretty straightforward. You simply “pay yourself first” which means you put money towards savings or financial goals first (perhaps 25% of your take-home income). Then you can spend the rest of your income exactly as you need or wish to.

4. Envelope budget. This technique provides a hands-on approach to spending that can be helpful for people who tend to swipe their credit card without fully realizing the potential consequences. With the envelope method, you use envelopes to hold cash that represent different spending categories. You then make all your purchases for the month in cash. If an envelope runs out of money, spending in that category stops until the next month — unless you borrow money from another envelope, limiting spending in that category.

5. Zero-sum budgeting. With zero-sum budgeting, you “spend” every dollar you have, allocating each one to a specific purpose, like adding money to your savings account. Once every dollar is allocated, there are zero leftover dollars, hence the name zero-sum budgeting.

Recommended: 15 Creative Ways to Save Money

Cut Out Temptations

Temptations happen, and it’s generally better to learn from budget mishaps than agonize over them. However, if there is a certain temptation that seems to rear its ugly head again and again while wreaking havoc on your budget, it might be time to send that temptation packing.

Common Triggers of Overspending

There are many things that might trigger overspending, but some common ones to look out for might be:

•   Email sale and coupon promotions

•   Social media advertisements

•   Friends who pressure others to spend

•   Grocery shopping when hungry

•   Shopping when emotional

•   Shopping as a reward

💡 Quick Tip: When you feel the urge to buy something that isn’t in your budget, try the 30-day rule. Make a note of the item in your calendar for 30 days into the future. When the date rolls around, there’s a good chance the “gotta have it” feeling will have subsided.

Launch a Side Hustle

For someone who wants to get their budget back on track, a side hustle can be one way to bring in more cash and maybe even build valuable career skills and opportunities. Launching a side hustle might allow you to pursue a passion outside of your day job while benefiting your budget.

The Takeaway

Sticking to a budget can be challenging. If you go off track, don’t beat yourself up over it. Instead, determine what went wrong and how you can prevent it from happening in the future, cut your expenses for a few weeks, and figure out the best method to get your spending and savings back on track. You may even want to try another type of budget that could be easier to follow going forward.

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FAQ

What’s the first step to get back on track after overspending?

When you’ve gone over budget, the first step is to carefully review your spending. Check bank and credit card statements to see where your money went and to identify why you overspent. Understanding your spending patterns can help you create a recovery plan.

What practical steps can help me recover financially after going over budget?

After overspending, determine how you can reduce non-essential spending. This might include limiting shopping and dining out, skipping the pricier takeout coffee in the morning, and pausing subscriptions until your finances are realigned with your budget. Also consider removing spending triggers, such as unsubscribing from emails that encourage impulse buys, shopping as “retail therapy,” or even acquaintances who encourage excess spending.

What practical tips can help me avoid overspending in the future?

To help maintain your budget, work on building an emergency fund. Having savings specifically for unforeseen costs like medical bills or urgent repairs can prevent these surprises from derailing your budget. Also consider trying a different budgeting technique, whether you’re using a spreadsheet or a budgeting app. Line-item budgets, proportional methods like the 50/30/20 rule, and “pay yourself first” are just some of the budgeting methods to consider.


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SoFi Investor Insights Survey 2023: 85% of Investors Plan to Change How They Invest in 2023

This article is part of a series based on an Investor Insights Survey regularly conducted by SoFi to gauge investor sentiment and their outlook for the year. The survey for this article was conducted in 2022. For the latest survey, see the SoFi Investor Insights Survey for 2025.

The Investor Insights Survey series offers insights into how investors have responded over time to changes in the economy and how investors themselves are changing, from the types of assets they’re choosing, to the investing habits they’re developing, to how they manage investing stress.

Keep in mind that while investors’ outlook may change year-to-year, a long-term investing strategy with a diversified portfolio may allow you to ride out short-term setbacks in the market. It’s important to remember that investing decisions should always align with your own personal goals, time horizon, and tolerance for risk.

We don’t need to tell you that 2022 has been a challenging year for investors — what with interest rates soaring, the stock market plummeting, and the onset of another crypto winter.

What you might be surprised to know: There’s some good news here. In a recent survey, we asked 1,000 investors how they managed their portfolios in 2022, how they’re feeling about the market, and what their predictions are for 2023*.

While you might expect some anxiety or pessimism (and there was some), investors overall remain positive after a difficult year. Here’s what they had to say about stocks, crypto, how they coped with investing stress — and more.

Note: We rounded percentages to the nearest whole number, so some data sets may not add up exactly to 100%.

*This Investor Insights Survey was completed on October 5, 2022 and was conducted using a general U.S. population data set of 1,000 adults age 18 and older. Survey did not include known SoFi members or a SoFi member data set.

Key survey facts and findings

2022 SoFi Investing Survey

Before we dig into the details, here are some of the standout results.

•  93% of survey respondents continued to invest, despite the current market conditions.

•  Men were more likely to invest than women, and invest more money as well.

•  78% of crypto investors are generally optimistic that values will rebound.

•  And remarkably: 1 in four (25%) of investors had no regrets about 2022

Last highlight: How did investors cope with stress in 2022? Hobbies!

In general, investors stayed the course in 2022.

While the market hasn’t been kind to investors over the past year, it certainly hasn’t stopped many of them from investing. 93% of our respondents kept invested in 2022.

2022 SoFi Investing Survey

93% of respondents have invested in 2022

When it comes to the amount people have invested so far this year, men were more likely than women to invest — and invest more money when they did:

•  $0 – $499: 24%

◦  Male: 44%

◦  Female: 56%

•  $500 – $999: 23%

◦  Male: 50%

◦  Female: 49%

•  $1000 – $4999: 26%

◦  Male: 57%

◦  Female: 43%

•  $5000+: 21%

◦  Male: 68%

◦  Female: 32%

Many investors are still hoping to cash in on crypto.

It’s no secret that the crypto market has taken a beating, especially with the crash of FTX . Nonetheless, people are still holding on to their crypto investments.

45% of respondents say they have cryptocurrency in their portfolios. 65% of them even said they invested more than $500 in 2022. Most crypto investors (65%) are male and under the age of 55.

45% of respondents have cryptocurrency in their investment portfolio.

Over the past few years, cryptocurrency has become a more widely-accepted investment vehicle. Many investors have invested in crypto this year. Of these investors:

•  65% have invested $500 or more in 2022

•  Less than 3% haven’t invested any money into crypto in 2022

•  Only 7% of respondents aged 55 or older are invested in crypto

•  65% are male

And of those who invested $5000 or more in crypto in 2022, 80% are male.

While the crypto market is currently in a steep decline, most investors with cryptocurrency in their portfolios have invested at least $500 in 2022. Here’s what crypto investing looks like in 2022.

•  $0 – $499: 32%

•  $500 – $999: 23%

•  $1000 – $4999: 26%

•  $5000+: 16%

Only 3% of investors who have cryptocurrency in their portfolio haven’t invested anything into cryptocurrency this year.

78% of investors are either confident or cautiously optimistic the crypto market will bounce back

2022 SoFi Investing Survey
The crypto market remains volatile as rumors of a global recession continue to swirl. Despite this financial climate, most investors are hopeful of the future.

Of the 45% of respondents who have crypto in their portfolio:

•  78% of investors are at least “cautiously optimistic” that the crypto market will bounce back

•  Only 5% of respondents believe crypto is “dead.”

Overall, the crypto market still has plenty of believers. Whether that optimism will pay off remains to be seen.

Nearly 90% of people have invested in non-stock market-related assets.

2022 SoFi Investing Survey

Non-traditional market assets are on the rise due to stock market volatility. In fact, nearly 90% of our respondents invested money into a non-stock-market-related asset. Crypto was the most common non-traditional investment choice.

Certificate of deposits (CDs), Real estate investment trusts (REITs), and gold were the next most popular options. One respondent even told us they invested in Magic the Gathering trading cards—definitely a niche investment choice, but representative of investments that aren’t directly impacted by the stock market.

Here’s a full list of all the responses we received:

•  Certificate of deposits (CDs): 24%

•  Real estate investment trusts (REITs): 20%

•  Gold or other commodities: 20%

•  Crypto: 48%

•  Private equity funds: 22%

•  Government bonds: 19%

•  Other or none: 11%

Here’s what investors’ portfolios look like right now.

2022 SoFi Investing Survey

Nearly a third (32%) of respondents have less than $25,000 in their investment portfolio. Here’s a breakdown:

•  $0 – $24,999: 32%

•  $25,000 – $49,999: 22%

•  $50,000 – $99,999: 21%

•  $100,000 – $199,999: 12%

•  $200,000+: 14%

Most investors (nearly 75%) also invest highly into stocks. Cryptocurrency, mutual funds, and cash were the next most popular investment types.

•  Stocks: 72%

•  Cryptocurrency: 45%

•  Mutual funds: 41%

•  Cash or cash equivalents: 38%

•  Bonds: 31%

•  Exchange-traded funds (ETFs): 30%

•  Real estate: 23%

•  Index funds: 21%

•  Private equity: 14%

•  Other: 2%

Market volatility has impacted investors’ purchase and investment decisions.

Market volatility has impacted investors at all ages and stages, but it hasn’t slowed them down. Not only have many people continued to invest during these uncertain times, market volatility has inspired investors to adjust their strategies and spending.

More than a third of respondents (37%) say market volatility has caused them to make impulsive investment decisions.

2022 SoFi Investing Survey
Market volatility has caused some investors to respond emotionally, with over a third of respondents (37%) saying market volatility has caused them to make impulsive investment choices.

31% of these impulse decisions were made by investors aged 18-24. In fact, the younger you are, the more likely you are to make impulsive or emotion-driven financial decisions. Here’s the age breakdown of those who made an impulse move due to market volatility:

•  18-24: 31%

•  25-34: 23%

•  35-44: 23%

•  45-54: 17%

•  Older than 54: 7%

Of all the people who made impulsive investment decisions, 54% of our respondents say they’re happy with their choice. Specifically, only 20% of them regret them.

Maybe these rash decisions taught investors important lessons about the market. Maybe some are confident they’ll rebound.

One third of respondents (33%) had to cancel or delay plans or purchases in 2022 because of money lost on investments.

Many investors’ finances were impacted by the bear market: 33% said they had to cancel or delay plans in 2022 because they lost money on investments.

Ultimately, these mistakes prevented some investors from going on vacations, buying homes, and starting businesses. When we asked those who had to cancel or delay plans specifically which plans were impacted, here’s what they said:

•  Going on a trip: 27%

•  Making a major purchase (home, vehicle, etc.): 22%

•  Home renovations: 19%

•  Starting a business: 15%

•  Growing my family (getting married, having a baby, etc.): 10%

•  Retiring: 6%

•  Other: 2%

Over half of respondents did not make any major investment changes.

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Market volatility still isn’t scaring investors away. Over half, or 55% of respondents held on to their assets during this year’s economic crisis.

When we asked investors how they reacted to market swings this year:

•  29% said they bought a lot of investment

•  17% said they sold a lot of investments

•  55% said they did not buy or sell investments

The investors that did sell some of their assets (45%) ultimately relinquished less than half of their portfolio. Only 7% sold 76% or more of their total investments.

Many investors have investment regrets about 2022 and are looking toward 2023.

With 2023 on the horizon, many investors are planning to adjust their strategies based on the lessons they learned this year.

People are split on how inflation makes them feel about their investment strategies in 2022:

Inflation can be a thorn in the side of investors. Our respondents were split in how they approached inflation in 2022:

•  39% of respondents said they want to invest more, despite inflation.

•  33% said inflation makes them want to leave their investments alone.

•  28% said inflation makes them want to invest less.

Of the 39% who want to invest more, Gen Z appears to be the most optimistic (27% of that subgroup are between the ages of 18 and 24).

One thing is for certain — confident investors will continue to engage with the market despite inflation.

In general, people have mixed emotions about their investments in 2022, but the most common feeling was optimism (26%).

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There was also some variance in how respondents feel about their investments. Most were optimistic, and fewer felt stressed, disappointed, and content.

•  Optimistic: 26%

•  Stressed: 19%

•  Disappointed: 19%

•  Content: 15%

•  Excited: 14%

•  Regretful: 5%

•  Angry: 3%

Very few felt regretful or angry, which could be welcome signs of more market participation in the coming year.

While 5% of respondents feel regretful, a full 25% — or one in four investors — have zero regrets about 2022.

That said, 75% of respondents have some type of investment regret this year. And many have learned major lessons this year. Mainly, many wish they had bought more assets at lower prices.

Some of the most common investing regrets respondents expressed:

•  They should’ve bought more crypto when prices were at their lowest (18%)

•  They should’ve bought more stock when the market started to decline (16%)

•  They should’ve sold stock before the market started to decline (15%)

Not everyone was regretful about their investing activities: As noted, 25% of respondents have no regrets at all. And of those that have no regrets, 60% are 45 or older.

Here’s the breakdown of the investment regrets respondents had this year:

•  I have no regrets: 25%

•  I should have bought more crypto while prices were their lowest: 18%

•  I should have bought more stock when the market started tanking: 16%

•  I should have sold stock before the market started tanking: 15%

•  I should have sold my crypto early in the year: 10%

•  I should have bought gold: 9%

•  I should have held onto stock when the market started tanking: 7%

People use a variety of tactics to cope with the stress of market fluctuations:

We got a lot of interesting responses about how investors have dealt with the stress that came from market fluctuation.

•  41% took their mind off their portfolios by engaging in hobbies.

•  37% did their own investment research.

•  31% of them simply stopped checking their balances.

•  22% of respondents talked with their brokers for reassurance. 17% participated in online forums.

And on a positive note, 14% said the markets simply didn’t stress them out.

Nearly a third of respondents (30%) check their investment portfolios every day. And 75% check at least once a week.

Although one coping mechanism of market stress was to avoid checking balances, 30% of our respondents (65% of whom were male) check their investments every day.

Most respondents check their portfolio’s performance at least once a week. Here’s how often investors are checking their investment performance.

•  Every day: 30%

•  2 to 3 times a week: 29%

•  Once a week: 17%

•  A few times a month: 12%

•  Once a month: 7%

•  Less than once a month: 7%

Looking forward to 2023

2022 is almost over and many investors are already looking forward to next year. Let’s see how our respondents plan to adjust their strategies in 2023.

85% of respondents plan to make some changes to how they invest in 2023.

While most respondents have agreed to change their plans, 21% of them want to invest more into the market.

Here are other ways people plan to change their investment strategies next year:

•  19% plan to do more of their own investment research

•  14% plan to work with a financial advisor

•  10% plan to buy into a new type of investment

•  9% plan to change the asset allocations in their portfolio

•  6% plan to decrease how much they invest overall

•  5% plan to use a robo-advisor or automated investing

•  15% don’t plan to change anything.

If this year has taught investors anything, it’s to adapt their strategies and stay optimistic. When asked how they planned to change their strategies, here is how investors responded.

Key Takeaways

Historically, market volatility tends to even itself out, and investment values typically rebound. Investors’ attitudes and behaviors tend to mirror this pattern. While markets have been low in 2022, there are signs of recovery as the year draws to a close, and people appear to be optimistic about an upswing and plan to continue investing.

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How to Create A Home-Buying Wish List Template

Are you thinking about hunting for a home or already hitting the open houses? If so, creating a home-buying wish list can help you identify what you need, what you want, what to avoid, and other key factors in your decision of whether to bid on a property or not.

By getting these thoughts down on paper (or an online document), you can better focus your house hunting and have a guide as you navigate this process.

Here, you’ll learn more about creating a home-buying wish list template and zooming in on the right property for you. It will also help you steer clear of falling for a house that can wind up being a bad fit as time passes.

Key Points

•   Creating a home-buying wish list involves daydreaming about your ideal home and then prioritizing realistic needs and wants.

•   Distinguishing between needs and wants helps you focus on essential features, avoiding impulsive decisions and buyer’s regret.

•   Budget constraints should also play into your wish list as you make necessary trade-offs and decide what your must-haves are and the best way to get them.

•   Align with other people who will be living in your home by daydreaming together, writing down preferences, and prioritizing needs and wants as a group.

•   Additional aspects to look at as you evaluate homes include natural disaster risks, home additions, utility costs, and HOA fees and rules.

What Is a Home-Buying Wish List?

A home-buying wish list is a simple template that can help you identify and prioritize the features you are looking for in a home. It gives you a method to evaluate whether a property is one to bid on or one to pass on.

For example, a wish list can help you zero in on the price you want to pay, the community you want to be in, the style and size of the home, the acreage of the property and outdoor features, and other variables.

By having a wish list, you can stay on target. Say you fell in love with a charming farmhouse with shutters and perfect window boxes full of flowers, but no ground-floor bathroom (or room to add one) and a roof in need of repair. If your wish list said, “Must have a ground-floor bathroom” and “Roof in good repair,” you would (ideally) be able to say no to the home’s curb appeal and keep searching. That way, you may well avoid having buyer’s regret.

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Benefits of a Home-Buying Wish List

A home-buying wish list has several pros:

•  Creating a wish list gives you the opportunity to consider your needs and wants in a home. It also will help you prioritize the features that you most want in a property.

•  A wish list can help you stay on budget. If you know that you absolutely must have a spa-style bathroom or a chef’s kitchen, you need to stay focused on finding a home that offers that feature or else have money set aside to renovate to your specifications.

•  By developing a wish list, you and your partner or family member you are house shopping with can align on priorities.

•  You can better understand trade-offs involved in a home purchase. For instance, if you are determined to buy in an area with a hot housing market or a pricey school district, you may only be able to afford a smaller property than you might like.

Recommended: First-Time Homebuyer Programs

How to Create a Home-Buying Wish List

If you’re ready to dive in, follow these steps to develop your wish list.

First, Daydream a Little

After you’ve closed your eyes and thought about it, write down everything you saw in the vision.

Before writing down all your wants on a home-buying wish list, sit back and fantasize a little about what an ideal home looks like. This dream house will look different to everyone, but after you’ve closed your eyes and thought about it for a while, you should write down everything you saw in the vision.

Is there a big yard and open space (or even a pool), or is it in the center of town where all the action is? Do you gravitate toward a mid-century modern home or a center-hall colonial? Does the dream home come with a big eat-in kitchen, or are lots of bedrooms more important? Is there space for a game room? An outdoor spa? A wraparound deck or a balcony overlooking it all?

It’s your dream. Go ahead and dream about home size, home age, and home style. That way, you can better realize what you really want (and want to steer clear of) in a home. Start writing down your wish list.


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Whittle Down the Dream List

After spending some time thinking about what a dream home would look like if money were no object and jotting down notes, you might then start crossing things off your list.

Realistically, maybe you don’t need five bedrooms but can live with three instead, and maybe the basement doesn’t need to be finished just yet. Or, perhaps a kitchen remodel can come with lower-end appliances that look like commercial ones but come with a more manageable price tag.

Bring that daydream list down to reality before beginning the search.

Consider Who You’re Buying With, Too

Before going out to buy a home, whether you’re a first-time homebuyer or old hand, it’s important to think about who’s going to live there. Is it just for one? A couple? A whole family?

It would be best to get everyone’s input on wants vs. needs to ensure that all will be satisfied with this monumental life and financial decision. You might want to sit down as a group and consider the following.

•  Setting: It may also be a good idea to get granular about your location. For instance, a potential homebuyer who has a dog may want to consider a neighborhood that has good walkability and sidewalks.

A potential buyer who works from home may want to think about how close a coffee shop is so they can pop over for a snack. Websites like Walk Score can help people discover how close cafes, shops, restaurants, grocery stores, and public transportation are to their new address.

•  The right school district: If you’re buying a new home with family members in mind, it’s important to consider every home’s school district. Websites like GreatSchools provide information on school district rankings. All users need to do is pop in the ZIP code.

Even if a homebuyer isn’t thinking about having children, school districts still may play a role in their home-buying decision. That’s because a school district can play a major part in a home’s resale value.

It may be a good idea to also draw up a neighborhood wish list.


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Home-Buying Wish List Template

Need some inspo for creating a home-buying wish list? Check out the Alabama Housing Finance Authority’s Home-Buying Wish List .

You can then customize it and drill down on the features that really matter to you. For instance, if you have school-age kids, you might add a line for after-school care programs; are they offered or not?

If you know you will be tight on cash for renovations, then you might get more specific about the age of key home systems, such as the HVAC, the major appliances, the roof, and so forth.

Recommended: What Do You Need to Buy a House?

Questions to Ask While Home Shopping

In addition to the usual features of a home, here are a few additional points to consider:

•  Are you in an area that is prone to natural disasters? Would you, say, need flood insurance, and how much would it cost?

•  Have any additions been made to the home? If so, was the paperwork (permits and such) properly filed?

•  What are the typical monthly utility costs for the home? This may help you get a ballpark number that can help you assess your home-buying budget.

•  Is there an HOA? If so, what costs are involved, and what rules are enforced?

The Takeaway

Creating a home-buying wish list helps to identify wants and needs, what is in the budget, and what everyone involved—spouse, children, pets, guests, an elder parent—can live with happily (if not ever after, for a while). Home style, size, neighborhood, and amenities all come into play.

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FAQ

How do I make a house wish list?

A good place to start is with the Alabama Housing Finance Authority’s checklist. You can then customize the wishlist to better suit your areas of focus, such as school districts and programs, or, say, acreage and outdoor features.

How do I get my house ready to sell with a checklist?

Many home-buying sites and mortgage lenders offer downloadable checklists that help you get your house in order to sell. These typically review how to assess and enhance the exterior of your home, your property, as well as the interior. Usually, they go room by room with features for you to note and maintenance issues to potentially wrangle.

What is a house-buying must-have?

Something that you won’t be able to live in a new home without is a must-have. Things like electricity, heating, and plumbing are no-brainers. But must-haves can also include other items that are non-negotiable for you, which could mean good nearby schools, great light, or multiple walk-in closets.




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Open House Tips for Homebuyers

Attending an open house is a common step when you’re shopping for your dream home. Of course, it lets you see a property (often after it’s been styled and staged to look its best), which can trigger “I love it!,” “hard pass,” and every possible reaction in between.

But an open house also gives you information beyond just the surface appeal of a home. It can give you clues to structural issues, the level of home maintenance it’s received, and how popular it is with potential buyers. That is, it can if you know what to look for as you walk through, rather than just admiring some great use of subway tile or a charming farmhouse sink.

Here, learn about what to expect at an open house and how to get the most out of attending one.

Key Points

•   Going to an open house provides you with opportunities for detailed property viewing and assessing the neighborhood.

•   Face-to-face interactions with listing agents can offer more immediate and direct answers to questions than calling or emailing them.

•   Seeing a house in person may let you spot hidden flaws and attributes you don’t like.

•   Red flags such as uneven floors, mold, and drafts may indicate potentially serious issues.

•   An open house is a good opportunity to ask about the property’s history, the neighborhood, and what fixtures are included.

Benefits of Attending an Open House

At an open house, you can view a property, whether you’re just looking casually or already planning on getting your home loan. You can eyeball the house, the street, the neighbors’ places. It can be a great way to scope out what it might be like to live there.

There are several benefits to attending an open house as you move through the steps of buying a house. These include:

•   You can hone your house-hunting skills by taking detailed notes and comparing them to past and future listings.
•   It’s a face-to-face opportunity to make a good impression on the listing agent and ask as many questions as necessary (without having to wait for a reply).
•   Sometimes listing photos simply don’t do a house justice. The in-person lighting might be brighter, the hardwood floors shinier, or the primary bedroom larger than it seemed online.
•   Similarly, strategically hidden flaws, red flags, and nuances that can only be detected in person are exposed so you (and other potential bidders) can make a truly informed decision.

Recommended: How Long Does It Take to Buy a House?

What to Expect at an Open House

Some open houses are literally open, meaning they’re posted on a real estate listing or a sign out front and members of the public are allowed to stop by.

In other cases, an open house is available only by appointment and arranged by the seller’s broker.

Typically, the sellers won’t be on the scene at an open house. It’s likely their listing agent will handle the event, guiding potential buyers around the dwelling and answering questions.

There could be other house hunters or curious visitors attending the open house.

Most homebuyers will be provided with a booklet or pamphlet featuring details about the property, which could include the year it was built, heating and cooling information (oil vs. natural gas, etc.), the square footage, how many bedrooms and bathrooms there are, the size of the lot, types of appliances, and exterior features like decks, porches, pools, and sheds.

From there, house hunters will fill out a sign-in document that records their information for follow-up (unless this was already done in advance) and tour the property. This could occur with the listing agent in tow or by themselves, saving questions for the end.

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Open House Etiquette

Figuring out what to do at an open house isn’t always intuitive, but a crisp, respectful approach can go a long way:

•   Bringing along food, drinks, pets, or unruly children could be considered disrespectful and distracting.
•   Following the house rules can be crucial, so buyers should be prepared to remove shoes, steer clear of personal property, and ask permission before snapping photos.
•   Being polite and personable to the hosting agent can help potential homebuyers appear in a more favorable light.
•   Maintaining a poker face can be helpful during the open house process. If homebuyers spill the beans about how much they love the property, it could make negotiations tougher if and when they make an offer.

Recommended: The Mortgage Loan Process, Explained

Things to Look For at an Open House

If you stay focused and zoom in on details, you can learn a lot during an open house. Perhaps there’s an initially inconspicuous flaw on the exterior of the house or there’s no closet in the fourth bedroom.

Things to look for when buying a house and at an open house in particular could include:

•   Visible signs of neglect or damage (more on that soon).
•   Proximity to the neighbors and whether there’s sufficient privacy. A poke around the premises can also reveal what those new neighbors are like. Do they have a half-built skate park? A forever-barking dog? A chicken coop?
•   Closet and storage space and whether it’s enough to suit your needs.
•   What other potential buyers are up to. If they’re in and out quickly or lingering in one area in particular, perhaps it’s an indication of an issue you should investigate.

Recommended: First-Time Homebuyer Guide

Potential Red Flags

Aside from standard considerations like the ones above, some red flags to look for at an open house could include:

•   An abundance of sweet aromas from candles or air fresheners. This could signal hard-to-fix smells (perhaps caused by mildew or another issue) lurking under the surface.
•   Unevenly spaced tiles or crooked electrical outlets, which could signify sloppy DIY renovations that might require costly repairs down the line.
•   Issues with the foundation of the house like large gaps, doors that stick, windows with visible cracks, or uneven floors.
•   Proximity to water. Checking a FEMA flood map can also help potential buyers know whether there’s the risk of flooding and if flood insurance will be required.
•   Signs of lax property maintenance, including faded or chipped paint, leaky faucets, water damage, or overgrown grass and brush. These issues could signify that the owners have neglected other vital home maintenance tasks, which could mean a buyer needs extra funds to cover home repair costs.
•   Signs of mold: small black or gray spots in bathroom closets or cabinets, on the ceiling, or around showers, tubs, and faucets.
•   Exposed pipes with visible rust or leakage.
•   Drafts around windows, doors, and electrical outlets that could be a sign of neglect and a hefty heating bill come winter.
•   Stained or warped baseboards (especially in the basement) that could indicate a prior flood. A sump pump can also indicate that flood damage has occurred in the past.
•   Cosmetic damage like stains from pets that are strategically hidden by area rugs.
•   Condensation or peeling paint around windows, which could signify ventilation problems and moisture issues.

Recommended: How to Winterize a House

Questions to Ask at an Open House

Knowing what to ask is an essential element of attending an open house; it can help you make the most of the experience.

Here are a few key questions homebuyers can ask the selling agent:

•   What year was the house built?
•   Why is it being sold?
•   How long has it been on the market, and were there any asking price fluctuations?
•   Are there any offers?
•   Are there any problems the seller can disclose about the property? These are issues that could come up in an inspection but are made transparent between the seller and buyer, e.g., health and safety hazards, structural defects, mechanical issues, previous water damage, pests, or renovations.
•   Is the property part of a homeowners association? Are there monthly fees associated with it?
•   What is the local school system like? How about the neighborhood?
•   Is the sewer system handled by the town, or does it run on a private septic tank?
•   What fixtures and appliances are part of the purchase: washer/dryer, stove, refrigerator, lighting fixtures, and window treatments?

The Takeaway

After every question has been asked, every surface has been scoured, and every disclosure has been made, it might be time to bid and (with luck) snag your new home. Another important step will then be securing a home loan.

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FAQ

What should I not do at an open house?

If you’re attending an open house, it’s a good idea not to reveal too much about your level of interest in the house. Likewise, it’s smart not to talk about your budget or any time constraints you may have. This information is extraneous to the open house, and it could affect your ability to negotiate later if you decide you want to make an offer on the property. Additionally, be a good guest: Don’t be rude or demanding; don’t bring food or drink; don’t bring unruly kids or pets; and ask before taking photos.

How long is an open house?

An open house typically takes from one to three hours. However, if you’re attending one, you’re not expected to stay for the duration. Instead, you should view the house, ask any questions you may have, and leave.

Do real estate agents go to open houses with you?

You can go to an open house without a real estate agent. That said, if you are far enough along in your house search to have engaged a real estate agent, it may be useful to have them with you when you review a property as they may be able to ask questions you don’t think of and provide context on the neighborhood.



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