Guide to Using a Personal Cash Flow Statement

If you’re often surprised (and not in a good way) when you open up your credit card and bank statements and see how much money you spent, you are not alone. In this scenario, there could be a simple solution: a personal cash flow statement.

Creating a personal cash flow statement can give you a clear picture of your monthly cash inflow (money you earn) and your monthly cash outflow (money you spend). Armed with that intel, you can determine if you have a positive or negative net cash flow.

The process is relatively simple. It involves doing some basic math calculations with a month or two worth of bank statements and bills. Once you have your personal financial statement, you’ll know where you stand and likely be better able to budget your money.

What Is a Personal Cash Flow Statement?

“Cash flow” is a term commonly used by businesses to detail the amount of money flowing in and out of a company. Companies can use cash flow statements to determine how well the business is generating income to pay its debts and operating expenses.

Just like the ones used by companies, tracking your own cash flow can provide you with a snapshot of your financial condition.

You might learn, for example, that you have less leftover at the end of each month than you thought or that you are indeed operating at a shortfall.

Once you have the numbers down in black and white, you can then make any needed changes, such as cutting your expenses to save money, increasing income, and making sure that your spending is in line with your goals.

So, how do you set up one of these cash flow statements? You may find a personal cash flow statement template or a personal cash flow statement example online, but what follows will explain how and why to create one.

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How to Build a Personal Cash Flow Statement

Here are the steps to take to build a personal cash flow statement.

Listing All Your Sources of Income

A good first step when creating a personal cash flow statement is to get out all of your pay stubs, bank statements, credit card statements, and bills or review them online.

•   Next, list any and all sources of income — the inflow, such as salaries, anything you make from side hustles, interest from savings accounts, income from a rental property, dividends from investments, and capital gains from the sale of financial securities like stocks and bonds.

•   You might want to avoid listing money in accounts that aren’t available for spending. For example, you may not want to list dividends and capital gains from investment accounts if they are being automatically reinvested or those that are part of a retirement account from which you aren’t actively taking withdrawals.

•   Since income can vary from one month to the next, you might choose to tally inflow for the last three or six months in order to come up with an average.

Once you’ve collected and listed all of your income for the month, you can then calculate the total inflow.

Listing All of Your Expenses

Now that you know how much money is coming in each month, you’ll want to use those same statements and bills, as well as any for debts (such as mortgage, auto loan, or student loans) to list how much was spent during the month.

•   Again, if your spending tends to fluctuate quite a bit from month to month you may want to track it for several months and come up with an average.

•   To create a complete picture of how much of your money is flowing out each month, you’ll want to include necessities like food and gas, and also discretionary expenses, such as trips to the nail salon or your monthly streaming services.

•   Remember to include infrequent expenses such as birthday gifts for loved ones, annual insurance premiums, and the like.

•   Once you’ve compiled all of your expenses, you can calculate the total and come up with your total outflow for the month.

Determining Your Net Cash Flow

To calculate your cash flow, all you need to do is subtract your monthly outflow from your monthly inflow. The result is your net cash flow.

•   A positive number means you have a surplus, while a negative means you have a deficit in your budget.

•   A positive cash flow is desirable, of course, since it can provide more flexibility. You can decide how to best use the surplus. There are a variety of options. You could choose to save for an upcoming expense, make additional contributions to your retirement fund, create or add to an emergency fund, or, if your savings are in good shape, consider splurging on something fun.

•   A negative cash flow can signal that you are living a more expensive life than your income can support. Some people refer to this as not living within your means. In the future, maintaining this habit could lead to additional debt.

•   When creating personal cash flow statements, it’s also possible to have net neutral cash flow (all money coming in and going out is fairly equal).

In this case, you may still want to jigger things around if you are not already putting the annual maximum into your retirement fund and/or you don’t have a comfortable emergency cash cushion.

The Difference Between a Personal Cash Flow Statement and a Budget

A personal cash flow statement provides a comprehensive look at what is currently coming in and going out of your bank accounts each month. You might think of a cash flow statement telling you where you are, financially speaking.

Whichever budget method you use, on the other hand, helps you to get where you want to go by giving you a spending plan that is based on your income and expenses. A budget can provide you with some general spending guidelines, such as how much you should spend on groceries, entertainment, and clothing each month so that you don’t exceed your income — and end up with a negative net flow.

Creating a budget can also be a good opportunity to check in with your financial goals.

For example:

•   Are you on track for saving for retirement?

•   Are you interested in tackling the credit card debt that has been spiraling due to high interest rates?

•   Do you want to amp up your emergency fund, separate from your usual checking and savings account?

•   How are you progressing on paying off your student loans?

Whatever your goal, a well-crafted budget could serve as a roadmap to help you get there.

Recommended: 4 Smart Ways to Pay Off Student Loans

Using Your Personal Financial Statement to Create a Simple Budget

Because a cash flow statement provides a comprehensive look at your overall spending habits, it can be a great jumping off point to set up a simple budget.

When you’re ready to create a budget, there are a variety of resources:

•   Break out a pencil and paper or buy a journal for this purpose

•   Use an app that’s part of your bank’s suite of tools

•   Download an app that isn’t connected to your financial institution but offers budgeting services

•   Try out spreadsheet templates and printable worksheets.

A good first step in creating a budget is to organize all of your monthly expenses into categories.

Spending categories typically include necessities, such as rent or mortgage, transportation (like car expenses or public transportation costs), food, cell phone, healthcare/insurance, life insurance, childcare, and any debts (credit cards/loans).

You’ll also need to list non-essential spending, such as cable travel, streaming services, concert and movie tickets, restaurants, clothing, etc.

You may also want to include monthly contributions to a retirement plan and personal savings into the expense category as well.

And, if you don’t have emergency savings in place, put that on the spending list as well, so you can start saving towards that every month. How big an emergency fund do you need? Use an emergency fund calculator, and aim to cover at least three to six months’ of living expenses.

Once you have a sense of your monthly earnings and spending, you may want to see how your numbers line up with general budgeting guidelines. Financial counselors sometimes recommend the 50/30/20 budget rule, which looks like this:

•   50% of money goes towards necessities such as a home, car, cell phone, or utility bills.

•   30% goes towards your wants, such as entertainment and dining out.

•   20% goes towards your savings goals, such as a retirement plan, a downpayment on a home, emergency fund, or investments.

Improving Your Net Cash Flow

If your net cash flow is not where you want it to be or, worse, dipping into negative territory, a budget can help bring these numbers into balance.

The key is to look closely at each one of your spending categories and see if you can find some ways to trim back.

•   One of the easiest ways to change your spending habits can be to cut some nonessential expenditures. If you’re paying for cable but mostly watch streaming services, for example, you could score some real savings by getting rid of that service and its bill.

•   Not taking as many weekend getaways and cooking more often instead of getting takeout could add up to a big difference. If you tend to be a compulsive or impulsive shopper, you might take steps to understand your triggers, change your behavior, and rein in the outflow of money.

•   Living on a budget may also require looking at the bigger picture and finding places for more significant savings. For example, maybe rent eats up 50% of your income, and it’d be better to move to a less costly apartment. Or you might want to consider trading in an expensive car lease for a less pricey or pre-owned model.There may also be opportunities to lower some of your recurring expenses by finding a better deal or negotiating with your service providers.

You may also want to look into any ways you might be able to change the other side of the equation — the inflow of funds.

•   One option could be asking for a raise.

•   Another could be training for a higher-paying field.

•   Or you might find an additional income stream (making more money is a key benefit of a side hustle).

The Takeaway

One of the most important steps towards achieving financial wellness is cash flow management — i.e., making sure that your cash outflow is not exceeding your cash inflow.

Creating a simple cash flow statement can show you exactly where you and your money stand. It can also help you create a budget that can give you greater control over your finances and achieving your goals.

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FAQ

How do you create a personal cash flow statement?

To create a personal cash flow statement, gather information on how much you typically take in (income) after taxes per month and how much your outflow (spending and saving) is. That captures the amount you spend on necessities, like housing and food, as well as wants and debt payments. When you subtract the outflow from the income, you’ll see where your cash flow stands.

What is the importance of a personal cash flow statement?

A personal cash flow statement is an important way to track your personal spending and see where pain points may be. It will also reveal if you are going into debt or if you have surplus funds you can put towards future goals. Also, a personal cash flow statement can be an important factor in establishing your budget.

What is the difference between a personal balance sheet and a cash flow statement?

A personal balance sheet captures your assets (money in the bank and real estate, for instance) and liabilities (your credit card balance and any loans), which allows you to determine your net worth. A cash flow statement, on the other hand, tracks your spending versus your income, to see whether you are operating with a deficit, a surplus, or if you are breaking even.


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How To Fix a Declined Debit Card When You Have Money

Debit cards make it easy to complete purchases without using cash, writing checks, or charging to credit. Just tap or insert your card, enter your PIN, and the funds will immediately get debited from your checking account. You then grab your goods and go. Simple, no?

Not always. Every once in a while, a debit transaction gets declined. This can be incredibly frustrating (and embarrassing), especially when you know there is money in the account. On a positive note, the issue is often easy to resolve. Here are some simple steps to take when a debit transaction doesn’t go through.

Make Sure Your Card Is Good

Every debit card has an expiration date. Once the date passes, the card gets blocked automatically and becomes useless to the account holder. If you’ve just started using a new debit card because your old one expired, it may not be activated yet. Until it is, you won’t be approved for any debit transactions that require a PIN.

To get your card working again, you may need to get it replaced or, if it’s new, activate the card either online or by phone. When you start using a new card, you’ll want to be sure to update any online payment information. This ensures uninterrupted services for recurring payments you have set up through your card, such as online payments for your cell phone, car loan, streaming and subscription services, and utilities.

Check Your Account Balance

While you may believe you have enough money to cover a purchase, unexpected debits, merchant holds, and pending deposits might have reduced your available balance. That’s why it’s critical to check the balance of your checking account.

You can do this by logging into your account using your banking app or computer, then looking at both your “current balance” and “available balance.” What’s the difference? Pending transactions (which have not yet posted to your account) are included in your “current balance” but not in your “available balance.” It may look like you have enough funds to cover a purchase, but if the money isn’t part of your available balance, you can’t spend it.

If your available balance is lower than you thought, scan your recent transactions and look for:

•   Pending deposits: You may have deposited a check or have a direct deposit that has not fully cleared yet. This means the bank is still verifying that the incoming deposit is valid.

•   Merchant holds: A hold is a way for merchants to reserve a certain amount of funds in a customer’s account to ensure a future transaction can be processed successfully. This can happen for transactions where you won’t know the final amount of the charge until later, such as hotel reservations or a car rental, and can temporarily lower your available balance.

•   Recent withdrawals: Look for any recent withdrawals or debits that you might have forgotten.

•   Errors or fraudulent activity: Check for any errors or unauthorized transactions that could have depleted your funds. If you notice any, reach out to your bank right away.

Recommended: How Banks Investigate Unauthorized Transactions

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Know Your Debit Card’s Purchase Limit

If you’ve made some particularly large purchases in the last 24 hours, your debit card might be denied because you’ve reached your daily purchase limit. Banks set daily purchase limits on debit cards to minimize risk if the card is lost or stolen.

The daily purchase limit for a debit card can range anywhere from $300 to $50,000 per day, depending on the financial institution. You may be able to request a temporary limit increase on your debit card to complete your purchase by calling your bank. For security purposes, the representative will ask you to verify your identity.

Recommended: When Were Debit Cards Invented?

Check for Holds or Blocks on Your Card

Banks and merchants will sometimes place temporary holds or blocks on someone’s bank account for various reasons. These can temporarily restrict access to your funds, even if you have a sufficient balance.

Here are some reasons why your bank may have put a hold on your debit card or decline a particular transaction.

•   You repeatedly typed in the wrong PIN: If you enter the wrong password three times, your ATM card may get blocked. If this happens, you can generally just wait for 24 hours and your card will be unblocked automatically.

•   Suspected fraud: If your bank detects any suspicious activity on your card, such as an unusually large purchase or unusual use patterns, they may automatically block your card to protect against fraud. Using your card in a new location, especially internationally, can also trigger a security block.

•   Institutional security issue: If there is a security issue at the bank or credit union that holds your account, it may block your debit card to protect your money and details. In such cases, the bank will issue a new card to its customers, free of cost.

The best way to get to the bottom of a card hold or block is to speak with a customer service representative at your financial institution. In some cases, explaining that the purchase is legitimate or that you are currently traveling, and confirming your identity will immediately resolve the problem.

Informing your bank in advance about debit card usage that will be outside your regular routine can help avoid temporary holds and declines.

Recommended: Why Credit Cards Get Declined

Consider Alternate Payment Methods

If you can’t immediately resolve a declined debit card and have a crucial transaction that you don’t want to walk away from, you may need to use an alternate payment method. Here are some options to consider.

•   Credit card: Even if you prefer debit over credit, having a credit card in your wallet can serve as a backup if your debit card fails.

•   Cash: Though not every place of business accepts cash, it can be useful to have cash on hand to cover necessary transactions in the event your debit card fails.

•   Mobile payment app: If you have a payment app on your phone that is connected to a credit card or linked directly to your bank account, you may be able to use that instead of your debit card.

•   Bank transfer: For larger transactions, you may be able to make the payment by transferring money from your savings or checking account directly to the recipient.

The Takeaway

Dealing with a declined debit card can be annoying and stressful. To get to the root of the problem, you’ll want to first make sure your card is up to date and, if it is, check your account balance to confirm there are sufficient available funds to cover the purchase.

If you have enough funds, you might next call your bank to see if there’s a temporary hold on your card due to any security issues. By confirming that the transaction is legitimate and verifying your identity, they may lift the hold.

Being proactive and keeping a close eye on day-to-day activity in your checking account can minimize debit card declines and ensure smooth transactions in the future.

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FAQ

Why would a debit card be declined even if I have money in my account?

A debit card may be declined even if you have enough money in your account to cover the transaction due to various reasons. These include:

•   Exceeding daily transaction limits

•   Multiple incorrect PIN entries

•   Using an expired card

•   Using a new card that hasn’t yet been activated

•   Suspected fraud

If your debit card gets declined despite sufficient funds, it’s a good idea to contact your bank. You may be able to quickly resolve the problem and get your card working again.

What should I do if my debit card is declined due to suspected fraud?

If your debit card is declined due to suspected fraud, you’ll want to immediately contact your bank’s customer service department. They will review recent transactions with you and, if necessary, cancel that card and issue a new one.

Once you receive the new debit card, you’ll want to change your PIN and monitor your account for any further suspicious activity. Banks often have fraud protection services to assist and safeguard your funds.

How long does it typically take to resolve a debit card decline issue?

The length of time it takes to resolve a debit card decline will depend on the cause. If the problem is insufficient funds, you may be able to quickly fix it by transferring money from another account. If the issue is suspected fraud, you may be able to clear it up right away by calling customer service, verifying your identity, and letting them know that the charge is legitimate.

Other scenarios may take longer. For example, if your debit card has been compromised or has expired, you may have to wait until you receive a new card in the mail.


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How Are Financial Institutions Governed?

At both federal and state levels, financial institutions are governed by laws that protect consumers against unfair and unscrupulous treatment in the banking and finance sectors. In addition, guidelines are in place to combat fraud and monopolistic behavior, helping to ensure the smooth running of the free-market economy.

Granted, catastrophic historic events — such as the 2008 global financial crisis — occur despite the oversight of robust financial regulatory agencies. Because of this, laws and regulations are constantly being examined and updated to finesse the banking and finance legal framework.

Read on to understand more about finance watchdogs, their roles, and how regulations work to protect the public and the economy from fraud and illicit practices.

What Is Financial Regulation?

Financial regulation is a set of laws, rules, and policies set by governing institutions. These are designed to keep your money safer. Specifically, they aim to maintain confidence and stability in the financial system by eliminating fraud and monopolistic behavior.

In the United States, governing bodies try to balance the need for oversight with a free-market economy, which can be a challenging endeavor.

Why Financial Regulations Are Important

Without regulations, consumers have no protections. They might be subject to fraud, sold bad mortgages, and charged high interest rates and fees on credit cards. Large companies could create monopolies or duopolies, which allow them to control prices.

Laws and policies prevent companies from gaining too much market control and stifling competition, which threatens the free market economy. Regulations also prevent financial institutions from taking risks that put consumer funds in jeopardy.

Here’s a brief history lesson that shows how lack of regulation can negatively impact daily life: The 2008 financial crisis was precipitated by deregulation and the repeal of the Glass-Steagall Act of 1933. This allowed financial institutions to engage in risky hedge fund trading. To fund their investments, the banks created interest-only loans for subprime borrowers, which contributed to more home purchases (including to buyers who would not have otherwise qualified) and quickly rising prices. This created a housing bubble, and millions of people were left bankrupt and couldn’t sell their homes when home prices then plummeted.

But too much regulation can also be a threat to an economy. In a free-market economy, prices are largely determined by supply and demand. Competition among suppliers tends to keep prices at bay as they each try to grab market share.

If regulations become too onerous and costly, companies may use up capital to comply with federal rules. That means they aren’t using those funds to create innovative products. In some cases, specific industries or groups manage to influence regulators and persuade them to introduce or eliminate laws that benefit them and not their competitors.

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Types of Financial Regulations

Different agencies focus on the safety and soundness of products and services, transparency and disclosure, standards, competition, and rates and prices for different entities. Here’s a closer look at some of the most important regulations to be aware of:

•   Stock Exchange Regulations Laws and rules for stock exchanges ensure that the pricing, execution, and settlement of trades is fair and efficient.

•   Listed Company Regulations Listed companies (public companies) are required to prepare quarterly financial statements and submit them to the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) and to their shareholders. Investors use this information to inform their trades.

•   Asset Management Regulation Financial advisors and asset managers must follow strict rules set by financial services regulatory bodies so that clients are treated fairly and not defrauded. Any company that provides investment advice is considered an investment advisor, and the SEC oversees investment advisors with more $110 million in assets under management (AUM).

•   Financial Services Regulation Banking and financial institutions must follow specific guidelines to ensure a functioning banking system. These rules are enforced by The Federal Reserve Board (the Fed), the Office of the Comptroller of the Currency (OCC), the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC).

Recommended: What Is a Fiduciary Financial Advisor?

Types of Financial Institutions

There are a wide variety of financial institutions in America, some of which you may be familiar with. Here’s the rundown:

•   Central banks, like the U.S. Federal Reserve, watch over the country’s monetary policy.

•   Retail banks are probably what most people are familiar with. These are banks where the general public can have checking accounts and savings accounts, loans, and other financial services.

•   Commercial banks are similar to retail banks (above) but they serve the business community. Large banks may act as both commercial and retail banks.

•   Credit unions are similar to banks but they are nonprofits, and members are part owners of them. They offer the same kind of services as banks but may tailor themselves to specific communities.

•   Community development financial institutions (CDFIs) are financial institutions that work to build financial knowledge, services, and wealth in communities that are less advantaged.

•   Savings and loan associations are organizations that use savings to create housing loans.

•   Brokerages manage securities trading (say, stocks and exchange-traded funds, or ETFs), which are regulated though not insured.

•   Insurance companies help both businesses and individuals protect themselves from property loss and may provide services such as loans.

•   Investment companies function by issuing securities to both businesses and individuals who seek to raise capital.

•   Mortgage companies offer home loans and may also manage commercial real estate.

What Is a Financial Regulator?

A financial regulator is an organized governmental or formal body that has the jurisdiction to oversee other entities, such as stock markets, banks, and asset managers. Their mandate is to ensure fairness, protect the public and institutions from fraud, and to facilitate a well-functioning financial sector.

Examples of financial regulators are the Fed, the Securities and Exchange Commission (the SEC), and the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority (FINRA).

How Are Financial Institutions Regulated?

Banks and financial institutions are regulated by the Fed, the OCC, the CFPB, and the FDIC, while asset management companies and stock exchanges answer to the SEC and FINRA. (Also worth noting: Individual stock brokers, investment bankers, and other professionals likely need FINRA securities licenses.) State agencies may enforce regulations on financial institutions, notably insurance providers.

Each of these organizations requires documentation from financial institutions and companies that show compliance with laws. For example, listed companies have to submit quarterly financial statements to the SEC. If they fail to do so, they may be charged with “Failing to Comply” and may lose the ability to trade their shares on the stock market and be forced to pay penalties.

Recommended: FINRA vs. SEC: How are they Different?

The Most Common Financial Regulatory Bodies

The following is a list of the more recognized regulatory agencies and a brief description of what each one does.

The Federal Reserve Board (FRB)

The Fed is the central bank of the United States. As such, it ensures the U.S. economy functions effectively. The Fed is in charge of monetary policy and has the power to increase or decrease interest rates or to instruct banks on the quantity of reserves they must maintain. The Fed also monitors financial systems and their impacts, facilitates efficient settlement of U.S dollar transactions, and upholds laws that protect consumers.

The Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC)

The FDIC was created by Congress to support the U.S. financial system. The FDIC insures deposits and monitors financial institutions and their compliance with consumer protection laws. The FDIC also manages bank failures, though they occur very rarely.

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB)

The is a relatively new agency that implements and enforces Federal consumer financial law. CFPB regulations protect consumers by making sure financial products and services are “fair, transparent, and competitive.”

The National Credit Union Association (NCUA)

The NCUA was created by Congress in 1970. The association insures consumer accounts with credit unions with up to $250,000 of share insurance. Enforcement tools of the association include letters of understanding and agreement, administrative orders, and consent orders.

The Securities Exchange Commission (SEC)

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The SEC strives to maintain the public’s trust in the capital markets by insisting on fair practices. Various acts have been passed over time including the Securities Act of 1933, the Sarbanes-Oxley Act of 2002, and the Dodd-Frank Wall Street Reform and Consumer Protection Act of 2010.

The Commodity Futures Trading Commission (CFTC)

The CFTC was created in 1974 to oversee commodity trading in the agricultural sector. Commodity trading has been subject to government regulation since the 1920s. The CFTC supervises and monitors commodity traders and market activity. The commission investigates and prosecutes wrongdoers and educates customers about their rights and how to avoid fraud.

Recommended: What Are the Difference Between FDIC and NCUA Insurance?

How Financial Regulators Help Banking in the Way We Know Today

The banking and financial systems operate well under current regulation, but what about digital banking? Digital banking is a recent innovation, and existing banking laws and regulations generally apply to digital start-ups and fintechs. However, there are some regulatory frameworks specifically for digital banking.

An example of protection for digital banking consumers is Electronic Know Your Customer (e-KYC), which is used for digital onboarding and checks that a customer is who they say they are to avoid fraud and money laundering. E-signature is a way for customers to validate transactions remotely.

Another instance is the Electronic Fund Transfer Act (Regulation E) which aims to make applicable electronic transactions compliant with regulations as well as have “readily understandable” consumer disclosures.

Recommended: Online Banking vs Traditional Banking: What’s Your Best Option?

The Takeaway

Financial services regulatory bodies like the Fed, the FDIC, and the SEC oversee the banking and finance sectors in the United States. State agencies also play a role. Though many consumers are not aware of the details, these regulatory bodies have jurisdiction over stock markets, commercial and retail banks, investment banks, and asset managers. Their mandate is to ensure fairness for consumers, ensure entities comply with fraud protection rules, and to protect the financial sector and free-market economy.

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FAQ

Who regulates financial institutions in the United States?

In the United States, financial institutions are regulated by the Fed, the Office of the Comptroller of the Currency (OCC), the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC), the SEC, FINRA, the CFPB, the NCUA, and the CFTC. State agencies also enforce regulations on financial institutions, especially insurance providers.

What are regulators in finance?

Finance and banking regulators are state- and government-appointed bodies that protect the safety and fair treatment of consumers. They also ensure smooth operations of the finance and banking sectors, the backbone of the economy.

Who regulates investment banks?

U.S investment banks are regulated by the SEC. For regulatory purposes, investment banks were declared separate for commercial banks following the passing of the Glass Steagall Act of 1933.


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Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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What Is a Second Chance Checking Account?

A second chance checking account can help those with negative past banking history access banking services. It can be a place to deposit and spend money, though it may not offer all the features of a standard checking account.

These second chance checking accounts can be an important step for many people on their journey to enjoying full banking privileges. Learn more about them here.

🛈 Currently, SoFi does not provide second chance checking accounts.

Who Is a Second Chance Banking For?

Second chance banking can help those who have negative marks on their past banking record. To understand this, it’s important to know a bit about what ChexSystems is. Think of it as the banking equivalent of a credit bureau. It catalogs information on consumers’ banking histories, including basics like name, contact information and Social Security number, as well as information on account closures, bounced checks and overdrafts, unpaid balances, suspected fraud, and more.

When a customer applies for a new checking account at a bank or credit union, the institution may look up the ChexSystem report to determine whether or not it’s willing to extend its services. Negative report items — such as unpaid overdrafts, involuntary account closures, or a high number of recent inquiries — can cause a bank to refuse regular checking services to the client.

That’s where second-account checking comes in. A second-chance bank account is one where the bank offering the account is willing to overlook a less-than-stellar banking history. This means a client can continue to use a bank account while rebuilding their ChexSystem report.

While this type of account isn’t available at all banks, it is available at many, including some major traditional and online banks, like Wells Fargo, Chime, and Varo.

In other words, an imperfect banking history doesn’t have to mean living an unbanked existence.

How Does Second Chance Banking Work?

Here’s how second chance banking operates: much like any other regular checking account. The account holder deposits money into the second chance checking account, which they can then access using a debit card or making a withdrawal at an ATM.

Specific account features will depend on which institution is offering the account. For example, some banks may offer free paper checks, and many have convenient mobile banking features.

However, some banks may charge monthly service fees or minimum opening deposits, and may not allow second chance checking account holders to use paper checks. And although checking account interest rates are notoriously low, it’s unlikely your second chance checking account will accrue any interest at all.

That’s why, as when opening any other kind of bank account, it’s important to review the fine print closely to ensure you know what you’re getting into before you apply.

Applying for one of these accounts typically works in the same way as opening a bank account of any kind.

•   The bank will ask for a variety of personal information, and you may be asked to verify your identity with a form of official identification like a driver’s license or Social Security card.

•   You can do this in person or entirely online.

•   Depending on the institution, you may be required to put down a minimum initial deposit. However, in many cases, you will find second chance checking with no opening deposit, meaning the account will be 100% free.

•   You may need to wait a few business days for your application to process, and then you should be in.

Recommended: How to Set Up a Bank Account

Once you’ve opened a second chance checking account, you can use it as normal to pay bills, restaurant tabs, and grocery store totals — whatever expenses come up in your day-to-day life. Meanwhile, the negative items that might be on your ChexSystems report will slowly vanish. Most records fall off after five years.

If you’re interested in cleaning up your ChexSystems report, know this:

•   Consumers also have the right, under the Fair and Accurate Credit Transaction Act (FACTA), to request a free ChexSystems report once a year. A request can be made by phone, mail, fax, or online form, allowing review of the report for any incorrect negative items and disputing them.

•   If you do dispute something on your record, the investigation will generally take about a month. You will receive a letter in the mail notifying you of the results.

Over time, it’s possible to clean up a ChexSystems record — which can unlock the ability to pursue other types of banking services, including high-interest deposit accounts.

Recommended: Guide to Reopening a Closed Bank Account

Pros and Cons of Second Chance Banking

While second chance banking does provide a valuable service, there are some drawbacks to these accounts as well. Here are the pros and cons of second chance checking accounts.

Pros:

•   Allows clients to use a checking account even without a perfect banking history.

•   Gives account holders time to rebuild their banking history and let negative items fall off their ChexSystems report.

•   In many cases, second chance checking accounts are free and don’t require a minimum opening deposit.

Cons:

•   Some accounts may assess monthly bank fees and have minimum opening deposits — and may not offer waivers.

•   The account may have limited capabilities (such as an inability to use paper checks or to access overdraft protection).

•   The account is unlikely to offer interest growth on account balances.

Alternatives to Second Chance Banking

Second chance checking accounts are a solid option for those who might not be able to open a traditional checking account because of their banking history. But they’re not the only alternative. Here are two options:

•   Prepaid debit cards. A prepaid debit card can be used to pay bills and other expenses without using cash. It works like a gift card: Clients load the card with a certain amount of money, which they can then use as they see fit. The cards are also reloadable, making them a fair option for working around the handicap of not having a bank account.

   What’s more, many prepaid debit cards don’t require a credit check to open. This makes them a viable choice for those with poor credit histories as well as poor ChexSystems reports.

   That said, there are pros and cons of prepaid debit cards. In terms of downsides, they often include a variety of fees — such as monthly maintenance fees, activation fees, and reloading fees — which can eat into the user’s balance and make them unsustainable for long-term use.

•   Cash. Others who find themselves unbanked might try to simply pay their way through life using cash. After all, you can often get a paycheck cashed at the nearest major grocery store or retailer.

   However, there are downsides: Check-cashing services generally come with a fee. Plus, many utility companies, landlords, and other bill collectors don’t accept cash as payment. And if your cash is lost or stolen, there’s no reliable way to get it back. It’s gone.

The Takeaway

Second chance bank accounts can help those who are unable to get a standard bank account. While it doesn’t have all the features of typical accounts, it can offer a path to being banked and graduating to a full-fledged checking account.

FAQ

What is second chance banking?

Second chance banking is a kind of account that serves people who may not have a perfect banking record. If you have negative items on your ChexSystems record, you may still qualify for this kind of account.

What is a second chance bank account?

A second chance account is one that can be opened even if you have a less than perfect history with banking. It may have some downsides (monthly fees plus no overdraft protection, for example), but it allows people to get back in the game and have checking privileges.

Who is second chance banking for?

Second chance banking is for people who have negative items in their banking history. These typically include unpaid overdrafts, involuntary account closures, and other events which show the account holder did not use their privileges responsibly.


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Annual percentage yield (APY) is variable and subject to change at any time. Rates are current as of 12/23/25. There is no minimum balance requirement. Fees may reduce earnings. Additional rates and information can be found at https://www.sofi.com/legal/banking-rate-sheet

Eligible Direct Deposit means a recurring deposit of regular income to an account holder’s SoFi Checking or Savings account, including payroll, pension, or government benefit payments (e.g., Social Security), made by the account holder’s employer, payroll or benefits provider or government agency (“Eligible Direct Deposit”) via the Automated Clearing House (“ACH”) Network every 31 calendar days.

Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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Why Do We Feel Guilty Spending Money?

It’s not uncommon to feel guilty about spending money, even when it’s a necessary purchase, since you may believe the funds could be better applied elsewhere. Perhaps you could buy something better, or maybe you could use the cash to pay down debt or save for the future.

Some purchases trigger more guilt than others, and some people are more prone to experiencing this unpleasant sensation than others. Read on to learn more about feeling guilty after spending money.

Is Spending Money a Bad Thing?

Spending money in and of itself is not a bad thing. In fact, it’s a necessary reality of life, and financial products like checking accounts and credit cards are designed to enable it. It would be hard to imagine navigating daily life without spending cash to, say, buy food or commute to work.

But there are a lot of opinions out there about how people should spend their cash, which can lead to conflicting emotions. Treating oneself can stir up feelings around self-worth, and spending money on a big-ticket item can trigger anxiety about future finances. (You’ll learn more about these scenarios in a moment.)

Despite money’s necessary role in life, feeling guilty about spending it is fairly common. One recent LendingTree survey found that 71% of respondents reported feeling that way. That sensation can snowball, creating free-floating money worries.

Spending cash is an inescapable reality, but the guilt associated with it doesn’t have to be.

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Reasons Why We Feel Guilty About Spending Money

Often, guilt and anxiety around spending money come from the motivation for the transaction, not the purchase itself. Learning to stop feeling guilty after spending money may require people to notice when they feel guilt or shame after a purchase and change their mindset or spending behavior accordingly.

Everyone has different emotional triggers around their spending, but there are some common scenarios when someone might feel guilty, such as these:

Buying Items to Keep Up With Friends

FOMO, or the “fear of missing out,” may be a silly acronym, but it’s a powerful motivator for spending.
People may spend more so they don’t miss valuable time with friends or feel they are fitting into their group of pals. That could mean paying too much for a vacation or buying a cool new watch they see friends wearing. These expenses can be small, subtle purchases, too, like meeting a friend at a pricier restaurant than you’d usually visit, or it could reflect a significant financial decision, like buying a new instead of used car to “keep up with the Joneses.”

FOMO spending may make someone feel guilty about spending money because it’s tied to the deep desire to fit it. It is often more about self-image and self-esteem than a particular item.

Recommended: How to Save Money on Hotels

Buying Items That Do Not Align With Our Financial Values

Similar to FOMO spending, cultural messaging about “the right way” to spend can lead to a sense of guilt or buyer’s remorse.

It may be the influence of social media encouraging someone to buy a certain brand or societal pressure (the American dream) to own property. Whatever the purchase is, guilt could crop up because it’s not something the individual truly wants — and deep down, they know that.

Saving Goals Impacted by Impulse Spending

An impulse or unexpected purchase could lead to feeling guilty after spending money.

It could be something as simple as forgetting lunch at home and having to buy something expensive near the office. Or maybe it’s buying something you totally didn’t plan to but saw it was on sale. It may be a small purchase, but it eats into your budget and savings goals because it’s unexpected.

Many of these purchases arise from a lack of planning, leading to guilt. You feel as if you messed up, and now you are literally paying for it. Buying a new set of luggage, for instance, is not a good reason to use emergency funds or money in your savings account, so you may be upset with yourself.

Having a Money Mindset Tied to Emotions and Past Experiences

Guilt about spending money may have little to do with the individual and be more connected to their family or upbringing.

People who grew up with parents or guardians in debt may experience feelings of scarcity around money. If you grew up always hearing there wasn’t enough money and getting calls from collection agencies, you may hold a sense of guilt with every purchase.

Or, if someone’s experienced debt in the past, any transaction may trigger anxiety as they remember their old patterns of overspending.

Recommended: Using the 30-Day Rule to Control Spending

Tips to Help You Stop Feeling Bad About Spending Money

Instead of agonizing over every purchase or waking up worried about bills, it may be time to stop feeling guilty when you spend money. Here are some strategies to help combat those negative feelings while improving your financial wellness.

Taking Care of Financial Responsibilities

When people prioritize financial responsibilities, they may feel less guilty spending the surplus, or leftover money, in their budget.

That means enacting a “paying yourself first” mindset, which can be one of the most important personal finance basics. When a paycheck deposits, immediately put money away towards future goals, like retirement or savings. Setting up automatic transfers makes it easy.

Taking care of financial responsibilities first can give someone the freedom to use the remaining cash relatively guilt-free.

30-Day Savings Rule

To avoid guilt over impulse spending, try implementing a 30-day rule on purchases. If you want to purchase something, whether it’s a new laptop or a new coat, wait 30 days. After 30 days, you can buy it. But in many cases, you may find you don’t even want it anymore.

Slowing down the purchase process can help separate needs from wants, as well as quit spending money impulsively.

If impulse purchasing is a major source of guilt, consider a 30-day freeze on shopping, buying only necessities for a month. This can be a good tip to stop overspending. It can help you reset your spending behaviors.

Improving Your Money Mindset

Understanding needs versus wants can be a helpful way to understand and improve money mindset.

For some, the idea of a want is “bad,” translating to guilt when a purchase isn’t absolutely necessary. But, wants can make life more comfortable and bring pleasure — two very good things. So the key is differentiating between needs and wants, and understanding where wants fit into a budget. Perhaps not every want can or should be satisfied, but recognizing they are part of life and budgeting for them is important.

You might try the 50/30/20 budget rule, which says to put 50% of your after-tax earnings towards needs, 30% to wants, and 20% toward savings.

Creating a Personalized Budget

Sometimes guilt stems from the unknown. If someone doesn’t know how much cash they have in their bank account, they may feel guilty purchasing something.

This is where a personalized budget comes into play and can help you manage your money better. Everyone’s budget will be a little different, but feeling knowledgeable about and in control of one’s money can help alleviate guilt.

For example, if someone looks forward to having brunch out every Saturday, they may create a line item in their budget for it. That way, they don’t feel guilty spending the money as it’s earmarked for that purpose. They eliminate the possibility of anxiety spiraling over that cost.

Only Spending Money That You Have

It sounds like common sense, but only spending money that’s available can help prevent guilt around money. It’s an unhappy fact that many Americans carry credit-card debt: The typical balance is currently approximately $6,900, and the average credit card interest rate is almost 25%.

There are of course times when paying with a credit card and carrying a balance are necessary, such as when your hot-water heater breaks or you get hit with a major dental bill. But in general, it’s wise to pay with a debit card or cash so you don’t wind up getting stuck with high-interest debt. By only spending the money you have, you can avoid guilt, worry, and a lower credit score to boot.

Guilt isn’t constructive and won’t change your financial situation. However, working on financial discipline can improve the overall outlook on spending and make sure your purchases are ones you can truly afford.

The Takeaway

People feel guilt about spending money for many different reasons, even when they can afford their purchases. Getting rid of that guilt is possible through understanding why spending makes someone feel guilty and learning financial responsibility to prevent guilt altogether.

One place guilt shouldn’t crop up? In a bank account. Avoid it by knowing that you have an account that pays you a terrific interest rate while charging you no fees.

Interested in opening an online bank account? When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with eligible direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.


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FAQ

How do I get over my guilt of overspending?

First, figure out what kind of spending makes you feel guilty and why. Perhaps it’s based on childhood or past experiences. Then, consider creating a budget and planning purchases to avoid buyer’s remorse or impulse spending.

What is the psychology behind overspending?

People may overspend because they’re afraid of missing out on experiences, they want a self-esteem boost, or they want to fit in with their peers.

How do you forgive yourself for not saving money?

Understanding the emotional triggers behind overspending and not saving can help build a sense of self-compassion. Many people overspend or fail to prioritize saving. Dwelling on it won’t change the past. For these reasons, forgiving yourself and moving on is best.


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SoFi Checking and Savings is offered through SoFi Bank, N.A. Member FDIC. The SoFi® Bank Debit Mastercard® is issued by SoFi Bank, N.A., pursuant to license by Mastercard International Incorporated and can be used everywhere Mastercard is accepted. Mastercard is a registered trademark, and the circles design is a trademark of Mastercard International Incorporated.

Annual percentage yield (APY) is variable and subject to change at any time. Rates are current as of 12/23/25. There is no minimum balance requirement. Fees may reduce earnings. Additional rates and information can be found at https://www.sofi.com/legal/banking-rate-sheet

Eligible Direct Deposit means a recurring deposit of regular income to an account holder’s SoFi Checking or Savings account, including payroll, pension, or government benefit payments (e.g., Social Security), made by the account holder’s employer, payroll or benefits provider or government agency (“Eligible Direct Deposit”) via the Automated Clearing House (“ACH”) Network every 31 calendar days.

Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

See additional details at https://www.sofi.com/legal/banking-rate-sheet.

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Financial Tips & Strategies: The tips provided on this website are of a general nature and do not take into account your specific objectives, financial situation, and needs. You should always consider their appropriateness given your own circumstances.

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