What Is the Reverse Budgeting Method?

The reverse budgeting method is an approach that prioritizes savings. Budgets typically start by looking at monthly bills and expenses and allocating whatever is left over to saving. Reverse budgeting turns this approach on its head — it considers savings first and spending second.

Also known as the “pay yourself first” method, reverse budgeting starts by allocating a certain amount of your monthly income to your savings goals (such as retirement or an emergency fund). Whatever is left over after that is how much you have to spend. Essentially, it involves pretending that your paycheck is smaller than it actually is.

If your top goal is saving or you’ve tried budgeting in the past without complete success, the reverse budget might be for you. Here’s what reverse budgeting means and how it works.

Key Points

•   Reverse budgeting prioritizes savings by allocating a portion of income to savings goals first, then spending the remainder on other expenses.

•   Reverse budgeting simplifies budgeting since you can focus on saving a predetermined amount and then spend the rest as needed or desired.

•   The reverse budgeting method can help achieve financial goals faster and allows guilt-free spending within remaining income limits.

•   Reverse budgeting may not be ideal for those with high-interest debt or irregular income.

•   Automating savings and periodically reassessing the budget are key steps to making reverse budgeting work effectively.

Reverse Budgeting Explained

The reverse budgeting method prioritizes setting money aside for your savings and investing goals. This might include building an emergency fund, saving for a new car or down payment on a house, or investing for retirement. Once that money has been set aside, the rest of your income can be used to cover your living expenses.

Reverse budgeting usually involves setting up automatic contributions to savings, typically on payday. As a result, the money leaves your bank account before you get a chance to spend it. That’s why this method is also known as the “pay yourself first” approach.

How Reverse Budgeting Differs from Traditional Budgeting

Making a budget typically involves listing all of your monthly expenses and assigning a portion of income to each category (e.g., housing, groceries, transportation). The goal is to ensure that expenses don’t exceed income, and any leftover funds can be saved or invested. This approach often requires meticulous tracking and discipline to avoid overspending in any category.

By contrast, reverse budgeting starts by looking at your financial goals and the things you want to save for. It helps you determine how much you need to put aside each month to accomplish them. You then subtract that sum from your monthly pay; what’s left is how much you have to spend on everything else.

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Steps to Create a Reverse Budget

Creating a reverse budget tends to be less complicated than setting up other types of budgets. It doesn’t require establishing spending categories and totals for how much you will spend on each. That said, there are a few steps involved. Here’s a look at how to do a reverse budget.

1. Assess Your Spending

To know how to set your savings goals, you’ll need to get a general sense of your current cash flow. You can do this by pulling the last few months of financial statements, then adding up how much is coming in and going each month on average. You might also want to make a list of your essential monthly expenses, as well as how much you tend to spend each month on nonessentials.

This type of spending audit will give you a clear picture of your spending patterns. It can also help you identify any discretionary spending you may be able to reduce to accommodate your savings goals. There are also budgeting apps that can do a lot of this work for you. Start by seeing what your financial institution offers that could help with this process.

2. Identifying Your Savings Goals

Next, you’ll want to think about your savings goals. These might include building an emergency fund, saving for a down payment on a house, doing a home renovation, going on a vacation, paying for a wedding, contributing to retirement accounts, or any other financial objectives.

You’ll likely want to set your savings goals in terms of dollars as well as the timeframe within which you want to work.

3. Allocate Income to Savings

Once you’ve identified your savings goals, you might pick just a couple to start with. For each, as noted, you’ll have determined how much money you’ll need, along with a realistic timeline for reaching the goal. With that information in mind, you can then allocate a portion of your income to each goal.

For example, if you want to save $5,000 for an emergency fund over the next year, you would need to save approximately $417 per month.

As you go through this step, you’ll want to be realistic about how much you can afford to siphon off your paycheck for savings. It’s important to have enough spending money left over to cover your bills and also have some fun.

Recommended: 10 Most Common Budgeting Mistakes

4. Automate Your Saving

To ensure consistency and reduce the temptation to spend your savings, it’s a good idea to automate the saving process. If you have a 401(k) at work, you can do this by letting your employer know how much of your paycheck to put into your retirement account.

For shorter-term goals, consider setting up an automatic transfer from your checking account to a savings account for the same day each month, ideally right after you get paid. Some employers even allow you to split up your direct deposit into two different bank accounts.

5. Make Adjustments as Needed

Once you’re living on your reverse budget, you may find that you don’t have enough wiggle room to comfortably cover your bills and everyday spending. Or you might realize that you can afford to put more money towards savings and, in turn, reach your goals faster. Either way, it’s important to periodically reassess your reverse budget and, if necessary, make some adjustments in your savings rate.

This is especially important as your life circumstances and financial goals change. If you get a raise, for example, consider increasing your savings rate (this can help you avoid lifestyle creep). Conversely, if you encounter unexpected expenses, you may need to temporarily reduce your savings rate to accommodate these costs.

Pros and Cons of Reverse Budgeting

As with any financial strategy, reverse budgeting has its advantages and disadvantages. Understanding these pros and cons can help you determine if this method is right for you.

Pros of Reverse Budgeting

First, consider the upsides of reverse budgeting:

•   It can help you reach your goals faster: One of the main advantages of reverse budgeting is that it takes savings right off the top of your paycheck. This can help you build an emergency fund, save for a major purchase, or invest for retirement more quickly than traditional budgeting methods.

•   Low maintenance: Reverse budgeting simplifies the budgeting process. Instead of meticulously tracking every expense category, you focus on saving a predetermined amount and spend the remainder as you see fit. This low-maintenance approach can be particularly appealing for those who find traditional budgeting too time-consuming and/or restrictive.

•   Spending without guilt: With reverse budgeting, you can enjoy spending within the limits of your remaining income. Since your savings goals are already met, you have the freedom to spend on discretionary items without worrying that you are derailing your future progress.

In these ways, the reverse budgeting method can help you prioritize savings and achieve financial security.

Recommended: The Most Important Components of a Successful Budget

Cons of Reverse Budgeting

Next, keep these potential downsides of reverse budgeting in mind:

•   It could lead to overspending: Since reverse budgeting doesn’t require setting up spending categories and strict spending limits for each one, you could end up overspending on certain things. Then, you might have to dip into savings to cover the shortfall.

•   You might be better off focusing on debt: If you have high-interest debt, paying down those balances could provide a better return on investment than saving or investing. If this is the case, a more traditional budgeting approach that prioritizes debt repayment might be more effective.

•   Not ideal for people with variable income: Reverse budgeting generally depends on earning a set amount of money each month. For people with variable income, such as freelancers or those with seasonal work schedules, maintaining a fixed savings rate could be challenging.

The Takeaway

Reverse budgeting, also known as the “pay yourself first” method, prioritizes saving and simplifies the entire budgeting process. By automating saving, it also reduces the chance that you’ll spend money today that you were intending to set aside for the future. However, reverse budgeting may not be the best approach if you have a lot of high-interest debt or your income fluctuates. You might be better off with another budgeting technique.

Choosing the right banking partner can also help you budget more effectively.

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FAQ

How does reverse budgeting help with saving money?

Reverse budgeting helps with saving money by prioritizing savings over expenditures. With this approach, you allocate a set percentage or amount of your income to savings first and then use the remaining amount to cover your expenses. This ensures that you don’t spend money you were planning to use for future goals.

Can reverse budgeting work for irregular income?

Reverse budgeting can be challenging for those with irregular income, such as gig workers. Here’s why: It relies on setting aside a certain amount of money into savings each month — before other expenses are paid. If your income fluctuates significantly, it may be difficult to meet your savings goal monthly.

However, you may be able to make it work by taking a flexible approach. For example, you might set a minimum savings rate based on your lowest expected income and then, during higher-income months, increase your savings contributions. Building an emergency fund can also help smooth out the fluctuations.

Is reverse budgeting suitable for paying off debt?

Reverse budgeting isn’t ideal for paying off debt, since it focuses on saving first, which can divert funds from debt repayment. If you have significant high-interest debt, prioritizing debt repayment might provide better financial benefits in the long run compared to the returns from savings or investments.

However, you might consider a hybrid approach — allocating a portion of your income to debt repayment and another to savings, ensuring you address both goals.


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How to Set and Reach Savings Goals

Whether you want to save money for a trip to Japan, a down payment on your first home, or the wedding of your dreams, you are probably going to need a well-funded savings account. And for many people, that means implementing and sticking to a savings strategy.

A great first step to saving money is defining your savings goals. What is it that you’re working for? Whatever the answer is, having a specific goal — and not losing sight of it — can help you reach it. While getting to the finish line may require some planning and discipline, the reward will likely be well worth the effort.

Because living your best life probably requires having money saved, here are some strategies you might find helpful when trying to set and reach your savings goals.

1. Identifying Your Goals

There are some savings goals that are nearly universal, like retirement and an emergency fund, and others that will be unique to you. Everyone’s finances and goals are different. Before you can reach your savings goals, it’s important to know what they are. This is the fun part — you may want to spend some time dreaming and planning here.

Next, you’ll want to list those goals in order of priority. Keep in mind, priority doesn’t necessarily mean which happens soonest (although it could). For example, even though retirement is far away, it will likely be the most expensive savings goal a person will have during their lifetime. Therefore, it may rank higher in priority than other savings “wants,” such as a new television or an exotic vacation.

Because many people won’t be able to save for each of their big goals right away, ranking them in order of importance can help you determine which to work on first.

2. Determining Monthly Amounts

This is a necessary — and often eye-opening — exercise. First, list out your top two or three financial goals. Next, think about how much money you need to accomplish each goal and the time frame, in months, for accomplishing the goal. Then, divide the former by the latter.

For example, let’s say you want to save $6,000 for an emergency fund in one year (12 months), $10,000 for a wedding in four years (48 months), and $20,000 for a down payment in six years (72 months).

By dividing the savings goal by the number of months, you’ll find you need to save $500 per month for your emergency fund, $208 per month for your wedding fund, and $278 per month for your down payment.

This may be another exercise in prioritization, helping you hone in on what to focus on first.

Recommended: 10 Ways To Save Money Fast

3. Writing Down Your Goals

Research suggests that people who write their goals down are more likely to reach them than those who don’t. There could be a few reasons for this.

One is that a written list can serve as a practical reminder that you have goals to work toward. You can give yourself an extra visual cue by posting your goal (or goals) in a place where you’ll see it often, like on the fridge.

Writing down a goal may also help connect the creative, thinking part of the brain with the action-oriented and pragmatic parts of the brain. To translate your savings dreams into reality, it may be important to get as many parts of your brain and consciousness involved as possible.

You may find it valuable (and fun) to take this idea a step further and create a vision board for your goals.

Recommended: Savings Goals by Age: Smart Financial Targets by Age Group

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4. Tracking Your Progress

There’s an old saying that goes “what gets measured gets improved.”

If you truly want to get better at spending and saving, then you may want to track both your daily spending habits and your long-term progress on your savings goals. This may feel difficult at first, but will likely get easier with practice and as you hone the methods that work for you.

With daily or weekly spending habits, there are lots of ways to track how you’re doing. If you don’t know where to start, there’s always the old-fashioned way — with a pen and paper. This is a great way to really wrap your head around where your money is going, and the act of writing down each “spend” may actually help you to spend less. Or, you could collect receipts and enter your expenses in an Excel spreadsheet or Google Sheet. Or, even easier, you may want to get a budgeting app (like SoFi’s) for your phone or other mobile device. These tools connect to your bank and credit card accounts and automatically track and categorize your spending.

With savings goals, it’s also possible to track your progress via pen and paper or using a spreadsheet — simply write down your goal and jot down your progress every time you make a transfer to your savings account. Budgeting apps are also a great way to track your savings, since they automatically import your transactions when you link your bank account(s).

5. Celebrating Small Successes

To help avoid savings fatigue and to keep the fire burning, don’t forget to treat yourself along the way. Positive reinforcement might be an important element to your success.

How might you do this? You don’t have to wait until you’ve reached your big goal to celebrate — you can give yourself some love throughout the journey. For example, if the goal is to save $10,000, then you might celebrate when you hit $5,000 in addition to when you cross the finish line.

Celebrating can be as simple as treating yourself to a hot chocolate or the fanciest coffee in town, but it can help to find a way to give yourself that mental victory.

6. Automating

If you’re like many people, you’re busy and not wild about taking on another chore. So, what can we do to make saving money less of a chore? One potential way to do this is to automate.

Automating is a simple and powerful way to make progress toward savings goals without having to think about it all the time.

To automate your savings, you might set up a recurring transfer from your checking account to your savings account on the same day each month, ideally right after you get paid. Financial experts refer to this strategy as “paying yourself first.” If you wait until you’ve paid all your bills and done your spending for the month to make a manual transfer, you might (a) forget and (b) not have anything left to move to savings.

7. Choose a High-Yield Savings Account

As you work toward your financial goals, you’ll want to make sure to put your accumulating funds in a high-yield savings account to maximize your money. A high-yield savings account is a type of federally insured savings product that earns rates that are much better than the national average. This allows your money to grow faster and can help you reach your savings goals sooner.

Some banks offer special, high-interest savings accounts that earn better rates than traditional accounts. One of the best places to look for high-interest savings accounts is online banks. Online banks, which save significant costs by not having to maintain branches, rarely charge monthly fees. They also typically offer rates that are much higher than those paid by traditional banks.

Interested in opening an online bank account? When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.


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Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

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9 Money Hacks To Try This Year

Financial wellness doesn’t have to be complicated. While you’ll eventually want to work up to a financial plan that includes a detailed budget, savings goals, and a retirement plan, there are small things you can do today to set you off on the right foot. What follows are nine hacks for money that can help you get organized, save more, knock down debt, and master the basics of personal finance.

9 Money Hacks to Help Save You Money

These simple moves can help you boost your financial health, reach your goals, and avoid financial pitfalls like impulsive spending and unmanageable debt spirals.

1. Use Multiple Savings Accounts

Having a different savings account for each one of your goals — whether it’s a new car, a down payment on a house, or even a big vacation — can be a great way to keep track of your progress. If you only have one account, it can be difficult to know what money is earmarked for which goal. For example, if you have $15,000 in your savings account, it may be hard to track that you have $5,000 saved for an emergency fund and $10,000 for a home purchase.

Separate savings accounts makes it easier to prioritize the goals you’re eager to reach, allowing you to fund those accounts first. It also decreases the chances you will raid the account to cover another expense. If an account is clearly labeled Emergency Fund, you may think twice about using it for a trip to Tulum.

And since many banks now offer savings accounts that feature the same interest rate, no matter how low your balance, you don’t need to put all your savings in the same account to get the highest yield.

2. Ditch Your Low-Interest Savings Account

Is there anything better than money you don’t have to work for? The interest you’re paid for keeping money in a bank account is basically that. If you’re still using your first savings account, however, chances are you’re getting a low interest rate.

Right now, the best online savings account interest rates are around 3.00%. Traditional brick-and-mortar banks, on the other hand, generally offer rates that are close to the national average, which is currently 0.38%. If you have a $10,000 savings balance, choosing an account that pays 5% will earn you about $500 in a year. If it stays in a bank account that pays 0.40% APY, you would earn about $40. The difference increases the more you deposit and the longer you keep the money in the account.

Failing to open a high-interest savings account means you’re giving up free money.

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3. Put Saving on Autopilot

Automating your savings is a great way to separate your savings from your spending without any extra effort on your part. If you wait to see what you have left at the end of the month to make a manual transfer to savings, you may forget or, worse, you may have nothing left to move.

There are two ways to automate your savings: One is to split up your direct deposit and funnel part of it into a savings account; the other is to set up a recurring transfer from your checking account into a savings account for the same day each month (ideally right after you get paid). If you have different savings accounts for different goals, you can choose to have a set amount for each account.

4. Pay Down High-Interest Debts

Credit card annual percentage rates (APRs) are now averaging a record 28.93%, up from 26.72 percent in 2022. To whittle down high-interest debt, consider making at least one extra payment on your credit cards per month. If you have multiple balances, here are two ways to knock them down:

•   The snowball method With this approach, you make your extra payment on your smallest debt, while maintaining minimum payments on the others. When that debt is paid off, you focus on paying off the next-smallest debt, and so on.

•   The avalanche method Here, you put your extra payment towards the debt with the highest interest rate, while making minimum payments on the others. When that debt is paid off, you focus on the debt with the next-highest rate, and so on.
The money you save in interest payments can then go towards saving (and earning interest).

5. Audit Your Subscriptions

There’s a good chance you are paying monthly for things you no longer need or use. To find out, review your credit card or bank statement to see what subscriptions services you’re paying for each month. Do you have cable, but only watch streaming services like Netflix and Hulu? Are you paying for streaming services you never, or rarely, watch? You might also audit your music services — if you are paying for more than one, you might keep your fave and get rid of the others.

The monthly fee for each streaming service may seem small but, when you pay it every month, year after year, it can seriously add up.

Recommended: How to Track Your Monthly Expenses: Step-by-Step Guide

6. Put a Free Budgeting App on Your Phone

Keeping tabs on how much is going in and going out of your accounts is crucial to financial wellness. But who wants to spend hours coming through statements? A budgeting app does the work for you, and many are free (at least for the basic service).

Popular budgeting apps, like Goodbudget, EveryDollar, and PocketGuard, allow you to connect with your financial accounts (including bank accounts, credit cards, and investment accounts) and give you a bird’s eye view of your finances. Right from your phone, you can see what’s in your bank account, your current credit card balance, what you’re spending the most money on, how your spending compares to last month, and more. This can be eye-opening and help you make smarter financial decisions.

💡 Quick Tip: Want a simple way to save more everyday? When you turn on Roundups, all of your debit card purchases are automatically rounded up to the next dollar and deposited into your savings account.

7. Practice the 3-Day Rule

Online shopping has made it easier than ever to impulse buy. You’re only one click away from a new jacket, blender, or television. So try this smart spending hack: Whenever you see something you want to buy, either online or in-person, DO NOT buy it that day. Put the purchase on pause for at least three days. Tell yourself that if, after three days, you still want the item, and you can afford it, you’ll buy it. This gives you time to reflect. You may well decide that you don’t need or want the item that badly. If you’re worried about missing a “one-day” or “flash” sale, don’t — retailers run sales all the time.

Recommended: How to Stop Spending Money: 7 Strategies to Curb Overspending

8. Use Cash

This may sound counterintuitive, but spending cash can actually help you save money. The reason: When you spend in cash, you actually have to physically give up your money when you spend it, unlike with a credit or debit card.

You might try taking out a set amount of money for discretionary spending for the week, and when the money is done, you’re done spending. Or, consider using the envelope budgeting system, where you take out a certain amount of cash for the week and divide it into envelopes for food, gas, etc. As you see the money go down in each envelope, you’ll have to think hard about every purchase.

9. Gradually Boost Retirement Savings

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You may have heard that you “should” be putting 15% of your income into your 401(k) or other retirement fund each year. It’s a solid goal. But for many young people, it may not be remotely realistic. That said, you shouldn’t give up on the whole idea. Why not try baby steps? You might start by putting just 1% of each paycheck into your retirement fund, then increase it by 1% every three to six months.

While 1% is a small percentage of your annual earnings today, after 20 or 30 years it can make a big difference in your account balance when you retire. That’s because the longer you give your money a chance to grow, the better.

Recommended: When Should You Start Saving for Retirement?

The Takeaway

Getting a better handle on your finances may perennially be on your to-do list. The problem is that this goal can seem too vague and too overwhelming to even know where to begin. The good news is that you don’t have to overhaul your personal finances overnight. Simply adopting some smart money habits (or hacks) can snowball into long-term financial stability and wealth. And there’s no better time to start than today.

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Money and Marriage: Making Important Money Decisions in Marriage

Financial decisions are difficult enough on your own. But they can get even harder when you bring a significant other into the mix. After all, you both are coming from different life experiences and may have very different (often deep-seated) views on money, including how it should be spent and whether it should be saved.

Not surprisingly, money is a common cause of stress in relationships and, if left unaddressed, it can start impacting more things than just your bank account. Research consistently shows that financial problems and disagreements over money is a leading cause of divorce.

Considering how personal, and therefore complicated, each partner’s relationship with money can be, navigating money conversations can be tricky.

A great first step is to understand that financial decision-making as a couple may not come naturally, and that’s completely fine. These conversations take practice. What follows are a few strategies to try and some ideas to keep in mind when making financial decisions with your partner.

Key Points

•   Financial decisions can be more challenging when involving a partner due to differing backgrounds and views on money.

•   Common causes of financial disputes among couples include budgeting, spending, and handling past debts.

•   Effective strategies for couples include scheduling money discussions, writing down feelings about money, and actively listening to each other.

•   Compromise and joint decision-making can strengthen the relationship and improve financial outcomes.

•   Implementing a financial plan with clear actions can help couples achieve their shared financial goals.

Common Causes of Couple Money Fights

Whether you and your partner are struggling to make a particular money decision or generally don’t see eye to eye on money, know that money fights are normal and common. Here’s a look at some of the most common hot button issues for couples.

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Sharing Account Information

Some couples struggle with privacy limits and may disagree about what level of access their partner should have to their financial accounts. If one partner feels they don’t have fair access to financial accounts, passwords, and paperwork, resentment can build.

Married couples in particular may find it confusing and challenging to not have a full picture of their complete financial health.

Determining Budgeting and Spending Limits

Maybe one of you likes to spend and enjoy life, while the other prefers to save for a rainy day. This disconnect happens all the time. Not all couples agree on how much they should be spending versus putting aside for the future and this can lead to anger and tension.

Dealing With Past Debt

If one partner brings a sizable amount of debt into the relationship, couples may disagree about who is responsible for paying off the debt.

You might take some solace in knowing that debts brought into a marriage stay with the person who incurred them and are not extended to a spouse. It won’t hurt the other partner’s credit rating (which is linked to their Social Security number and tracked individually). In most states, however, debts incurred after marriage jointly are owed by both spouses.

Saving and Investing

Many couples can’t agree on how much money they should save each month, as well as how they should be saving it. One partner may feel investing is the best path to a stronger financial future, while the other might be more risk averse, preferring to stash extra funds in a high-yield savings account.

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7 Tips for Making Financial Decisions as a Couple

Just having a conversation about money with your significant other can be fraught. Coming to an agreement on how to manage your money is often even harder. Fortunately, these eight strategies can help you find common ground.

1. Make a Date to Talk

Your instincts might tell you to dive headfirst into a big money talk in order to get it the heck out of the way. But this may not be your best strategy. No one is their best self when they feel caught off guard. A conversation about a tough financial decision will likely be more productive when there are two calm, prepared people at the table.

Instead of bringing up the topic of money out of the blue, you might give your partner some notice. You can simply set a time to talk about the financial decision at hand. Or, you might want to turn it into a real “date” and treat yourself to a coffee at the local shop or pick up your favorite take-out dinner. Either way, the most important thing is that you have a designated time for the talk. This strategy can be applied to discussing one particular financial decision, or you can utilize it on a regular basis.

Recommended: How to Make Talking About Finances Fun, Not a Fight

2. Write It Out

Sometimes, it’s simply hard to communicate how you feel. This is especially true for topics that affect us deeply and in confusing ways, like money. If you and your partner are people that like to put their feelings down in writing, consider writing each other a letter prior to your financial “date.”

In your letter, you might include some background on how you were raised to think about money, your money stressors, and your financial goals. Focus the letter on yourself and from where your financial beliefs stem.

Not only will this help your partner understand where you are coming from, but it can also provide you with some very useful introspection about money and your system of values.

3. Be Prepared to Listen

When making financial decisions, your main objective should not be to explain your point of view. To have a truly productive conversation, you must be committed to listening, too. This is good practice in all conversations with your partner and loved ones, but especially when talking about financial decisions.

Here’s the thing about making financial decisions: It’s rarely black and white and, generally, there is no right and no wrong. Being open to listening often translates into being open to learning.

Not only is your partner’s perspective important, but you might even be able to learn something from them. We’re all learning as we go anyway, and by listening, you have a chance to learn and evolve as a couple.

Recommended: How to Budget As a Couple and Why It’s Important

4. Be Communicative

One key to having a productive and healthy conversation regarding money or a specific financial decision with your partner is to communicate your feelings, thoughts, and fears. Something that seems obvious to you may not be obvious to them, so give your partner the benefit of explaining yourself in a calm and thorough way.

When you communicate, try to stick with talking about how you feel regarding a matter and avoid making declarations about what your partner has done in the past or what you’re hoping that they will do in the future.

Making comments about how a person is spending can quickly turn accusatory, putting them on the defensive. Even when having tough conversations, do your best to remove judgment from the equation.

Also, it’s best not to assume that just because you have explained something to your partner once, that they understand what you mean and where you are coming from. Don’t lose your cool if you have to remind your partner what’s important or a priority to you, especially if your priorities don’t align on this particular issue.

Recommended: Guide to Improving Your Money Mindset

5. Crunch the Numbers

Sometimes, the numbers help guide financial decision-making within a relationship. It can be worth taking the time to figure out exactly how each financial decision would play out over the short and long term.

By breaking big costs down into monthly numbers, you and your partner can see on paper what is possible (and what isn’t). The exercise may provide a new perspective altogether or, at the very least, get you on the same page regarding the different options with your money.

If you feel at a loss for what you should be focusing on or how to accomplish your goals, you may want to hire a financial expert, such as a credentialed financial planner. Some financial guidance from a person skilled in financial planning could be just what a couple needs to step up their money game.

6. Compromise

If you’re in a partnership, you already know that compromise is key. The good news is that with money, compromising is not only possible but often ideal. For example, you don’t have to pick just one savings goal to work on at a time. Financial decisions don’t have to be one or the other. Indeed, a multi-pronged approach is often the best way to build financial security.

Also, know that there is no perfect formula for how a couple makes financial decisions. Just because your best friend and her spouse divide their finances in a certain way or prioritize certain money goals over others doesn’t mean that you have to do it this way. Part of compromise with your partner is abandoning the idea that your partnership should work like anyone else’s.

7. Put Plans Into Action

Once you’ve hashed out your money goals and fears with your honey, and made some key financial decisions together, it’s a good idea to come up with an actionable plan to make your shared goals a reality.

If you’ve decided that you want to purchase a home in two years, for example, figure out how much of a downpayment you’ll need and, then, how much money you need to siphon into savings each month to reach your goal. You might then set up an automatic transfer from your checking account(s) and into your joint savings account each month.

A fringe benefit of making financial decisions as a couple is that you have a built-in accountability buddy to make sure you follow through on your plan and don’t spend that savings on something else.

Smart Money Decisions Couples Make

Here’s a look at some smart money moves you may want to make as a couple:

•   Opening joint accounts: Having at least one joint bank account can simplify your finances and make it easier to work towards your shared goals. That said, you don’t have to merge everything. You might decide to keep individual accounts for personal use — this gives each partner some freedom to spend on themselves without having to explain their expenditures.

•   Labeling your savings: Having separate savings accounts for separate goals (even giving them labels, like a “downpayment” or “vacation” account) can help you stay on track and reach your goals sooner. Some savings accounts have a sub-savings account feature, which allows you to split funds in one primary savings account into separate categories.

•   Automate your savings: It can be smart to set up recurring automated transfers from your checking account(s) to your savings and investment accounts based on your goals.

•   Increasing your emergency reserve: Your emergency fund should be large enough to cover living expenses — for both of you and any dependents — for anywhere from a few months to a year, depending on your situation.

Recommended: Survey Says: Couples That Pool Finances Are Happier

The Takeaway

Talking about money with your partner isn’t always easy, but having honest discussions about your financial situation and goals is critical. This can help you better understand each other, make important financial decisions as a couple, and come up with a plan that can make your shared goals and dreams a reality.

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FAQ

Should married couples make financial decisions together?

Even if you don’t merge all of your money, it can be a good idea to work together on some key financial decisions that will impact both of your futures. Making financial decisions together can have multiple benefits, including increased closeness and trust, less conflict over money, and better financial outcomes.

How should money be split in a relationship?

There are several methods couples can use to manage money and cover their living expenses. One option is to merge all or some of your funds in a joint bank account and use it to pay for shared expenses. Another option is to keep separate accounts, but have each partner make equal payments towards shared expenses.

A third approach you might consider is to split bills proportionally based on each partner’s income. So if one partner makes 70% of the total household income, they would then cover 70% of shared expenses, while the other partner would pay for 30%.

What are financial red flags in a relationship?

Financial red flags are money issues that are either currently causing problems in a relationship or have the potential to do so in the future. While they are not necessarily deal-breakers, they are harbingers of future relationship and financial strain. If you notice any of the following six signs, it’s important to deal with them promptly, ideally before your life is too intertwined with your partner’s.

•   Unwillingness to discuss money

•   Excessive credit card or other debt

•   Flaunting their wealth

•   Severe frugality

•   Using money to manipulate or shame

•   Keeping secrets or telling lies about money


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Julia Califano is an award-winning journalist who covers banking, small business, personal loans, student loans, and other money issues for SoFi. She has over 20 years of experience writing about personal finance and lifestyle topics. Read full bio.


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What Is Loud Budgeting?

Loud budgeting is a money-saving trend that is encouraging people to be honest with others about their finances and feel okay about saying “No” to expensive invitations.

The concept was first introduced by TikTok content creator and comedian Lukas Battle in late 2023 as an alternative to “quiet luxury” and involves talking openly — or loudly — about your financial goals and spending limits to those around you. Since Battle first coined the term, TikTok has been deluged with videos extolling the benefits of loud budgeting and how to do it.

Is it time to get on the loud budgeting bandwagon? Maybe. While you can’t trust all the financial advice you get on social media, many finance experts say that loud budgeting is rooted in a time-honored financial principle — that people should make spending decisions based on their budgets and savings goals, rather than peer pressure or FOMO.

Here’s a closer look at what loud budgeting is and how to incorporate this approach into your own life.

Key Points

•   Loud budgeting, a concept introduced by TikTok creator and comedian Lukas Battle in late 2023, encourages transparency about financial goals and spending limits.

•   Benefits of loud budgeting may include: reduced financial stress, avoiding overspending due to peer pressure, building an enhanced support system, and reaching financial goals.

•   It can be implemented by determining priorities, building a basic budget, and being honest with those around you about your budget.

•   Budgeting tools, such as those provided by your bank or apps that track or permit you to share your spending and savings goals, can assist with loud budgeting.

•   Loud budgeting doesn’t have to entail disclosing financial or personal details — it can be as simple as sharing your financial goal and/or limits.

The Psychology of Loud Budgeting

When it comes to maintaining close ties to friends and family, it can be hard to decline an invitation to a catch-up dinner, reunion weekend, or destination wedding — even if you’re not comfortable with the cost. So, you might grudgingly say “Yes,” and figure you’ll deal with the financial fallout later. Or, you might say “No,” but make up a fake reason why you can’t be there. Neither option is ideal.

Loud budgeting offers an alternative solution — bowing out while being honest about your money concerns. It’s based on the premise that staying close and connected with people you care about doesn’t have to cost a lot. Often, it just takes one member of the group to say “No,” and suggest a way to bring down the cost of a social outing or gathering.

Recommended: 7 Tips for Living on a Budget 

Benefits of Practicing Loud Budgeting

While loud budgeting isn’t for everyone, it has a number of benefits. Here are some to consider.

Reduced Financial Stress

Money worries can be a significant source of stress. Loud budgeting can immediately take some of the pressure off by making it acceptable to opt out of social plans that will cause you to spend more than you can afford. Over time, loud budgeting can help you grow the balance in your bank account, pay down debt, and achieve your goals — all of which can improve your financial well-being.

Improved Financial Transparency

While talking about money has long been considered taboo and can even trigger shame, loud budgeting aims to reduce the stigma around having financial limitations. Instead, it advocates being transparent about your budget and why you’re choosing not to spend your hard-earned cash on something. By starting the conversation, loud budgeters may also encourage others in their circle to be more authentic and honest about their finances.

Enhanced Support System

Not everyone will necessarily be receptive and understanding when you get loud with your budget. But there is also a good chance that you will get support from others who (unbeknownst to you) are in the same financial boat. This can help you build a community of people working towards similar financial goals. Your community can help hold you accountable to your plan. You can also share tips and experiences and cheer each other on when you achieve success, such as reaching a savings goal.

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How To Implement Loud Budgeting in Your Life

If you’re interested in trying out this Gen Z budgeting trend, here are some tips for how to incorporate loud budgeting into your life.

Determine Your Priorities

Budgeting (loudly or quietly) is about making sure your spending aligns with your priorities. So a great first step is to sit down and lay out some specific and achievable financial goals, along with a timeframe for when you want to reach them. For example, maybe you want to pay off your credit cards in the next six months or put a down payment on a home in one year. Knowing what you want to accomplish gives you the “why” behind your loud budget and helps you stick to your plan.

Build a Basic Budget

Before you can get loud about your budget, you actually need to make a budget. To do so, you might start by looking at what’s coming in each month (on average) and what’s going out each month (on average). If your total monthly spending is higher than your total monthly income — or it’s about the same (meaning you’re not saving anything) — you’ll need to adjust accordingly. 

There are all kinds of budgets, but one simple framework to consider is the 50/30/20 rule. This entails allocating 50% of your monthly take-home income to needs, 30% to wants, and 20% to saving and paying more than the minimum on your debts. 

Once you come up with a basic budget, it’s a good idea to track your spending (there are budgeting apps that make this easy) to see how well you’re sticking with the plan and, if necessary, make some tweaks to your budget.

Be Honest With Others

Once you have a clear sense of your budget, priorities, and savings goals, don’t be afraid to share this information with friends and family. While you don’t have to delve into the intricate details of your finances every time you decline a social invitation, you can say that you’re trying to spend less and be better about managing your money. You might also talk about some specific goals you’re trying to achieve. Being honest in this way can help make it easier to decline costly invites and keep you accountable to your plans.

Suggest Alternatives

When someone in your circle suggests an outing that doesn’t work with your budget, consider suggesting alternative options. For example, if you can’t swing an expensive brunch, you might suggest a picnic in the park. Or if your friend group wants to spend the afternoon shopping, see if you can entice them to go hiking instead. The idea is to find some simple, wallet-friendly ways to have fun and stay connected without sacrificing your financial health.

Find Allies

Sticking to a budget can be a lot easier when you have a supportive community — or even just one or two allies — who are on the same financial page. If you can’t find any good budgeting buddies in your circle, you might search the #loudbudgeting hashtag on your social media channels to find others who are blazing the same path. This can help you build a community of people who can hold you accountable and cheer you on as you hit your goals. 

Recommended: 7 Different Types of Budgeting Methods 

The Takeaway

Loud budgeting promotes being more honest about your financial circumstances and goals, rather than accepting expensive invites out of fear of being a wet blanket and then dealing with the aftermath. While it can be challenging to speak your truth, being vocal about your budget can strengthen your connections and help you stay committed to your financial health — not just while it’s the latest trend on social media, but throughout your adult life.

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FAQ

How can I start loud budgeting without oversharing?

While loud budgeting involves being open about your financial situation, you don’t have to share sensitive details about your finances with everyone you know. Rather than lay out the specifics of your income and monthly bills, you can simply say that you are working toward a particular goal (like paying off your student loans or saving for a home) and trying to be more responsible about spending, saving, and managing your money. That can help explain why you are declining invitations to, say, pricey meals out or weekends away.

Does loud budgeting work for all income levels?

Yes, loud budgeting can be effective for all income levels, as it primarily involves being open about your financial goals and priorities with those close to you. While higher earners may be focused on wealth building and investment strategies, lower-income loud budgeters might share how they are working towards being free of credit card debt, building an emergency fund, or saving for a down payment on a home.

What apps or tools can help with loud budgeting?

Any budgeting app that helps you make better spending decisions can assist you with loud budgeting. Even better if the app allows you to track and share your progress with others. You might consider the tools your bank offers for budgeting. Other options include YNAB (You Need a Budget), which can help you create a plan for every dollar you earn; Goodbudget, which digitizes the “envelope system” of budgeting and allows you to share your budget categories with family or friends, or Honeydue,which helps couples sync bank accounts, credit cards, and more for easier viewing of your financial picture.


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Julia Califano is an award-winning journalist who covers banking, small business, personal loans, student loans, and other money issues for SoFi. She has over 20 years of experience writing about personal finance and lifestyle topics. Read full bio.



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