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Differences Between Time Deposits and Demand Deposits

A demand deposit account is a type of bank account that allows you to withdraw money on demand without having to provide advance notice. Time deposit accounts only allow you to withdraw funds once the account reaches maturity.

Banks and credit unions typically offer both kinds of accounts: demand deposit (checking and savings accounts, for instance) and time deposit (such as certificates of deposit, or CDs). These two types of accounts are designed to meet different financial goals. Understanding the difference between demand deposits vs. time deposits can help you decide where to put your money.

Key Points

•   A demand deposit account allows you to access your money anytime without advance notice, while a time deposit account requires you to keep funds locked in for a set period.

•   Time deposit accounts, such as CDs, typically offer higher interest rates than demand deposit accounts but charge penalties for early withdrawals.

•   Demand deposit accounts — including checking and savings accounts — prioritize convenience and liquidity, often allowing frequent deposits and withdrawals with minimal restrictions.

•   Time deposits usually have fixed terms and interest rates, and you often can’t add more money once the account is opened.

•   Both demand and time deposit accounts at banks are generally insured by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC).

What Are Time Deposits?

Time deposit accounts are savings accounts that require you to keep your money in the account for a set time frame. They can also be called term deposit accounts or term deposits since the bank can specify the term that the money must stay in place.

If you’d like to withdraw money before the term ends, the bank may allow that. However, they’ll likely charge you a penalty fee. They may also require you to give them a certain amount of advance notice, either in writing, in person, or over the phone. Once you open a time deposit account, you typically can’t add any additional funds at a later date.

How a Time Deposit Works

A time deposit works by effectively locking in your money for a set time period or term. During this term, your money can earn interest at a rate specified by the bank.

A certificate of deposit account is the most common type of time deposit or term deposit account. Banks often offer CDs with varying maturity terms, which can range anywhere from one month to five years or more.

While your money is in the CD, it earns interest. Once the CD matures, you can do one of two things:

•   Roll the principal and interest earned into a new CD with different terms

•   Withdraw the principal and interest earned

If you take money out of the CD before it matures, the bank will likely impose an early withdrawal penalty. This penalty usually involves forfeiting some of the interest earned. The size of the penalty can vary depending on how early you withdraw the money and the length of the CD.

What Are Demand Deposits?

With a demand deposit account, you’re allowed to put money into the account or take money out of the account when you want and without giving any advance notice. Demand deposit accounts include checking accounts, savings accounts, and money market accounts.

The money in a demand deposit account is generally considered to be liquid, or ready cash, and you can withdraw any amount (including the entire balance) at any time without paying a penalty. However, some banks may charge a fee if you exceed a certain number of withdrawals from a savings account within one month.

How a Demand Deposit Works

Demand deposit accounts work by allowing you convenient, flexible access to your money. The most common example of a demand deposit account is a checking account. With a checking account, you can deposit money, then access it by:

•   Using a debit card to make purchases online or in stores

•   Withdrawing cash at ATMs or through a teller

•   Scheduling online bill payments

•   Linking it to mobile payment apps

A trade-off for this easy access to your money is that demand deposit accounts typically don’t pay high rates of interest, and checking accounts generally don’t pay any interest at all. While you can sometimes find an interest-bearing checking account, checking account interest rates tend to be on the lower side.

There are other types of interest-bearing accounts that fall under the demand deposit umbrella. They include traditional savings accounts, high-yield savings accounts, money market accounts, and kids’ savings accounts.

 

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Federal Insurance for Demand and Time Deposits

The Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) provides insurance coverage for member banks, which is passed on to account holders. The FDIC insures both demand and time deposit accounts, including:

•   Checking accounts

•   Savings accounts

•   Money market accounts

•   CD accounts

The standard FDIC coverage limit is $250,000 per depositor, per account ownership category, per insured financial institution. The National Credit Union Administration (NCUA) offers similar coverage for time and demand deposit accounts held at member credit unions.

Recommended: How to Calculate Interest on a Savings Account?

Demand Deposit Pros

When comparing demand deposit vs. time deposit accounts, it helps to understand the pros and cons of each type of account.

Here are some of the main benefits of demand deposit accounts:

•   They give you access to your money without being required to give the bank advance notice.

•   They offer multiple ways to manage and access money, including online and mobile banking, automated clearing house (ACH) transfers, direct deposits, ATM banking, and branch banking.

•   There’s the potential to earn interest on balances and, in some cases, rewards on purchases.

Demand Deposit Cons

While demand deposit accounts can make managing money and growing savings convenient, there are some potential downsides to keep in mind. These include:

•   There may be monthly fees or other fees.

•   Since interest rates can vary, you may need to shop around to find the best rate.

•   Banks may limit the number of withdrawals you’re allowed each month.

Time Deposit Pros

Time deposit accounts can be a great place to keep your savings — if you understand how they work. Here are some of the advantages of opening a time deposit account:

•   They offer a guaranteed rate of interest, so there’s very little risk of losing money.

•   They typically offer a higher interest rate than you can get on a demand deposit account.

•   There are generally no fees if you leave the money in the account until maturity.

Time Deposit Cons

Opening a time deposit account could make sense if you want a place to park your money for several months to years and earn a higher rate of interest. But it’s important to keep these cons in mind:

•   You may pay an early withdrawal penalty if you need to take any or all of the money out prior to maturity.

•   There’s often a minimum deposit required.

•   Most time deposit accounts don’t allow you to make additional deposits once the account is open.

How to Choose Between a Demand and Time Deposit Account

Demand deposit vs. time deposit — Which one should you pick? The answer will depend on your financial needs and goals.

You might choose a demand deposit account if you:

•   Want convenient access to your money via a debit or ATM card, online banking, mobile banking, or at a branch

•   Want to be able to earn some interest on your savings while still having easy access to the money

•   Don’t mind the possibility of paying checking or savings account fees

A time deposit account, on the other hand, may be more appropriate if you:

•   Want to earn a higher interest rate than you can get on a standard checking or savings account at a bank

•   Have a sum of money you don’t need to touch in the immediate future

One good solution is to have a mix of demand deposit accounts and time deposits. This might include a checking account (for paying bills and everyday spending), a savings account (to hold your emergency fund), and one or more CD accounts to fund your long-term goals. Just be sure to pay attention to minimum balance requirements and fees for each account you open.

When choosing between different types of savings accounts and CDs, you’ll also want to consider the interest rate and the annual percentage yield (APY).

The difference between the interest rate vs. APY is that the APY tells you the total amount of interest you earn on the account over one year. While it’s based on the interest rate, the APY also takes into account the compounding interest (when interest accrues on previously accrued interest) to give you the most accurate idea of what you’ll earn in a year.

APY, however, isn’t to be confused with annual percentage rate, or APR, which refers to what you can owe in interest charges on a loan.

Recommended: What Is a CD Ladder?

The Takeaway

There are two key differences between demand deposit and time deposit accounts: how easily you can access the money in the account and how much interest the account earns.

Demand deposit accounts (which include checking accounts, savings accounts, and money market accounts) allow you to withdraw money from the account at any time, whereas time deposit accounts (such as CDs) require you to deposit your money for a specific length of time. While demand deposit accounts offer more flexibility, they typically offer lower interest rates than time deposit accounts.

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FAQ

What’s the difference between demand deposit and time deposit?

The key difference between demand deposit vs. time deposit is access. With demand deposit accounts, you can generally access your money at any time without paying a penalty or giving the bank any advance notice. With time deposit accounts, you generally can’t withdraw money until the account reaches maturity.

Which type of deposits with the banks are called demand deposits?

Demand deposit accounts include checking, savings, and money market accounts. Checking accounts can allow you to use a debit card, pay bills online, and manage money through online and mobile banking. Savings accounts are used to hold money you don’t plan to spend right away and may offer interest. Money market accounts combine features of both checking and savings accounts.

Why are demand deposits considered money?

Demand deposit accounts hold money that you can withdraw whenever you want. You can use this account to get cash, pay bills, make purchases, or complete other financial transactions. The money in these accounts is a liquid (or easily accessible) asset.


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Rebecca Lake has been a finance writer for nearly a decade, specializing in personal finance, investing, and small business. She is a contributor at Forbes Advisor, SmartAsset, Investopedia, The Balance, MyBankTracker, MoneyRates and CreditCards.com. Read full bio.



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Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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What Are the Consequences of Not Saving Money?

Many Americans struggle to save money, but it’s generally worth the effort to do so since there can be serious downsides to not stashing away cash. Those consequences can range from going into debt, facing financial hardship after losing your job, and not being able to achieve your aspirations, such as homeownership.

There are a variety of strategies that may be helpful in saving more money, and it may be useful to put together a simple budget and set some savings goals. If all else fails, you may even want to consult with a financial professional because neglecting to save can lead to some undesired outcomes, as noted.

Key Points

•   Without savings, even routine or unexpected expenses can push you into debt, which often ends up costing more due to interest and fees.

•   A lack of savings can increase stress and limit your life choices, making it harder to handle emergencies or pursue personal and financial goals.

•   Not having an emergency fund can leave you financially vulnerable to events such as job loss, medical bills, or major repairs.

•   Failing to save can prevent you from reaching major milestones, such as buying a home, taking vacations, or celebrating important life events.

•   Without savings, you may miss opportunities to invest, grow your wealth, or support others financially when they need help.

The Importance of Saving Money

To help you get motivated to put money in the bank, here are a dozen dangers or potential consequences related to not saving money. They may help you understand why it’s a good idea to put away cash and motivate you to tuck some into a savings account.

1. Going Into Debt

Without a savings cushion, any expense — from an unexpected car repair to paying for your child’s college education — can put you in debt. In addition, while credit cards and loans are convenient ways to afford more than your bank account, you pay more in the long run because of interest and loan fees.

Since debt often costs more than the actual expense, you can essentially save a considerable amount of money by plumping up your piggy bank. You can try easy ways to save, such as creating a simple budget or automating savings, to put aside a few dollars a month before you can spend them. These moves can ensure that you’ll be using savings instead of debt to pay for your upcoming expenses.

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2. Having a Social Life Can Be Nonexistent

Spending time with your friends and family is likely on the list of things you enjoy most in life. But a full social calendar may put you in a sticky financial situation if you haven’t saved anything. From movie dates to happy hours to ball games, these expenses can add up.

No matter your income level, how much money you save each paycheck can make the difference between having a nonexistent social life and a happening one.

3. Life Being More Stressful

Most Americans say money is a major stressor in their lives. When you think about it, failing to save can make you feel stuck or overwhelmed. Your personal, financial, and professional life can suffer because a lack of savings has cut off your options.

Achieving your goals, financial and otherwise, may be a struggle without savings to propel you forward. The importance of saving money goes beyond paying an unexpected bill. It can affect your daily quality of life.

4. Not Having the Money for an Emergency

You’ll find many articles, resources, and financial professionals advising you to set aside an emergency fund. Life is expensive and doesn’t always go as planned. So, saving in advance helps you manage life’s unexpected costs.

For example, building an emergency fund might be a better choice than splurging if you get a raise. You’ll thank yourself later when, say, your furnace goes out, or you wind up with a major medical bill. Typically, financial advisors recommend having at least 3-6 months’ worth of basic expenses salted away in an emergency or rainy day fund.

5. Not Being Able to Celebrate Events

Life can be full of amazing milestones, such as getting married, starting a family, or graduating from college. Unfortunately, celebrating these life events with your family often takes substantial cash. Not being able to recognize these events the way you’d like to is another one of the many dangers of not saving money. The lack of a financial cushion could also lead you to skip, say, a friend’s destination wedding.

Although you could put your celebration on your credit card, you run the risk of going into debt. This’ll likely cost more over the long run since you have to pay for interest. In other words, you might still be paying it off for years to come.

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6. Not Having a Viable Option if You’re Fired

No one plans on getting fired. However, it’s always possible to lose your job unexpectedly. Financial emergencies like this are an important reason to save. Saving can give you security during this kind of crisis. If you don’t have some cash available, you might have to look into financially downsizing.

This underscores the importance of saving money from your salary when you’re employed. You might consider having a small amount automatically transferred from your checking account into savings on payday.

As mentioned above, you should save at least three months of your expenses in an emergency fund. This way, you can have a solid safety net if you get laid off or are temporarily disabled and can’t work for an extended period.

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7. Not Having an Inheritance for Your Children

If you’re a parent or plan to be one, you likely want to give your kids a leg up in life. An inheritance can help your children or heirs build their nest eggs and meet life’s expenses without stress.

Having both savings and an estate plan can be a lasting, life-changing gift to those who matter to you most. These assets can serve to eliminate the possibility of financial legal challenges for your family. That said, being unable to leave a legacy is a consequence of not saving money.

8. Not Being Able to Buy a Home

Many people hope to buy a home one day, but you’ll probably need some cash saved up to initiate the purchase.

You may need a 3%-5% down payment to qualify for most conventional mortgages and 20% to avoid mortgage insurance. Buying a home also usually involves other expenses, such as closing costs, repairs, moving costs, and more. Not having savings can make it almost impossible to afford the home of your dreams.

9. Not Being Able to Go on Vacation

Without savings, it’s challenging or even sometimes impossible to take time off for some rest. When you don’t set money aside, you can get sucked into the never-ending cycle of living paycheck-to-paycheck. Since you need to work to support yourself, vacations may become less frequent or disappear altogether.

While you may think you can put a vacation on credit, that can perpetuate the “can’t save” situation, because you’ll have debt to wrangle. You could wind up coming home from your getaway to face more bills.

10. Not Having Much Financial Freedom

One of the most potent limiting factors in life can be a lack of savings. With a robust bank account to fall back on, you increase your options and flexibility. Moving to a city or state with more opportunities, taking a professional course or college classes, and starting a business can all be possibilities if you’ve saved money.

Of course, money can’t solve every problem life throws at you. However, it’s a powerful tool that allows you to access opportunities. Remembering this can help you get serious about saving money.

11. Not Being Able to Invest

If you aren’t able to save money, you likely won’t be able to invest those savings either. This means potentially missing out on market gains over time (the market tends to go up over time, though it’s volatile over the short term).

There are different levels of risk, of course, when you decide to invest your money rather than keep it in a savings account. But the main point is that if you can’t manage to save, you may also have a hard time managing to invest. That could mean that your money’s growth potential is stunted and may delay you in reaching your financial goals.

12. Not Being Able to Help Others

When someone is in financial need, lending money can help them get back on their feet. Whether it’s through providing a microloan, donating to a charity, or contributing to a scholarship, you can make a difference in the lives of others, no matter how much you give.

But if you don’t have savings, you may not be able to afford a helping hand.

Why Saving Money Is Very Important

Since money touches almost every area of your life, saving it for what matters most can be essential. Reining in your spending habits can be hard, no doubt, but the payoff quite literally is being able to afford your needs and your goals.

The Takeaway

Reaching your financial goals will likely depend, in large part, on your ability to save your money. While this can be difficult in the moment (saying no to splurges, for instance), it can set you up for years of financial wellness.

Whether you want to be able to celebrate big moments with friends, start your own business, own a home, or take a major vacation, saving money can help put you on the right path.

Interested in opening an online bank account? When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with eligible direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.


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FAQ

Can I get by without saving money?

While it’s possible to get by without savings, there may come a day when you run into an unexpected expense that causes financial hardship. If you live paycheck to paycheck without an emergency fund, an unforeseen cost could set you back and make it challenging to recover.

Is debt inevitable if you do not save?

Without savings to fall back on, it’s quite possible to go into debt when unforeseen expenses arise. Contributing to a savings account, even a small amount monthly, can make unexpected costs more manageable so you can sidestep debt.

When is the best time to start saving?

It may be a good idea to start saving now to give yourself time to build a cushion. Remember, everyone has to start somewhere. Even if you can only save $20 per month, your future self will likely thank you.


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Ashley Kilroy

Ashley Kilroy is a seasoned personal finance writer with 15 years of experience simplifying complex concepts for individuals seeking financial security. Her expertise has shined through in well-known publications like Rolling Stone, Forbes, SmartAsset, and Money Talks News. Read full bio.



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^Early access to direct deposit funds is based on the timing in which we receive notice of impending payment from the Federal Reserve, which is typically up to two days before the scheduled payment date, but may vary.

Annual percentage yield (APY) is variable and subject to change at any time. Rates are current as of 3/31/26. There is no minimum balance requirement. Fees may reduce earnings. Additional rates and information can be found at https://www.sofi.com/legal/banking-rate-sheet

Eligible Direct Deposit means a recurring deposit of regular income to an account holder’s SoFi Checking or Savings account, including payroll, pension, or government benefit payments (e.g., Social Security), made by the account holder’s employer, payroll or benefits provider or government agency (“Eligible Direct Deposit”) via the Automated Clearing House (“ACH”) Network every 31 calendar days.

Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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Average Grocery Budget for Family of 3

Groceries are one of the biggest budget items on most families’ lists. Of course, how much you spend will depend on where you live, what you eat, and what your spending habits are. As food costs increase, so may the grocery budget for a family of three.

As you create or revise a monthly budget, it can help to look at how your food spending compares to that of other families.

Key Points

•   The average grocery budget for a family of three can vary depending on factors such as location and dietary preferences.

•   According to the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA), in December 2025, the average monthly cost of a moderate food plan for a family of three was about $1,000.

•   It’s important to create a budget, plan meals, and shop strategically to make the most of your grocery budget.

•   Tips for saving money on groceries include meal planning, buying in bulk, using coupons, and shopping for items on sale.

•   Dining out is also possible on a budget; the trick is deciding how many times per month you can afford to eat at a restaurant and cutting back on things like fancy drinks.

American Average Grocery Budget for Family of 3

Each month, the USDA publishes a report on the average cost of groceries for food plans at four price levels: thrifty, low-cost, moderate-cost, and liberal. Here’s a look at the average spending on a moderate-cost food plan in 2025 for a family comprising parents between the ages of 19 and 50 and a child aged six to eight years old. Notice how the average cost of groceries rose by more than $15 over the course of the year.

Month (in 2025) Average Cost of Groceries
January $994.60
February $993.50
March $994.80
April $995.20
May $1,000.90
June $1,002.80
July $1,005.60
August $1,008.40
September $1,012.10
October N/A
November $1,006.50
December $1,009.00

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How Much to Budget for Groceries per Person

No matter the size of your family, your grocery budget can depend largely on the cost of food where you live. For instance, according to data from the Missouri Economic Research and Information Center, people in Hawaii, Alaska, and New York tend to pay more for food than residents of Texas, Wyoming, and Michigan. This means that $700 per month for groceries may be more reasonable in Texas than in, say, Hawaii.

Creating a household budget and aren’t sure how much to allocate for food? A good rule of thumb is to set aside 10%-15% of your income for groceries and other food costs. So if you take home around $5,000 a month, plan on budgeting $500-$750 for food.

However, you may need to adjust that percentage, especially if you have a larger family or live in an area with a higher cost of living. It may be wise to track how much you spend in any given month on food and see what a reasonable budget would look like for you and your family.

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How to Prioritize Your Grocery Spending

What does it mean to prioritize your grocery spending? It’s simply a way to ensure you’re making the most of every dollar when you’re grocery shopping on a budget.

One strategy to consider is to set aside money each month so you have enough to spend on food. A grocery budget calculator could help you plan and track your grocery expenses. Another option is to put groceries as one of the top line items in your monthly budget so you don’t forget to set aside money for it first.

It’s also important to assess how much you spend on food and the choices you make in grocery store aisles. Your grocery budget may be sufficient, but you may need to spend less on certain ingredients or find cheaper product alternatives.

Above all, make sure you settle on a budget that works for you and your family. Be sure it’s enough to cover what’s important to you while still sticking to your larger spending plan.

How to Stay Within Your Grocery Budget

It’s easy to give in to temptation at the grocery store, but rest assured, staying within budget is possible. These tips can help:

•   Shop at discount retailers: Buying your groceries at lower-priced retailers can add up to significant savings, especially if you’re able to purchase the ingredients you need on sale. Some retailers may have rewards programs, helping you earn free or heavily discounted groceries.

•   Make pricey purchases go the distance: Meat or related products such as eggs tend to cost more than other ingredients. Look into recipes that help you stretch a pack of meat or a carton of eggs over several meals.

•   Use what you have: Before heading to the grocery store, go through your refrigerator, freezer, and pantry to see what you already have. Besides preventing food waste, this also helps you avoid purchasing items you don’t need.

•   Buy store brands: In many cases, store-brand items are much cheaper than brand-name items, and the quality of generic items may be similar.

•   Use coupons: Though it may not seem like it’ll make a huge difference, using coupons or grocery store rebates can help make every cent count. Be sure to do some comparison shopping before you hit the checkout counter. Even with discounts, you may still come out ahead with generic or store-brand versions.

•   Embrace meal planning: Making meal plans can help you estimate your food costs for the week and ensure you only purchase items you need.

•   Do a regular spending audit: Tally up how much you’ve spent and what you’ve spent it on. Look for places to cut back on spending, such as purchasing pricey ingredients that can only be used once.

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How to Budget for Restaurants and Dining Out

Eating out is a luxury, but it can also be done on a budget. Consider the following tips the next time you’re considering a night out on the town:

•   Decide how many times a month you want to eat out: Knowing approximately where and how many times you go out in a given month will help you make a realistic budget.

•   Consider drinking only water: While it’s tempting to order fancy drinks when you’re out, sticking to water can help you and your family save money.

•   Look for weekly specials or discounts: In an attempt to earn your business, many restaurants will offer specials, such as free kids’ meals or discounted menu items. These deals are typically offered on a weekday, though you may sometimes find discounts during busier times.

•   Budget for tipping: Paying for your meal isn’t the only cost involved in dining out. Make sure to factor in tipping your server or bartender.

Recommended: Examining the Price of Eating at Home vs Eating Out

Tips for Getting Help if You Can’t Afford to Buy Groceries

Sometimes, budgeting will only get you so far. If you need help paying for food and other necessities, there are some organizations and agencies you may be able to turn to for temporary help:

•   Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program: If you meet the eligibility requirements, this government-run program will give you a monthly stipend to spend on food for you and your family.

•   Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children (WIC): The WIC program caters to pregnant women or mothers with kids up to age five who are at risk of not receiving enough nutrients. Note that you’ll need to apply for this government-funded program.

•   USDA National Hunger Hotline: If you’re facing food insecurity, you can call the hotline daily from 8am-8pm ET to find resources such as local meal sites or food banks.

•   Local food pantries: Many religious organizations, colleges, and other local nonprofits have food pantries. Call ahead to see when you can receive assistance.

💡 Quick Tip: Income, expenses, and life circumstances can change. Consider reviewing your budget a few times a year and making any adjustments if needed.

The Takeaway

Budgeting for grocery costs isn’t always easy, but it’s worth the effort. It may be helpful to look at average costs in your area as a guideline for how much money to put aside for food purchases. Exploring ways to save on food can help ensure you’re not spending more than you can afford to. You may also want to consider using online tools such as a money tracker app so you can maximize every dollar.

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FAQ

What is a reasonable grocery budget?

Most experts recommend budgeting around 10%-15% of your income for groceries. However, it depends on your family’s needs and what you’re willing to spend on food items.

How much should a family of four spend on groceries?

Depending on where you live, the average cost of groceries for a family of four can range from $992.30 to $1,628.40, according to data from the USDA. Costs will also depend on where you shop and the types of grocery items you buy each week.

How much do U.S. consumers spend on groceries on average?

The average consumer spent about 10.4% of their personal disposable income on groceries, according to 2024 USDA data. By comparison, the share of disposable income allocated to eating away from home was 5%.

Is $1,000 a month on food a lot for a family of three?

No, this isn’t a lot. According to USDA data, a typical family of three spent almost $1,010 on moderate-cost groceries on average in December 2025.

Does the amount a family spends on groceries depend on the state they live in?

Yes, the cost of food varies from state to state. Hawaii, Alaska, and California, for example, have the highest average weekly grocery bills out of all states in the U.S.


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Pros and Cons of Car Refinancing

Car refinancing is a financial tool that allows you to change the terms of your existing auto loan. It can offer benefits such as lowering your monthly car payment and reducing the interest you pay, but it also comes with potential drawbacks, such as added costs and longer loan terms. Below, we’ll explore what car refinancing entails, its advantages and disadvantages, and alternative options to help you make the best choice for your financial situation.

Key Points

•   If you can qualify for a lower interest rate, car refinancing can save you a significant amount of money over the life of the loan.

•   Refinancing can lower your monthly payments if you can get a lower rate or if you extend your loan term.

•   If you refinance to a longer loan term, you will likely pay more in interest over the course of the loan.

•   Potential downsides of car refinancing include fees, negative equity, and a temporary impact on your credit score.

•   Alternatives to car refinancing include balance-transfer credit cards and personal loans.

What Is a Car Refinance?

Car refinancing involves replacing your current car loan with a new one, typically from a different lender. You use the new loan to pay off the balance of your existing loan, and you begin repaying the new lender based on updated terms.

The main goal of car refinancing is typically to secure better loan terms, such as a lower interest rate, reduced monthly payments, or a shorter loan term. But refinancing also comes with costs and risks, so it’s important to weigh the benefits and drawbacks carefully before you jump in.

Pros of Refinancing a Car Loan

Here’s a look at some of the key benefits of refinancing your current auto loan.

You May Reduce Your Rate.

A major pro of refinancing is the potential to secure a lower interest rate. If interest rates have decreased since you took out your original loan or your credit score has improved, refinancing could help you score a better rate and lower the total interest you pay over the loan’s life. Also, if you took out dealer financing and didn’t shop around for a loan when you bought your car, you may be paying a higher rate than necessary. Reducing your interest rate by just two or three percentage points could help you save over the life of your loan.

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You Can Lower Your Monthly Payment.

Refinancing can also decrease your monthly payments, either by lowering your interest rate, extending the loan term, or both. This can free up funds in your budget for other expenses, providing much-needed financial relief. It can also keep you from falling behind on your payments, which can lead to late fees and negatively impact your credit.

Just keep in mind that going with a longer term can also have drawbacks, as it can incur higher overall costs (more on that below).

You Might Be Able to Access Quick Cash.

Some lenders offer cash-out auto refinance loans using your car’s equity (the value of your car minus the amount you owe on it). On top of the new loan that pays off your current one, you receive a lump sum of cash based on your equity. For example, if your car is worth $15,000 and you have $8,000 left on your loan, you might get a refinance loan for $11,000 and take $3,000 in cash. You’ll pay interest on the full $11,000, and cash-out refis come with some risks, so, in general, you should only consider this option for financial emergencies or to pay off high-interest debt.

You Can Change Your Loan Terms.

Refinancing may allow you to switch from a variable interest rate to a fixed rate, offering more stability and predictability. It can also allow you to modify your loan term to better suit your financial circumstances. For example, if your income has increased or your monthly expenses have decreased since you took out the original loan, you might be able to refinance for a shorter term and pay off your loan earlier than you originally planned.

You Can Remove a Cosigner.

If your initial auto loan required a cosigner, refinancing can allow you to remove them once your financial situation improves. This can simplify your financial obligations and release your cosigner from sharing responsibility for your auto loan.

Cons of Refinancing a Car Loan

If you are debating whether to refinance your car loan, you’ll also want to keep these potential downsides in mind.

You Could Pay More in Interest.

If you refinance to a longer loan term to lower your monthly payment, you’ll likely end up paying more in interest over the life of the loan. Even scoring a lower interest rate may not make up for the additional months of interest you’ll pay. While the short-term relief may be helpful, it may not be worth the added cost.

Refinancing Comes With Fees.

Refinancing is generally not free. Your new lender may charge an application or origination fee, and your current lender may charge a penalty for paying off your loan early. In addition, your state may charge a fee to re-register your car or transfer the title after refinancing. These fees can diminish or eliminate the potential savings of refinancing.

You Could End Up Upside Down.

Refinancing to extend the term of your car loan or cash out equity could put you in a position of owing more than what your car is worth. This is known as negative equity or being upside-down on a loan. This can be problematic if you need to sell the car or if it’s totaled in an accident.

For example, if you want to trade in or sell your vehicle, you’ll need to cover the difference between what the buyer/dealer pays and what you owe your lender before you can transfer the title. If your car is totaled, your insurance agency will pay out the value of your vehicle. However, you’ll still owe the full amount of the loan (a higher amount) to your lender.

It Can Impact Your Credit Score.

Refinancing triggers a hard credit inquiry, which will appear on your credit reports and can temporarily lower your credit score. While the impact is usually minor and short-lived, it’s important to consider if you’re planning other financial moves, such as getting a mortgage or personal loans, in the near future.

There Are Limited Savings for Older Loans.

Generally, if you have less than 24 months remaining on your car loan, the potential savings from refinancing may not justify the effort and cost. You typically pay the most interest in the first few years of the loan, which limits the benefit of refinancing toward the end of the repayment period.

Alternatives to Car Refinancing

If refinancing doesn’t align with your financial goals, there are other ways to manage your car-related debt.

Balance-Transfer Credit Card

If your lender allows it, you may be able to transfer your auto debt to a balance-transfer credit card. If you can qualify for a transfer card with a 0% introductory rate and pay off the balance within the promotional timeframe (typically 12 to 21 months), you could save significantly on interest. You might even earn rewards from your new credit card in the process.

However, balance transfers often come with fees, usually 3% to 5% of the transferred amount. And if you fail to pay off the balance before the promotional period ends, the interest rate can jump, potentially costing you more than your original loan. This option generally works best for small loan balances and disciplined borrowers.

Personal Loan

A personal loan can be used for a variety of expenses, including paying off your car loan. These loans often come with fixed interest rates and predictable payment schedules, making them a possible alternative to auto refinancing. Going this route also gives you the option of applying for more than you need to pay off the car loan and using any additional cash you borrow for other expenses.

However, personal loans often have higher interest rates than auto loans, particularly for borrowers with average or below-average credit scores. Before opting for a personal loan, you’ll want to compare rates and calculate whether this approach would save you money compared to your existing loan.

Recommended: Personal Loan Savings Calculator

The Takeaway

Car refinancing can be a smart financial move under the right circumstances, such as securing a lower interest rate or reducing your monthly payments. However, it’s not without potential downsides, including fees, extended loan terms, and the risk of negative equity.

If refinancing doesn’t seem like the best fit for your situation, alternatives such as balance-transfer credit cards or personal loans may offer other ways to manage your car loan or give you more financial flexibility.

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FAQ

What are the advantages of refinancing your car?

Refinancing your car offers several advantages, such as lowering your interest rate, which reduces the total cost of the loan. It can also decrease your monthly payments by extending the loan term, improving your cash flow. In addition, refinancing provides an opportunity to change your loan terms, such as switching from a variable to a fixed interest rate or removing a cosigner from the loan. However, refinancing also comes with costs and risks, so you’ll want to weigh the pros and cons before you proceed.

When should you refinance a car loan?

You might look into refinancing your car loan when interest rates have dropped, your credit score has improved, or you need to lower your monthly payments. Refinancing can also be a good option if you want to adjust your loan terms for more stability, such as moving from a variable to a fixed interest rate. However, it’s important to consider potential fees and ensure that the savings outweigh the costs before you proceed.

How soon can you refinance your car loan after purchase?

You can refinance your car loan as early as a few months after purchase, but it can be a good idea to wait at least six months to a year. This timeframe allows your credit score to recover from any temporary drop (due to the original lender’s hard credit inquiry). It also gives you time to establish consistent payments on the loan and shows potential refinance lenders that you are a responsible borrower. Also, some lenders require six to 12 months of on-time payments to even consider a refinancing application.


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Julia Califano is an award-winning journalist who covers banking, small business, personal loans, student loans, and other money issues for SoFi. She has over 20 years of experience writing about personal finance and lifestyle topics. Read full bio.



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Improving Your Relationship With Money

It might seem strange to think about having a relationship with money. But it makes sense when you consider that everyone has feelings about money and those feelings can deeply impact our financial behavior.

Your parents, friends, and life experiences have likely helped you develop different perceptions and biases about money. Those attitudes can influence the financial decisions — both large and small — that you make throughout your life. These decisions, in turn, can have a significant impact on your financial health.

When you have a healthy relationship with money, you feel confident, in control, and satisfied with your financial situation. An unhealthy relationship with money, on the other hand, can lead to avoidance, impulsiveness, anxiety, and increased levels of stress. Indeed, in a March 2025 Bankrate survey, 43% of U.S. adults said money has a negative impact on their mental health, including effects like stress, anxiety, depression, and loss of sleep, at least occasionally.

Exploring and understanding your relationship with money can be the first step to improving that relationship and enhancing your financial (and overall) well-being.

Why the Psychology of Money Matters

It’s almost impossible to separate money and emotions. Those feelings may come from the way we grew up and what our parents showed us and told us about money. Or they may come from what we’ve learned about money over the years. Regardless of their roots, negative emotions — like fear, guilt, jealousy and shame — can get in the way of making smart financial decisions. Some examples of how this can play out:

•   The market plummets and fear tells you to get out — which is likely the opposite of what you should do.

•   You’re living paycheck to paycheck but guilt tells you that you should take the kids on vacation anyway.

•   You’ve racked up a lot of credit card debt but feel so ashamed about overspending, you freeze up and avoid your finances altogether.

•   A friend posts photos of their beautifully decorated home on social media and jealousy prompts you to buy furniture you can’t afford.

Emotions aren’t necessarily bad, however. Positive emotions, such as gratitude, serenity, and compassion, can inform our financial habits and decisions in positive ways. Feeling grateful for the money we earn can help us establish a disciplined savings plan. A sense of responsibility and optimism helps motivate long-term financial planning.

The more you understand how emotions impact your relationship with money, generally the easier it is to manage your wealth to achieve your goals.

Finding Your Money Personality Type

Money management habits tend to fall into five financial personality types. Your money “type” can impact your relationship with money and the decisions you make about how to spend, save, and invest it. Often, we fall into a combination of types and not just one. You may find you identify with one or more of these money mindsets.

The Spender

Spenders have no qualms about buying things. They like spending money on material items and experiences that bring them joy, whether it’s the latest iPhone or a vacation in Hawaii.

Spenders are generous with their friends and likely to support charitable causes. However, they often make spontaneous spending decisions and tend to live beyond their means. Many spenders are also investors and aren’t afraid of a risky portfolio.

Potential pitfalls: If you spend everything you make, you can end up going broke. Also, if you spend impulsively (rather than plan your purchases), your spending may not line up with what you truly value.

The Saver

Unlike spenders, savers don’t like to part with money. They continually sock away their paychecks, sometimes with no actual goal in mind. Saving simply makes them feel more secure in life.

Savers don’t keep up with the latest trends and will happily shop around, comparing prices to find the best deal. They will often drive used cars, pay their credit card balance in full each month, and watch their bank accounts grow. Savers tend to be conservative investors.

Potential pitfalls: If you save everything you make, you’re going to miss out on a lot of experiences that can bring happiness and purpose to your life. You could possibly live your whole life without spending much of what you’ve worked so hard to save.

The Avoider

Avoiders don’t like to deal with finances and don’t spend much time thinking about money. It isn’t because they don’t care about money — their head-in-the-sand approach to finance often stems from anxiety about money or a feeling that they don’t deserve to have money.

Avoiders will generally ignore their accounts so that they don’t have to think about money. They tend to let bills pile up and have difficulty making money decisions. Just the idea of going through their financial statements and budgeting makes them feel uneasy.

Potential pitfalls: That lack of attention can result in overdrawn accounts, late payments, and racked-up debt. Avoidance may also mean missed long-term opportunities such as not signing up for a 401(k) match.

The Gambler

These folks are willing to make giant leaps of faith with their money, whether it’s investing in crypto or spending more than they can afford on a home (because it’s bound to go up in value). The thrill of risk and the promise of reward bring them pleasure.

Gamblers also tend to be instinct-driven and don’t pay much attention to sound financial advice. Their risk-taking doesn’t necessarily come from a place of irresponsibility but rather strong gut feelings and a sense of optimism that everything — including their finances — will turn out fine in the long run.

Potential pitfalls: Gamblers are willing to lose it all – and they just may, which can be a huge problem if they are the primary earner in a household. They may also compensate for losses by borrowing against their retirement money or children’s college fund.

The Risk Averse

Unlike gamblers, risk-averse people prize security, financial stability, and planning. Fear of losing money or that they are not doing a good enough job managing their money is at the heart of this money type. A volatile stock market stresses them out, and they’ll spend hours finding the source of a $1.90 error on their bank statement. Above all, the risk-averse wants to be in control.

This group is usually very organized about money, which serves them well. They also tend to prefer safe investments and will be thorough in their research prior to investing.

Potential pitfalls: A more conservative, risk-averse approach can hold you back from worthwhile opportunities to grow your money. Problems can arise if you are too risk-averse to make sound long-term investments.

6 Ways to Improve Your Relationship with Money

Like all relationships, cultivating a good relationship with money takes time and effort. Below are six tips that can help you build a better relationship with money and feel more satisfied — and less stressed — about your financial situation.

1. Examine Your Behaviors

Take a look at your money patterns in the past few months to a year. Are you spending more than you are taking in each month? Have you been making impulsive purchases or investment decisions? Are you avoiding financial decisions, such as how much to contribute to your retirement account?

If you’re unsure what your patterns look like, you may want to track your spending for a few months to get an idea of what money is coming in and going out of your accounts. An easy way to do this is to link your accounts to a budget planning or money tracker app. These tools automatically categorize your spending and provide a bird’s eye view of your finances. This can help you quickly spot trends in your financial behavior.

2. Consider How Emotions Have Impacted Your Financial Decisions

For many people, emotions surrounding money are most acute when they are faced with a big financial decision. It might be when you’re buying a home or making another major purchase, such as a car, or when choosing how to invest your money.

Think back to what emotions you’ve felt while making important financial decisions. Were you focused on what you wanted when you made a large recent purchase, as opposed to what you actually needed? Did your decision line up with your long-term financial goals? Were you gambling on the next big investment trend hoping for a huge reward?

If you see that your emotions are causing you to make poor choices, consider how you can work through those emotions in future scenarios.

3. Set Some Financial Goals

One of the best ways to manage your relationship with money is to know what you want to accomplish financially. If you aren’t working towards anything specific, you may spend more than you should, or the opposite — never reap the rewards of your hard work.

Keep in mind that you can have multiple financial goals with different timelines. Consider where you’d like your finances to be in one year, three to five years, and 10 or more years. Here are some examples of goals you might set:

•   Short-term: Building an emergency fund, buying a new car, or going on vacation

•   Mid-term: Paying off credit card and student debt or putting a down payment on a home

•   Long-term: Saving for a child’s education or growing your nest egg with retirement planning

Once you’ve come up with a list of achievable and measurable goals, you’ll want to create an action plan to make them happen. This could mean cutting cable to save extra monthly cash, setting up a recurring monthly transfer from your checking to your savings account, and/or contributing more to your 401(k).

4. Communicate with Your Partner

Talking honestly and positively about finances with your significant other can help you have a healthier relationship with that person and also with money. Sharing how you feel about money and the attitudes you learned from your own family can help you and your partner understand each other better.

To get started, you may want to sit down together and talk about what money means to you, what your parents taught you about money, what you want to accomplish with it, and what your fears about money are. Having an understanding of your partner’s beliefs and perceptions can help you avoid conflict and set the stage for healthy discussions about your joint finances. You and your partner can then work together towards shared goals.

You may also want to set up a weekly or monthly money meeting with your partner to go over current challenges and anticipate future needs.

5. Talk to a Financial Planner

Working with a professional can be an effective way to take emotions out of your financial decision-making. A financial planner will generally assess your current financial situation, then work with you to develop an individualized financial plan. They can help you set and work towards long-term financial goals, create a budget, build wealth through an investment portfolio, and put protections in place to help secure your future.

6. Review What Resources Your Employer Might Offer

Many companies now offer a range of financial wellness tools and resources that workers can use to strengthen their finances and make sure they’re on the right path for long-term goals. These benefits might include help with student loan repayment, a 401(k) with employer matching, and access to free financial planning and coaching.

If you work for a company that has a benefits portal, that can be a good place to start to see what’s open to you. Ideally, you don’t want to leave anything (money or support) on the table.

The Takeaway

Everyone feels emotions about money. Exploring and understanding your relationship with money can help you take steps to overcome emotional obstacles, reduce money stress, and build a more secure financial future.

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