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It’s easy to put off writing a will. The process can seem complicated, not to mention expensive. And, if you’re single and don’t own a house, you may also feel like a will is unnecessary.

But writing a will actually doesn’t have to take a lot of time, or money. And even if you don’t have a lot of assets, having a will can give you peace of mind that your preferences will be followed.

Here’s what you need to know to write your own will.

What Is a Will?

Simply defined, a will (also known as a last will and testament) is a legal document that details what you want to be done with your possessions after your death. Your will may also identify a guardian if you have young children, as well as an executor, the person who will carry out the terms of your will.

What a will doesn’t cover is any asset in which you’ve designated beneficiaries. Named beneficiaries override a will. For example, if you designate all your property to go to your parents but you have bank accounts in which your brother is listed as a beneficiary, your brother will get the funds in those accounts while your parents would get the rest of your assets.

There are other important documents people may create at the same time as they create a will, and are all a part of an estate plan. These include:

•   Living will: If you were to become incapacitated, what are your preferences as far as medical treatments? This document legally outlines your wishes.

•   Power of attorney: If you are unable to make decisions for yourself, who has the authority to make those decisions on your behalf? Power of attorney may be divided into medical power of attorney — the person who has power to make medical decisions for you — and financial power of attorney. Both can be the same person.

•   Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order: This document communicates that, in the event of your heart no longer beating or you no longer being able to breathe independently, that you do not want doctors to perform any life-saving action.

•   Organ and tissue donation: If you were to die, would you want your organs and tissue to be donated? Having a form explicitly stating your wishes can make it easier for loved ones to fulfill your desires, instead of guessing what they think you would have wanted.

Not all documents need to be filled out at once. For example, some people may only fill out a DNR order if they have a terminal illness or are unlikely to recover.

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Dying Without a Will

Even if you think you own nothing of great value and you’re still working on money management, chances are you do own things that matter to your family. And if you die without a will, your loved ones may become involved in a complicated court process that will freeze your assets until state inheritance laws are followed.

If you’re single and die without a will, your assets will likely go to your closest blood relatives, which may be your parents or siblings. While this may be the preferred choice for some people, having a will allows you to earmark certain assets (or pets) for a charity or close friends.

It’s also a final chance to communicate your wishes to your loved ones and allows your loved ones to avoid a potentially drawn-out court process.

Dying without a will can become even more problematic if you have children. If you die without a will, the court will appoint a guardian. And while the court attempts to choose a guardian with the best interest of children in mind, that choice may not be the same choice you would make.

How To Create a Will

Below are simple steps that can help you make a will.

1. Choosing How You’ll Create Your Will

For people who own a lot of property or assets, and may want to set up trusts as a way to minimize taxes and ensure their heirs follow their wishes, it can be well worth the investment to hire an attorney who can walk them through the basics of estate planning.

However, online templates and will-creating platforms can be sufficient for many people. These DIY options can be much less expensive than working directly with an attorney and are legal and binding provided they are signed appropriately. Some of these online options are even free.

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2. Making a List of Your Assets

In order to leave property to your loved ones, you need to know exactly what you have. So it can be a good idea to start by making a list of all your significant assets, including jewelry, artwork, real estate/land, cars, and bank accounts that don’t name a beneficiary.

If you have retirement funds and/or life insurance, you don’t need to write out who is going to receive the proceeds, as these require naming beneficiaries within the account or policy.

3. Being Specific About Who Gets What

Once you have a list of all your assets, you can decide who you would like to get what. Here, it’s helpful to be as specific as possible, such as using full names and being detailed in describing the assets.

4. Considering Guardianship

For many parents, including pet parents, guardianship can be the most fraught element of their will. This can be a decision that takes time.

For example, some parents love the bond their children have with their grandparents but worry about how aging parents would handle the physical stressors of raising young kids. Other parents may wish to appoint a sister or brother who already has children, so their own kids can be brought up alongside other children. There is no wrong answer, but thinking through contingencies and what-ifs can be helpful in making the most informed decision.

It can also be a good idea to discuss the idea of guardianship with the intended recipient. Maybe a single uncle loves your kids but is uncomfortable taking on the role of parent, or maybe grandparents have similar reservations as to their fitness for taking on the role.

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5. Choosing an Executor

Naming an executor for your will is an important choice. This is the person who will make sure that the wishes laid out in your will are followed. The duties of an executor include paying any remaining bills and debts using your checking account, distributing your assets, and handling probate (transferring the titling of assets).

If you wish, you can name more than one person as an executor of your will.

6. Signing Your Will and Storing it in a Safe Place

A will is only legal when it is made legal — that is, printed and signed according to instructions. You generally need to sign a will in the presence of at least two witnesses. In some cases (such as if you’re using a document called a “self-proving affidavit” to simplify the process of going through probate court), your signature must be notarized as well.

You’ll also want to make sure you keep copies as directed. Many people keep a physical copy in a safe place, as well as a digital copy. Some might also share their will with their executor, or tell them where it is so it can be easily and quickly accessed if you were to die unexpectedly.

7. Updating Your Will as Appropriate

As your life changes, you may need to return to your will and update it. This could be due to:

•   Asset changes. Buying a house, opening an investment portfolio, and other financial moves may lead you to revisit your will.

•   Relationship changes. If you get married or have a serious partner, you may want to change your will to reflect that.

•   The addition of children or pets to your family.

•   The death or incapacitation of an appointed guardian.

It can also be good practice to assess your will after every life change, or every year or so. To update a will, you can either write what’s called a codicil (essentially a document stating any updates, written and signed by witnesses) or create a new will, depending on the extent of the changes.

The Takeaway

While the topic of death and end-of-life wishes can seem overwhelming, creating a will can be relatively straightforward. And thanks to the many online templates now available, you can often make your own will for a relatively low flat fee, or even for free.

The process of writing a will typically includes coming up with a list of assets, choosing where you’d like each asset to go, as well as choosing a guardian (if you have children) and an executor of your will.

While you may not think you need a will, having one (and updating it as appropriate) can be a gift to your loved ones when they may need it most.

As you get your affairs in order, you may also want to get your financial life organized. If you’re looking for a new banking partner, see what SoFi has to offer. When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.

FAQ

What Is the Easiest Way to Make a Will?

The easiest way to make a will is to use an online will-making service. These tools generally guide you through the process with clear instructions and templates and run anywhere from free to around $200. For complex assets and estates, however, consulting a lawyer is recommended to ensure the will is legally sound and comprehensive.

What Is the Biggest Mistake in a Will?

One of the biggest mistakes in a will is failing to update it regularly. Life changes, such as marriage, divorce, or the birth of children, can render an old will ineffective. Other common mistakes include unclear language, not accounting for all your assets, not signing it properly, and not having witnesses. Working with a lawyer can help ensure you avoid these errors.

How Much Do Most Lawyers Charge for a Will?

Most lawyers charge between $300 and $1,000 for a basic will, depending on the complexity and location. More complex estates or additional services like trusts can increase the cost. Shop around and ask for a quote to find a lawyer that fits your budget and needs.

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From hiring a video arcade on wheels to treating 10 little princesses to a spa day, today’s birthday parties have gone next level. You could easily drop $500-plus on your kid’s next shindig.

Fortunately, you don’t have to. It’s possible to host a fun and memorable birthday celebration for friends and family without breaking the bank.

Here are some inexpensive party ideas to consider when planning your next birthday bash.

1. Being Selective with the Guest List

As tempting as it might be to invite everyone in your child’s class or the whole soccer team, limiting the guest count is a simple way to save money on a birthday party.

Less people means less food, less party supplies, and fewer favors — but not necessarily less fun. It’s possible to have a close knit vibe at a birthday party that gets people talking to each other and enjoying themselves even more than they would have at a big event.

If your child is willing to invite only one or two friends, you might consider skipping a party altogether and opting for an experience. Going bowling or spending a couple of hours at a play space, zoo, or museum can suddenly become an affordable option.

2. Sharing the Party with a Friend

If your child’s birthday falls around the same time as one of their close friends, you might want to consider teaming up and having a dual birthday party.

This enables you to share the costs and responsibilities with another family and, if the kids have a similar friend group, it would not necessarily have to be a much larger party. It can be a good idea, however, to make sure each child gets their own cake and presents.

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3. Choosing a Cheap (or Free) Venue

While hosting a party at a local climbing gym or other entertainment venue can be appealing, you can end up dropping as much as $450 just for the space.

One way to throw a birthday party on a tight budget is to have the party at home. That said, the wear and tear on your floors and furnishings might not be worth the savings. In good weather, however, a backyard party can be a great, low-cost option. Or, you might consider having the party in a local park or garden.

If your child’s birthday lands in a cold weather season, you can save money on a venue by limiting the guest list and going with the most basic package (such as just food and drinks for each child), and providing your own cake and goody bags. You can also check deal websites for discounts and promotions or ask the venue about a discount for having the party at an off-peak time or day.

4. Sending Digital Invites

Skipping the paper and going with digital invitations can be kinder to the environment and also cut down on birthday party costs, since you won’t have to buy premade invites or stamps.

You can design your own digital invitation and send them via email or text, or you may want to take advantage of one of the many online (and free) e-invitation sites.

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5. Getting Creative With Decorations

One of the best things about the internet is that somebody’s probably already created precisely what you need. Rather than drop a chunk of money at the party store on themed decor, you may want to check out Pinterest for free printables.

You can also find ideas for DIY decorations on Pinterest (along with many other sites) using low cost supplies, possibly even things you already have on hand. Dollar stores can also be great places to shop for decorations and supplies.

If you do hit the party store, you may want to consider going with just one or two premium themed items and keeping the rest of the decor colorful and fun.

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6. Making a Semi-Homemade Birthday Cake

A custom bakery cake that serves 20 to 22 people can run as much as $90, while a cake large enough for 30-plus guests can easily run more than $100.

A cheaper option is to buy a cake mix, then make it look and taste homemade with a few simple baking hacks, such as swapping butter for oil and milk for water, adding an extra egg, and making your own buttercream frosting.

To make cupcakes that look like they came from a bakery, you can pipe icing on top using a ziplock bag with a tiny hole snipped in the corner.

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7. Timing the Party Right

If the party takes place during lunch or dinner time, there’s a good chance people will expect to be fed a meal.

Choosing an off-time to celebrate — such as 10:30am or 2:30pm — means you can steer the party away from heartier, and costly, fare (like freshly delivered pizzas or a sandwich platter) and stick to serving finger foods and snacks instead.

8. Buying in Bulk for Gift Bags

If you’ll be giving each guest a swag bag, consider buying toys and trinkets in bulk sets and then dividing them up. This can be a real cost-saver when compared to purchasing items individually (even at the dollar store).

Fun items like paper airplanes, wooden yoyos, squishy toys, stampers, fidget spinners and Slinkys can often be purchased in packs at stores as well as online.

9. Playing Some Free Games

You don’t necessarily have to rent a bouncy house or hire live entertainment to keep a birthday party lively and fun. There are a number of inexpensive ways to make sure there is plenty of action, activity, and laughter. Here are a few fun, free games you might consider:

•   Duck Duck Goose

•   Charades

•   Musical Chairs

•   Red Rover

•   Rock Paper Scissor Tournaments

•   Three Legged Races

•   Marco Polo (you can even play on land)

•   Hot Potato

•   Simon Says

The Takeaway

It can be tempting — and easy — to spend a lot creating a memorable birthday party. But with just a few cost-cutting strategies, such as trimming your guestlist, shifting the time of the party, choosing an inexpensive venue, and organizing some free games, you can throw a festive birthday bash without breaking the bank.

You can also make birthday celebrations more affordable by setting a budget and saving up in advance.

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FAQ

How can I celebrate my birthday on a low budget?

You can celebrate your birthday on a low budget by keeping it simple and meaningful. You might host a potluck-style gathering at home or a local park, where guests each contribute food or drinks. Or you might plan a free or low-cost group activity, like a game night, movie marathon, or hike. If you’re celebrating at your or someone else’s home, consider going with DIY decorations and a home-made cake to cut costs. The key is to enjoy the company and create memorable moments without breaking the bank.

How do you throw a low-budget party?

To throw a low-budget party, start by choosing a free or low-cost venue, like your home or a public park. Make a guest list that fits your space and budget, and opt for homemade food and snacks instead of catering. Other cost-cutting tips include: using DIY decorations or items you already have, playing music through a phone or speaker, and planning simple games or activities. Focus on fun, not extravagance—it’s totally possible to host a great party without overspending.

What is a good budget for a kids’ birthday party?

A good budget for a kids’ birthday party can vary, but a reasonable range is $100 to $300. This can cover essentials like invitations, decorations, snacks, and a simple activity or game. Consider hosting the party at home or a local park to save on venue costs. DIY decorations and homemade treats can add a personal touch without breaking the bank. The key is to create a fun and memorable experience for the kids while staying within your financial limits.

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Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

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