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There’s no one answer that fits all situations. The average American has 3.9 credit cards. But how many lines of credit you should have depends upon your needs, your skill at managing your finances, and your ability to make payments on time.

We’ll explore two types of credit lines, provide definitions of basic credit terms, and offer some broader context so that you can make the choice that’s best for you.

Line of Credit Definition

First, what is a line of credit? A personal line of credit (sometimes called a PLOC) allows consumers to borrow money as they need it, up to a set limit, and pay it off over time. A line of credit can be used to pay bills or make purchases directly or to withdraw cash with no cash-advance fee. As long as borrowers keep paying down the balance, they can keep borrowing. In other words, this is a type of revolving credit.

Lines of credit are usually granted only to people with good credit. Because they’re less risky for the lender, the interest rate can be lower than for credit cards.

How Does a Line of Credit Work?

Many banks, credit unions, and online financial institutions offer lines of credit. A distinguishing feature is the “draw period.” During that time — typically seven to 15 years — funds can be borrowed and repaid in a revolving way. When the draw period ends, users can no longer make purchases or withdrawals, though they can reapply to keep the line open. The repayment period can continue for additional five to 13 years.

To utilize a line of credit, consumers may receive checks, a card, or a direct deposit into their bank account. Funds can be used however they like, but generally go toward large purchases. Personal lines of credit often have a variable interest rate, with interest-only payments during the draw period.

Is It Possible To Have Too Many Lines of Credit?

In this case, a “line of credit” refers to both PLOCs and credit cards. All credit cards are a form of credit line, but not all lines of credit are associated with a credit card.

If a consumer has many credit lines, lenders may see them as high-risk — even if their balances are all zero. As noted above, the average American has four credit cards. New Jersey residents have the most credit cards in the country, with 4.5 on average. Older generations tend to carry more cards than Millennials and Gen Z. So while four lines of credit may be considered normal, it can be “too many” if a consumer has trouble juggling their bills and making payments on time.

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Is It Possible to Have Too Few Lines of Credit?

To build a strong credit score, it helps to have a variety of credit types. Credit mix accounts for 10% of a FICO® Score, and the ideal mix includes both revolving credit and installment loans like personal loans, car loans, and so forth. Although each person’s situation is unique, just having credit accounts and managing them well is what builds a good credit score. Having one or two cards can be enough.

Credit Card Definition

You may be wondering, if a line of credit can come with a card, then what is a credit card? Both credit cards and lines of credit are forms of revolving credit offered by many financial institutions. A credit card holder can also make purchases up to the credit card spending limit. However, credit card users can avoid interest charges by paying off the balance in full each month. Essentially, credit cards provide consumers with unlimited short-term loans for free (assuming there’s no annual fee).

Credit cards don’t have a draw period — they remain open as long as the account is in good standing. The average credit card limit, according to the latest report from credit bureau Experian, is $29,855.

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Line of Credit vs Credit Card

A credit card — as the name implies — has a card connected to it, which allows the borrower to access funds. A line of credit doesn’t necessarily have a card connected to the account. Lines of credit tend to have lower interest rates and annual percentage rates (APRs) than credit cards and may have higher limits. So they may be better suited to large purchases, as noted above, that can be paid for over time.

Credit cards are easy to use for everyday purchases and often come with an interest-free grace period (from the purchase date until the payment date). Credit cards may provide rewards and perks that personal lines of credit do not. And applying for a credit card is usually a simpler process than the line of credit process.

Credit Score Risk Factors to Consider

How someone manages personal lines of credit and credit cards will have an affect on their credit score and, therefore, their ability to borrow at advantageous rates. Here are some ways your line of credit may negatively influence your credit score:

•   Credit utilization. After a large purchase, your credit utilization percentage will rise. Credit utilization accounts for 30% of your credit score.

•   Payment history. Late or missed payments can negatively impact your history. Payment history accounts for 35% of your FICO score.

•   Credit history length. A new line of credit will lower the average age of your credit history. Length of credit history accounts for 15% of your score.

Consumers who are concerned about their credit score may want to take advantage of a free credit monitoring service to see how their day to day actions impact their score.

Using Multiple Credit Cards

How many credit cards should you have? As long as you can responsibly manage your credit cards and haven’t applied for too many new ones in a short timeframe, then the number isn’t likely to have a negative impact on your credit.

However, the more cards you have, the more payments and due dates you’ll have to juggle. If you’re considering ways to use a credit card wisely, Ask yourself whether any of these issues apply to you:

•   Multiple annual fees are taking a bite out of your budget.

•   Monitoring your cards for fraudulent activity has become challenging.

•   Knowing you have cards with low or no balances makes it easier to overspend.

The Takeaway

The right number of credit lines varies by personal need and financial circumstances. Lines of credit include but aren’t limited to credit cards. What’s most important is to use them wisely to protect your credit score, avoid unnecessary debt, and manage your finances responsibly. It may help to know that the average American has about 4 lines of credit.

For a more holistic view of your finances — including your credit cards — consider enlisting the help of money tracker app. It can help you seamlessly manage your money by connecting all of your accounts on one convenient mobile dashboard.

Take control of your finances with SoFi. With our financial insights and credit score monitoring tools, you can view all of your accounts in one convenient dashboard. From there, you can see your various balances, spending breakdowns, and credit score. Plus you can easily set up budgets and discover valuable financial insights — all at no cost.

FAQ

How many lines of credit is good for your credit rating?

Specifics will depend upon your financial situation. Elements that go into credit score calculations typically include the borrower’s payment history (making payments on time is the biggest factor), outstanding balance amounts in comparison to limits, credit history length, having a good credit mix, and strategically applying (or not applying) for new credit accounts.

How many lines of credit is too much?

What’s most important is to have the right number for your financial needs and overall situation. Being able to responsibly manage the number of accounts you have is important since making payments on time is the biggest factor in your credit scores. While most Americans have about four lines of credit, that may be “too much” for some consumers.

What are some consequences of having multiple lines of credit?

It can be more challenging to keep track of payment dates and amounts, which may make it easier to make a payment late or miss it entirely. This can have a negative impact on your credit score. Plus, if accounts have annual fees, then having several of them can add up. Multiple lines of credit may also make it more difficult to spot fraud. That said, if someone can responsibly manage multiple lines of credit, then that may be the right number of accounts for them.

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A credit card convenience fee is an additional charge that a merchant collects on a purchase to compensate them for accepting your card vs. their usual form of payment. Perhaps they usually accept cash, check, or an electronic transfer, and allowing you to use plastic requires more time and effort for them or it triggers fees for them.

Given that more than 80% of Americans use credit cards, it’s likely that most people get hit with a convenience fee at some point. Here’s what you need to know about how they work and how to avoid them.

What Is A Convenience Fee?

A convenience fee is a flat fee, such as $1, or a percentage of your purchase (up to 4%) that’s tacked onto the cost of your transaction that you, the cardholder, are expected to pay. Here’s some more intel about these fees:

•  A credit card convenience fee is typically charged by merchants when a customer uses a credit card in a payment channel that isn’t the usual one for the business. For instance, if a trade school usually accepts payments in-person and you choose to pay online, you might be assessed the additional fee for the convenience of not turning up at their place of business.

•  The fee can reflect a merchant trying to pass along some fees they pay when you choose to use a credit card vs. other methods. When merchants allow a customer to use a credit card as a payment method, they (the retailer) are charged a credit-card processing fee for the transaction. By charging a convenience fee, the merchant may offload that processing fee.

In some cases, a retailer will factor such credit card fees into their business model and won’t pass along the additional charge. That is why you may notice that convenience fees seem somewhat random. However, convenience fees must be disclosed when they are charged; they can’t be added without a consumer being informed of them.

Example of a Convenience Fee

Here are examples of convenience fees in action:

•  When you fill up your tank at a gas station, you may notice that the price for gas is, say, 2.5% or 3% higher per gallon if you pay with a credit card vs. cash. That could be how the gas station owner recoups the credit card processing fees they must pay on such transactions.

•  You might pay an extra charge of a couple of dollars when you buy movie tickets online or via an app instead of at the box office. You enjoy the convenience of buying something with your card (and perhaps snagging seats to a show that could sell out), and the merchant is able to offset their costs somewhat.

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Why Do Convenience Fees Exist?

The main reason you’re getting stuck with these convenience fees is because the merchants have to pay processing fees to payment networks, as noted above.

•  The payment networks or payment processors work with credit card issuers (like your bank) and the card network (Visa, Mastercard, Discover, American Express) to make sure the transaction is secure and processed smoothly.

•  The bank that issues the cards often charges the merchant a credit card processing fee for allowing them to accept this card. This is typically between 1.5% and 4% per transaction. The merchant might pass those fees on to you, the consumer, as a convenience fee.

This is also another reason some small businesses may not accept credit cards at all: They don’t want to have to pay the fees associated with taking them or pass them on to you

Credit Card Company Rules on Convenience Fees

Here’s the breakdown for how some of the major credit-card brands handle fees.

Convenience Fees vs Surcharge Fees: What’s the Difference?

While they both add to a purchase’s cost, here is the difference between what you may hear referred to as convenience fees and surcharge fees.

•  A surcharge fee covers the cost of you having the privilege of using a credit card. It’s added before taxes. Sometimes called a “checkout fee,” it is usually a percentage of the sale. Credit card surcharges are prohibited by law in a number of states. These charges are currently illegal in Connecticut, Maine, Massachusetts, New York, and Puerto Rico, but these laws are subject to change.

•  A convenience fee, as noted above, typically covers the cost of doing a transaction with a credit card instead of another payment method. Sometimes this is charged as a percentage of the transaction. Other times, it is charged as a flat fee, regardless of the cost of the products or services purchased..

How Can Convenience Fees Be Avoided?

When you’re trying to avoid credit card convenience fees, you can use these tactics:

•   You can choose to pay with a method other than plastic, such as cash, check, or money orders at some merchants. Or you may be able to use an electronic payment, such as an e-check or ACH payment.

   For example, if you’re paying for college tuition, you might be able to set up an online payment using an electronic check, money order, or personal check. At some schools, this could save you nearly 3% per payment transaction. (That being said, if you have a high-rewards credit card, conducting an expensive transaction might be beneficial if you can get cash back.

•   You can scan for notices about convenience fees before conducting a transaction. You can look for posted signs in brick-and-mortar locations and read the payment terms on websites and in apps.

•   You can ask before purchasing a product or service if paying by cash will save you money (this can sometimes be the case with service providers) or if using a credit card will trigger a fee.

Credit card fees are fairly common today, so you want to be alert to how they can crop up and avoid them when you can.

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The Takeaway

Knowing that credit card convenience fees (and surcharge fees) exist, whether they are legal in your state, and how to avoid them can help save you money in the long run.

Whether you're looking to build credit, apply for a new credit card, or save money with the cards you have, it's important to understand the options that are best for you. Learn more about credit cards by exploring this credit card guide.

FAQ

Why am I being charged a convenience fee?

A credit card convenience fee typically reflects that the merchant is willing to accept plastic vs. other payment methods they usually take. These fees may be a way that merchants recoup the processing fees that they then must pay when they allow customers to use a credit card.

Is it legal to charge a convenience fee for credit cards?

Credit card convenience fees are currently legal in all U.S. states but must be disclosed; they can’t be added on without a customer being informed.

How to avoid credit card convenience fees?

You can usually avoid credit card convenience fees by using an alternate payment form, such as cash, check, or electronic payment.

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Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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Mail-in rebates sound simple: To submit one, you purchase a qualifying product, fill out its rebate form, and mail the form – and its requested proof of purchase – back to the product manufacturer. If accepted, you should receive a refund in roughly two to four months.

This kind of incentive has become quite popular. You’ve probably seen them in-store (say, an offer of $5 off a purchase of shaving cream) and online, where pop-ups may promise $100 back after buying a smartphone.

It sounds like the path to easy money, but the truth is, many rebates never get claimed. To avoid that scenario, here’s how to claim your savings via a rebate.

What Exactly Is a Mail-in Rebate?

A mail-in rebate is an offer for a full or partial refund on a product purchase in exchange for providing proof that you bought the item. Rebates are offered directly from manufacturers for any number of reasons. They may be conducting market research, enticing the sale of a pricey item, or looking to empty their inventory of a product that hasn’t captured the consumer’s imagination.

Whatever the motivation is, it gives consumers the opportunity to purchase items at a lower cost if they invest a bit of time and effort. That can mean some extra money to put into your checking account.

How Do You Submit a Mail-in Rebate?

The concept of mail-in rebates has been around for years, and the process of applying for them largely remains the same. Following these five simple steps can help you successfully submit your rebates.

Step 1: Look in the Right Places

A rebate can appear in many forms. Tear-off pads on product displays or sticker tabs directly on products that say “rebate” are some of the most obvious. Others can be found in the coupon section of a newspaper, on couponing websites, and even the direct websites of the manufacturers. Sometimes, they will come inside the box along with something you’ve ordered or as a tear-off section at the bottom of your receipt. Knowing how to spot them is the first step toward claiming them. But of course, you don’t want to buy something just because it offers a rebate. Many of us are trying to cut back on spending, so only snap up products that you really need.

Step 2: Purchase the Right Product

Rebate offers are very specific about the products to which they apply. This means that when purchasing a product, you should double-check (maybe even triple-check!) that it matches the item specified on the rebate form. If a product is simply the wrong color or size, you run the risk of your rebate being rejected by a manufacturer.

When purchasing a product for rebate, carefully check details such as the brand name, style, color, model number, quantity, and even weight or size against the details on the rebate form to make sure they match.

Step 3: Complete the Rebate Form

The rebate form itself is what outlines the specific parameters of the rebate offer, but it is also where contact information must be provided so that the rebate can be issued upon acceptance. Expect to include contact details such a full name, address, and a phone number in order to fully submit a rebate claim.

Step 4: Collect the Proof of Purchase

The crux of rebate submissions relies on being able to prove that a product was purchased. Rebate forms will specifically outline which forms of proof they require to be submitted, and they can vary from product to product. Two of the most common forms of proof are the purchase receipt and the UPC barcode from the product’s packaging. Be sure to gather the specific proof requested for each product before submitting a rebate.

Step 5: Mail and Wait

After filling out a rebate form and collecting the proof of purchase, the rebate can be mailed to the manufacturer. Use the specific address outlined on the rebate form, and prepare to wait anywhere from 6 to 12 weeks (or even longer) to receive your rebate upon its approval. Processing times vary widely across manufacturers but the fine print on a rebate form will outline what return date to expect for that specific product.

Rebates are submitted by countless people worldwide, so the process can take time. Often, when your rebate does arrive, it will be in the form of a check or a prepaid debit card loaded with the amount of the rebate.

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Mail-in Rebate Tips

Even though the process for submitting a mail-in rebate is fairly simple and straightforward, there are few things to know that can help make the process even easier to manage.

1. Always Get a Receipt

More often than not, a rebate will require a receipt as a proof of purchase. Opting for a receipt with every purchase can help ensure you always have one when you need it. Bonus: Keeping track of receipts and spending can go a long way towards helping you create a budget and stick to a budget.

2. Take Note of Expiration Dates

Always check the expiration date on the rebate form, and aim to mail the rebate at least a week prior to the date. This tactic can help ensure that the rebate arrives to the manufacturer on time. Otherwise, your effort to submit will be in vain, and you’ll wind up “leaving money on the table,” as the saying goes.

3. Don’t Consolidate Purchases

It’s common to find multiple product rebates in a single shopping trip, and purchasing them in the same transaction would seem like common sense. However, in the case of multiple rebates, it’s wise to process each rebate in its own separate transaction, whether you pay in cash or with a credit card. Because rebate requirements can differ and each submission will require its own proof of purchase, collecting a unique receipt for each product purchased will help avoid any confusion. You don’t want to be stuck with a single proof of purchase that needs to be sent to multiple locations.

4. Keep the Packaging

Proof of purchase requirements for product rebates can vary, but they all require the product to be in possession of the buyer. The UPC barcode is one of the most commonly requested details, and it’s not uncommon for the manufacturer to request that the barcode be cut out and physically submitted. Depending on the packaging, the UPC barcode can appear on inner or outer product packaging, and without paying attention, it can be easy to discard the packaging altogether without collecting it.

Keeping product packaging until all mail-in-rebate requirements have been collected and submitted can help avoid any mishaps during the process. Once you’ve filed your rebate (or, better still, received your money back), go ahead and declutter.

5. Prepare to Follow Up

Though rebate refunds typically take six to eight weeks to arrive, it’s not uncommon for that time to stretch to 12 weeks or longer, if they arrive at all. It can be wise to put a reminder in your calendar to see if the rebate has arrived when expected so you can plunk it into your bank account, and, if not, to follow up.

Also, make sure to keep copies of everything that has been mailed off — the receipt, the UPC code, and anything else you sent. When contacting a manufacturer for a rebate status, having a detailed tracker and copies of your rebate materials to reference will help the process of claiming your rebate run more smoothly. Yes, it’s an extra (possibly annoying) step, but if you’ve made the effort to get money back, you do want to follow through!

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The Takeaway

Mail-in rebates provide great opportunities to save money on everyday products, but they do require a bit of effort to redeem. With a little attention to detail, your diligence could result in a moderate stash of savings that could be used toward other financial goals.

That said, rebates will only get you so far! Opening a new bank account can help you store those savings and snag you some interest.

Interested in opening an online bank account? When you sign up for a SoFi Checking and Savings account with direct deposit, you’ll get a competitive annual percentage yield (APY), pay zero account fees, and enjoy an array of rewards, such as access to the Allpoint Network of 55,000+ fee-free ATMs globally. Qualifying accounts can even access their paycheck up to two days early.

FAQ

How do I send mail-in rebates?

Sending in a rebate typically requires getting a rebate form, purchasing the right product, filling out the rebate form, including your proof of purchase, and mailing all the required documents in.

Is a mail-in rebate worth it?

A mail-in rebate can take some time and effort to complete, but in return, you can get part of your purchase price returned. Not completing a rebate is akin to “leaving money on the table.”

Why do companies do mail-in rebates?

Companies may do mail-in rebates to entice consumers to buy an item, introduce a new item, or clear out an item that is being discontinued.

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Annual percentage yield (APY) is variable and subject to change at any time. Rates are current as of 11/12/25. There is no minimum balance requirement. Fees may reduce earnings. Additional rates and information can be found at https://www.sofi.com/legal/banking-rate-sheet

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Although we do our best to recognize all Eligible Direct Deposits, a small number of employers, payroll providers, benefits providers, or government agencies do not designate payments as direct deposit. To ensure you're earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, we encourage you to check your APY Details page the day after your Eligible Direct Deposit posts to your SoFi account. If your APY is not showing as the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit, contact us at 855-456-7634 with the details of your Eligible Direct Deposit. As long as SoFi Bank can validate those details, you will start earning the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit from the date you contact SoFi for the next 31 calendar days. You will also be eligible for the APY for account holders with Eligible Direct Deposit on future Eligible Direct Deposits, as long as SoFi Bank can validate them.

Deposits that are not from an employer, payroll, or benefits provider or government agency, including but not limited to check deposits, peer-to-peer transfers (e.g., transfers from PayPal, Venmo, Wise, etc.), merchant transactions (e.g., transactions from PayPal, Stripe, Square, etc.), and bank ACH funds transfers and wire transfers from external accounts, or are non-recurring in nature (e.g., IRS tax refunds), do not constitute Eligible Direct Deposit activity. There is no minimum Eligible Direct Deposit amount required to qualify for the stated interest rate. SoFi Bank shall, in its sole discretion, assess each account holder's Eligible Direct Deposit activity to determine the applicability of rates and may request additional documentation for verification of eligibility.

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Money affirmations are phrases you repeat aloud or write down to help promote positive thinking and good financial habits. Some people find these mantras to be a helpful tool in reducing money stress. That can be a good thing: In one 2024 survey, 88% of respondents said they were experiencing financial stress, with 65% noting that money was their single biggest source of worry.

Here, learn about what money affirmations are and how you might find them useful.

What Are Money Affirmations?

Affirmations about money are positive statements about personal finances, from the dollars that pass through your hands (or are growing in your savings account) daily to long-term goals. Some people value these as being a step towards visualizing and achieving financial success. Some points to know:

•   An affirmation can be as simple as “My finances will get better.” That can be a motivating and calming message if, say, you are a recent graduate who is struggling to find a job. Looking on the bright side in this way can encourage a positive attitude as you learn how to become financially independent.

•   Fans of finance affirmations say that repeating them can help you believe in and actualize (or manifest) them. By keeping such thoughts top of mind, you might avoid impulsive or unwise money decisions, such as splurging on a vacation when it isn’t in your budget. 

That said, others may not believe in money affirmations and question if there’s proof that this kind of positive thinking works. It’s a very personal decision whether to implement these affirmations or not.

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What Is the Law of Attraction?

When exploring money affirmations (or any kind of affirmation, for that matter), you may hear the phrase “law of attraction” used. This principle says that by focusing on what you want to attract into your life, you can help yourself actually attain those goals. To put it another way, by envisioning what you want, you can guide your thoughts and behaviors to achieve that vs. dwelling on what you don’t have. 

For instance, if you want to retire by age 50, you would push away negative thoughts of “I’ll never have enough money to do that.” Instead, you might regularly conjure up the image of leaving your job to pursue your passions at age 50 and say, “I am on a path to save enough money to retire early.” That could perhaps help you pass up impulse buys and instead save money to help you realize your dream. That can be a valuable step on the path to financial freedom.

25 Money Affirmations

If you want to give affirmations about money a try, here are 25 examples you can try out (whether you say them aloud, internally, or write them down) to hopefully build a more positive approach to your finances.

1.      I control money; money doesn’t control me.

2.      I can become financially free.

3.      I have the power to be financially successful.

4.      My income will exceed my expenses.

5.      My hard work will bring in more money.

6.      I am worthy of making more money.

7.      I am a magnet for prosperity, and it flows toward me effortlessly.

8.      I deserve the money coming to me.

9.      I have more than enough money.

10.      My finances will get better.

11.      I accept financial success.

12.      I will achieve my financial goals.

13.      I deserve financial success and happiness.

14.      I will use the money I earn for good.

15.      I am wise with my money.

16.      I can make smart financial decisions.

17.      I have the ability to overcome reckless spending.

18.      I can make my dreams a reality.

19.      My future self will thank me for being wise with money.

20.      Having wealth is integral for life.

21.      I can achieve my financial goals and more.

22.      Debt will not stop me from reaching my financial goals.

23.      Saving money is a challenge I can accomplish.

24.      My investments will pay off.

Do Money Affirmations Actually Work?

There’s no guarantee that if you repeat money affirmations, your financial well-being will improve. No matter what you see online, read in books, or watch on YouTube, no one knows 100% whether money affirmations, even if repeated 100 times, will truly improve finances and build wealth. 

That said, proponents believe in them, so whether to use money affirmations is your call. One note in favor of money affirmations: They might help you focus on the positive and alleviate some money stress, which can be a good thing. 

One recent survey found that almost half of respondents (47%) said money negatively impacted their mental health, and that included causing stress. Reinforcing positive self-talk with money mantras might relieve worry and result in a calmer, steadier, more productive financial mindset. 

Money Affirmations vs Money Mantras

The phrases “money affirmations” and “money mantras” are typically used interchangeably. They are also sometimes called “abundance affirmations” or “wealth affirmations.” Occasionally, a money affirmation may be distinguished as being a sentence vs. a money mantra being just a phrase (like “less spending, more success”). 

Whatever you call them, money affirmations for financial abundance may be a way to boost your positivity when it comes to managing your cash. The words are meant to help you stay the course in reaching your financial goals.

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How to Choose and Write Your Money Affirmations

To choose and write your money affirmations, first identify negative beliefs about money that may be holding you back. Perhaps you see yourself as an impulse shopper, incapable of resisting sales or making frugal decisions. Maybe you’ll decide that “I am wise with my money” would be a good affirmation to try because it could counteract negative money self-talk.

You can also write a money mantra based on your personal challenges to state your goals as if it is already true. For example:

•   If your checking account is often lower than you’d like and you’re tightening your budget, the negative statement, “I will not order food delivery ever this year” may be discouraging and hard to live up to. 

•   A better affirmation might be a positive phrase, like, “I will budget well and spend my grocery money mindfully.” That way, when you do order the occasional pizza, you will likely have planned for it and can feel good. 

Your money mantra can help you focus on the positive.

How Do You Use Money Affirmations?

Those who believe in affirmations suggest using them in whichever way feels comfortable and meaningful. 

•   You might say them aloud or to yourself. 

•   You could jot them on a sticky note to post on your computer, mirror, fridge, and/or car dashboard. 

•   Some people like to put the words on their phone lock screen.

•   Others may prefer to write their phases (whether that’s “I am working to increase my bank account” or “Abundance is flowing my way”) in a notebook or journal.

Saying or writing your money affirmation daily can be a good practice, but it’s up to you to set the cadence that works best for you. The goal is to repeat the affirmations often enough to impact your outlook, enabling you to visualize financial security and move towards it.

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The Takeaway

Money affirmations, aka money mantras or abundance affirmations, are sayings that people can repeat to replace a negative money mindset with a positive one. They can express a financial goal or good habit. Some believe that saying or writing these words can help banish negative self-talk and instead create an optimistic outlook that can encourage good money management and financial wellness.

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FAQ

How do I choose the best money affirmation for me?

Choosing the right money affirmation is a very personal decision. You may want to opt for (or write) a money affirmation that counteracts negative thoughts. So if you often tell yourself, “I will always be in debt,” a good money affirmation might be, “Every day, I am moving towards eliminating debt.” 

What is the affirmation number for money?

Each person can decide if they believe in affirmation numbers (or “lucky numbers”) for money and, if so, what it might be. Some think the number eight is associated with building wealth (say, in numerology), though it’s unlikely to find scientific proof of such a connection.

How often do I need to say my money affirmations?

Money (or wealth) affirmation fans say you should repeat the phrases as often as you need to so that you believe in them and they can help guide your financial habits. That could mean saying your money mantra daily perhaps. If you choose to write down your money mantras, the general advice is to post your affirmations where you will see and read them often. A couple of good spots might be on the refrigerator or mirror. 

When is a good time to repeat money affirmations?

An ideal time to repeat money affirmations can be when you’re feeling overwhelmed or stressed about your finances. For instance, if your credit card payment is late, rather than sinking back into negative self-talk, you could repeat your money mantra. Doing so might help you accept your current burden and refocus on your goals. Other people may find they like to repeat money mantras in the morning, to encourage a positive money mindset all day.

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Marriage is a wonderful but challenging institution. It is supposed to be built on trust and honesty, but infidelity does occur — and it can be devastating. That holds true for financial infidelity, too: Maybe one partner racks up a major amount of debt without disclosing it, or each spouse is keeping a secret account “just in case.” When this kind of behavior takes root and is then exposed, it can do serious harm to a union.

But if financial infidelity in marriage occurs, it doesn’t necessarily mean the partnership is on the rocks. In fact, with the right approach, a marriage can emerge even stronger. Read on to find out:

•   What is financial infidelity?

•   What are the warning signs of financial infidelity?

•   How can you prevent financial infidelity?

•   How can you recover from financial infidelity?

What Is Financial Infidelity?

Financial infidelity occurs when one person in a relationship hides, manipulates, or falsifies information about their financial position, bank accounts, or transactions. The problem can be unintentional to start with but then grow into a significant problem with severe detriment to the relationship.

For example, one spouse may offer to take care of the bills and the finances, and the other spouse trusts them to be responsible. However, the spouse who pays the bills may begin to spend excessively unbeknownst to their partner. They might spend on clothing, stocks, expensive meals out, or any other expense. The result of these splurges could do harm to both partners’ finances, even though only one is aware of it and responsible for it.

What Are Some Common Examples of Financial Infidelity?

Financial infidelity can occur in a variety of situations; whether both spouses work or one doesn’t, or whether they have joint vs. separate bank accounts. There’s no one main type.

Here’s a closer look at the different forms of financial infidelity that can occur in a marriage.

Spending Money in Secret

As mentioned above, if one partner splurges and keeps that secret, it can be a form of financial infidelity. This can impact a couple’s shared goals, such as saving for a down payment on a house. Some couples may establish how much they can each spend without having to consult the other. This can help keep the finances fair and avoid this kind of secret spending.

Hiding Debt From One Another

Not disclosing debt to a partner is dishonest and can negatively impact both spouses. For joint bank accounts and credit cards, both partners are equally liable for any debt. For this reason, it’s wise if couples discuss their financial situation early in their relationship, before they enter into a financial partnership to avoid any surprises later on.

Hiding Accounts From One Another

Some people may hide bank accounts from their partners, perhaps considering it their secret “mad money” on the side. While spouses don’t need to know everything about each other’s lives, being transparent about finances helps ensure you’re on the same page, working toward the same goals.

Lying About Income

A spouse might disclose that their income is lower than it really is. They may then use the difference for their own purposes, rather than for shared goals.

Why Do People Commit Financial Infidelity?

There is no one reason why people lie about finances in a marriage, but many do. According to a December 2023 Bankrate survey, 42 percent of adults who are married or living with a partner have kept a financial secret from their mate. Here are three possible explanations.

•   Embarrassment. An individual who has financial difficulties might be ashamed to disclose their financial circumstances when they marry or live with another person. So rather than confess, they hide their debt, say, or a salary that’s lower than they said it was.

•   Revenge. In an unhappy relationship, one partner may tap into shared wealth to exact revenge or punish the other. This behavior, known as “revenge spending,” can increase debt (particularly credit card debt) and put a couple’s finances in a precarious situation.

•   Emotional issues. One spouse may have an addiction or psychological problem that causes them to act irresponsibly with money. For example, they might have compulsive buying behavior (CBB; which some people refer to as a shopping addiction), bipolar disorder, substance abuse, or a gambling addiction.

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What Are the Effects of Financial Infidelity?

The most immediate effect of discovering financial infidelity is probably loss of trust. The longer-term consequences can be financial difficulties and, ultimately, divorce. Here’s a closer look:

•   Loss of Trust. When one person in a relationship or marriage withholds, hides, or misconstrues information, they abuse the trust that the person places in them.

•   Financial Difficulties. If one partner has hidden their debt or another financial minefield from the other, it can cause problems for their shared finances. They may both experience cash flow issues and have trouble paying bills and saving for the future.

•   Lower Credit Score. Acting irresponsibly with money, failing to pay bills, or falling deeper into debt will likely cause a lower credit score for the parties involved.

•   Divorce. The problems that result from financial infidelity can lead to separation and divorce.

Tips for How to Deal with Financial Infidelity

Can a marriage survive these kinds of money problems? In all likelihood, yes, provided both partners are committed to moving ahead together. Learning how to work together, and spotting early signs of trouble can help.

Watch for Signs

Look out for signs that your spouse’s financial management is suspect. For example, are they unwilling to discuss financial issues? Have you noticed a sudden change in your spouse’s spending? Do you suspect your spouse is hiding information about their finances or lying about money?

If you cannot ask questions and get an honest answer about your marital finances, there is a problem to address.

Keep Tabs on Your Finances

Keeping an eye on your finances will help you recognize problems and tackle them immediately. Do you notice that your spouse isn’t contributing to your retirement account anymore? Are you falling behind on bills and struggling to catch up? These are signals that something has changed.

Get Involved

If one spouse has been holding the purse strings, it’s probably time for that to change. A marriage is an equal partnership, and both partners should play a role in managing the finances. It’s not fair for one partner to bear all the financial responsibility and decision-making. Getting involved is also a good way to stay informed about your shared finances.

If financial infidelity has occurred, you and your partner have options. You might work it out between the two of you, or you might consult a couples counselor, try financial planning, or see a financial therapist (which combines interpersonal and money advice).

Tips for Preventing Financial Infidelity

There are steps you can take to help avoid financial infidelity in a marriage and repair missteps. A good place to start is for both partners to have a clear picture of each other’s financial position and their spending habits from the outset. But it’s never too late to sit down (with or without a financial advisor) and develop a plan for managing finances and building wealth. Here, some tactics to try:

Have Frequent Meetings

Agree to meet with your spouse regularly to discuss finances. It could be weekly at first as you get into a rhythm, sort out bank accounts and bills, develop a plan and commit to money goals, and create a budget. But once you are on sound footing with a system, the meetings could be less frequent, perhaps monthly.

Share Responsibilities of Finances

Use the meetings to hold each other accountable. Discuss how decisions should be made on purchases. How are you going to save toward retirement? Decide who will be responsible for what when it comes to the finances, but ensure that both of you are involved.

Communicate All Financials

Review everything — mortgage or rent payments, joint bank accounts, individual bank accounts, credit card payments, car loans, insurance, savings and investments, liens, and credit scores. If both of you have a clear picture of your financial situation, it’s easier to come up with ideas for cutting costs or making financial decisions.

Create a Joint Budget

Try budgeting as a couple rather than having two separate budgets. Once you have a basic spending and saving plan in place, do your best to stick to it — and be honest when you don’t. A household budget is unlikely to do its job if members of the household overspend or hide information. If spouses can start working together toward a common goal, trust can be established or, after an instance of financial infidelity, rebuilt.

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Address Any Issues

As the two of you go over the finances, issues are bound to arise. And money can be a very charged topic. Do your best to discuss things calmly. If one person gets defensive, consider taking a break and resuming the meeting at a later time. If you are guilty of financial infidelity, admit it, apologize, and use this as an opportunity to get back on track.

Can a marriage survive financial infidelity? Yes, it can. But each spouse must be open to working through the problem, repairing the damage, adopting a forgiving attitude, and moving forward with transparency and trust.

The Takeaway

Financial matters can be a leading cause of divorce. While partners do have the right and the need for some privacy, financial infidelity is a serious issue. If one partner is hiding money, debt, or income information from the other, it can feel like betrayal and can negatively impact both spouse’s financial futures.

Financial infidelity does not, however, have to mark the end of a marriage. It can be the start of a stronger commitment to work together toward achieving your shared financial goals.

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FAQ

Can marriages survive financial infidelity?

A marriage can survive financial infidelity if both partners are committed to rebuilding the trust that has been lost. This requires accepting responsibility. Going forward, both partners need to develop a plan to communicate openly and regularly about finances and to work toward mutual goals. Lastly, both should play a part in managing finances.

Is financial infidelity a leading cause of divorce?

Money is often cited as one of the leading causes of stress in a marriage and one that can lead to divorce. Money touches every aspect of our lives and dictates how we live, so it is an extremely sensitive and personal topic, which can trigger major issues in a relationship.

Is financial infidelity the same as cheating?

Financial infidelity can have the same impact as an affair; both destroy trust in a relationship. Whether one or the other is worse depends on your point of view. Both can be overcome, and trust can be rebuilt with commitment and the right approach.

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