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Moving can fire up a rollercoaster of emotions. The early rush of excitement may give way to stress over the looming to-do list of all that needs to happen before the big move.

Like any life transition, moving requires a lot of preparation. Thankfully, there’s no shortage of ways to help streamline the process.

Below are some tips that could make moving more efficient, including a guide to common costs to prepare for.

How to Streamline a Move

Here are a few helpful suggestions whether you’re easing into a new townhouse, apartment, condo, or home.

Get Rid of Unwanted Items

Moving is a chance to let go of items that have gone unused for months or years.

In addition to being able to get rid of unwanted “stuff,” decluttering can help you cut back on moving expenses. With fewer things to move from point A to point B, there’s less need for packing materials or an extra large moving truck. It may even help make the move speedier and more cost-effective, since there’s less stuff to carry (or pay someone else to carry). What’s more, reducing how much you have can also help ensure your new place won’t feel overstuffed.

Prepare Early

As you declutter, it can be useful to identify boxes and packing materials needed during the move, such as packing tape, markers, labels, scissors, newspaper, and bubble wrap. Why spend money on new cardboard boxes when there are likely unused boxes already lying around your home or at friends’ places? A visit to local recycling drop-off points may be in order, as it’s possible they’ll have free cardboard boxes available there, too.

Consider starting off your packing a few weeks ahead of time, with non-essential items like out-of-season clothes or kitchenware that’s rarely used. And consider taking photos of all valuable items as you go. This way, if anything breaks or movers damage something during the move, it will be easier to file a claim and receive reimbursement for it.

Tie Up Loose Ends

Moving to a new area? Consider making a list of everyone you’ll want to contact once you’re settled in your new place.This may include:

•   Friends and family members

•   U.S. Post Office

•   Employers

•   Credit card companies and other financial institutions

•   Service providers (e.g., water bill or internet)

If you’re hoping to keep utilities or services with a specific provider, it may help to call ahead of time to verify if those services are offered in the area you’re moving to and if the service can be transferred to your new address on or after move-in day.

Keep in mind if you’re starting a new service with a new company, you may need to notify them weeks in advance so they have enough time to schedule a technician’s visit or mail out the necessary equipment.

If you’re leaving the region, you’ll also want to make a note to cancel recurring memberships at local-only businesses, such as gyms and fitness centers.

Organize Moving Documents

From leases to service contracts to quotes from moving companies, there’s a lot of paperwork to manage with a move. It can help to keep all important documents organized in a single folder (and be sure to print out a copy of any documents sent to you electronically). Some paperwork to include in the moving folder could be:

•   Old leasing agreements

•   A new signed lease (if renting again)

•   Invoices from professional movers

•   Receipts associated with the move

The paperwork may even come in handy after you move. Members of the U.S. Armed Services may be able to deduct moving expenses, for example. And some companies will reimburse employees who are moving to accept a new job for common moving expenses. Talk to your human resources department to find out if you qualify and which receipts or invoices will be required for documentation.

Prepare a Tip for the Movers

For those who plan to hire professional movers, setting aside cash in an envelope could help when it comes time to tip. Often, people tip their movers if they’re happy with the job they completed. Taking out cash the day before a move can simplify tipping, as it’s one less thing to think about during moving day.

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Common Moving Expenses

When budgeting for a move, it can be useful to plan for expenses that can add up quickly.

Understanding Professional Moving Costs

If you’re moving yourself, plan on paying an average of $60 per day to rent the truck, and budget more for mileage, gas, tolls, and other expenses.

If you’re hiring professionals for the job, you can expect to pay quite a bit more. An in-town move that uses a team of two movers could cost an average of $80 to $100 per hour, according to Consumer Affairs. Moving to another state? Be prepared to spend upwards of $5,000 or more, depending on how far you’re going and the amount of stuff you’re hauling.

You may also want to consider whether to budget for packing services, which typically runs anywhere from $350 to $600, and moving insurance, which protects you in case your items are lost or damaged during the move.

If you’re looking to save a little money — and your schedule is flexible — you may want to look into moving during the middle of the week or middle of the month, when demand tends to be lower.

Estimating Transportation Costs

In addition to budgeting for the cost of moving your things, it’s good to calculate the expense of transporting yourself to your new home. Be sure to factor in expenses such as flights, lodging, food, rental car, and gas.

Other Supplies and Expenses

You might already be loading up on bubble wrap, packing tape, boxes, and labels. But there may be other moving-day essentials to consider.

1.    Cleaning supplies: Many landlords expect outgoing tenants to leave a property just as they found it: clean and empty. Be sure you have a mop, broom, cleaners, and sponges on hand.

2.    Repairs and renovations: Whether you’re patching holes in your old place or making upgrades in your new home, consider budgeting for any renovations or repairs.

3.    Furniture and other home items: You may find that when you move into your new space, you need to buy some new furniture. You may want to set aside a little extra for these purchases.

4.    New license and vehicle registration: If you’re moving across the country, you may need to calculate the cost of getting a new driver’s license and registration in a different state. Fees for getting a new license and vehicle registration vary by state.

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The Takeaway

Whether you’re relocating across town or across the country, moving can be exciting. But it can also be stressful and expensive. To help streamline the process, you can remove and donate any unwanted items, assemble your supplies and the movers’ tip ahead of time, organize all the moving documents in one place, and alert family, friends, employers, and creditors of your new address.

It also helps to prepare your budget. A DIY move is often the most affordable option — on average, it costs around $50 per day to rent a truck, which does not include mileage, gas, tolls, and other expenses. A professional mover costs substantially more. An in-town move that uses a two-person team may cost around $80 to $100 per hour, but that price could climb into the thousands for an interstate move.

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FAQ

How long before you move should you start packing?

A good rule of thumb is to start decluttering and getting rid of unwanted items around 6 to 8 weeks before your move-out date. Two to three weeks before you move, you’ll want to start packing up your belongings.

Which room should I pack first when moving?

In general, it’s a smart idea to pack your attic, basement, garage, and other storage spaces in your home first. Then, focus your efforts on lesser-used rooms, such as a guest bedroom or dining room. Finally, as your moving date nears, start packing up the rooms you use more frequently, such as your bedroom, kitchen, and bathroom.

What is the hardest room to pack when moving out?

In many cases, movers find that the kitchen and dining room are the most challenging spaces to pack up. That’s because they usually contain an assortment of fragile pieces — think glasses, dishes, and cookware — that require careful wrapping and handling.

About the author

Ashley Kilroy

Ashley Kilroy is a seasoned personal finance writer with 15 years of experience simplifying complex concepts for individuals seeking financial security. Her expertise has shined through in well-known publications like Rolling Stone, Forbes, SmartAsset, and Money Talks News. Read full bio.

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Divorce can be emotionally and financially challenging, and one of the biggest concerns people have is how to finance the process. From filing and attorney fees to establishing separate households, the costs can quickly add up.

Knowing how to pay for divorce is particularly tricky because most people don’t necessarily plan for a divorce and, as result, likely don’t have a special bank account where they’ve been saving up for a divorce. This can leave you feeling stuck in a tight corner.

For anyone scratching their head and wondering how to pay for a divorce, we have some answers. Here’s a look at how you can cover the cost of divorce while still keeping an eye on your long-term (post-divorce) financial health.

How Much Does Divorce Cost?

We’ll start with the crummy news: Getting a divorce, already a difficult experience, is also expensive. While the cost varies depending on where you live and the complexity of the divorce, the average cost of a divorce in the U.S ranges between $15,000 and $20,000. That said, a simple DIY divorce could run a lot less (as little as $200). A complicated divorce (with disagreements around child custody or dividing up property), on the other hand, could run well over $100,000. Gulp.

Factors that can affect the cost of a divorce include:

•   The state where the divorce takes place

•   Whether the couple lives in an urban or rural area

•   Whether it is contested or uncontested

•   Whether or not you hire professional legal help

•   The complexity of the couple’s finances

•   Whether or not there are child custody issues involved

How Do I Pay for My Divorce?

Ideally, every individual, couple, and family would have some emergency money set aside to cover unforeseen events. While many aren’t thinking the money would be for a divorce, that could qualify as an unexpected expense.

If you don’t have much, or any, rainy day savings, here are some steps that can help you manage the cost of your divorce.

•   Create a budget. A good place to start is to assess your financial situation and create a realistic budget for your divorce. Take a look at your income, expenses, and any debts you may have. This will help you determine how much you can allocate towards your divorce costs, find areas where you may be able to cut costs, and develop a strategy to finance your divorce.

•   Negotiate with your spouse. If possible, see if you can reach an amicable agreement with your spouse regarding the division of assets and paying expenses. This can help reduce legal fees and minimize the overall cost of the divorce process.

•   Explore mediation. Mediation is a cost-effective alternative to traditional divorce litigation. A neutral mediator helps facilitate discussions between you and your spouse, allowing you to work together to reach mutually agreeable solutions. Mediation can often be less expensive and less time-consuming than going to court.

Borrow From Friends and Family

If you need some financial assistance to cover the costs of your divorce, reaching out to friends and family is one option to consider. Loved ones who understand your situation may be willing to lend you money to help you through this challenging time.

You’ll want to approach borrowing from friends and family with caution, however. You want to be sure that you’ll be able to pay the money back and clearly communicate that you intend to repay the money. Also be sure to discuss any expectations or terms, and ensure that the arrangement is legally documented to avoid misunderstandings or strain on personal relationships.

Recommended: Am I Responsible for My Spouse’s Debt?

Is a Personal Loan a Good Option to Pay for Divorce?

Another option to finance your divorce is to consider a personal loan.

Personal loans are often unsecured (meaning you don’t have to put up an asset as collateral) and can be used for a variety of purposes, including legal costs. They can provide you with the necessary funds to cover divorce-related expenses while allowing you to make manageable monthly payments over a fixed period, typically three to five years.

If you have good to excellent credit, a personal loan can be a better choice than using a credit card for your divorce costs, since rates are typically lower. A personal loan may also allow you to borrow a larger amount than your current credit card limit allows. Personal loans also come with fixed monthly payments, which can be easier to budget for.

Before applying for a personal loan for your divorce however, you’ll want to consider the annual percentage rates (APRs) and repayment terms offered by different lenders. Be sure to carefully assess your ability to repay the loan to avoid adding further financial stress during and after the divorce process.

Putting Your Financial Health First

While it’s crucial to address the immediate financial challenges of a divorce, it’s equally important to prioritize your long-term financial health. Here are some tips to help you navigate this process.

•   Protect your credit. Divorce can have a significant impact on your credit score. To minimize the impact, you’ll want to be sure to close joint accounts and establish individual accounts. Be sure to also monitor your credit report regularly to ensure accuracy and address any issues promptly.

•   Update legal and financial documents. It’s a wise idea to review and update your will, insurance policies, retirement accounts, and other legal and financial documents to reflect your new circumstances. You’ll also want to update beneficiaries and ensure your assets are distributed according to your wishes.

•   Focus on rebuilding. After the divorce, take steps to rebuild your financial stability. Set financial goals, create a savings plan, and consider ways to increase your income or reduce expenses. Building a solid financial foundation will help you regain control of your life and prepare for the future.

Recommended: Budgeting Tips for Life After Divorce

The Takeaway

Financing a divorce can be a challenging task, but with careful planning and consideration, it is possible to navigate this process successfully. Key steps include assessing your financial situation, exploring various options such as negotiation and mediation, and, if needed, borrowing from friends and family or getting a personal loan to help cover the costs of the divorce.

Think twice before turning to high-interest credit cards. Consider a SoFi personal loan instead. SoFi offers competitive fixed rates and same-day funding. See your rate in minutes.

FAQ

How are finances split in a divorce?

Before a divorce can be finalized, couples will need to draft a legal document that outlines how they’ll split their assets. Once a judge determines the agreement fair and legal, it becomes part of the divorce settlement.

Do I have to pay my spouse’s credit card debt in divorce?

In general, you’re responsible for any credit card debt that’s in your name or for joint credit card debt. But if you live in a community property state, you may also be on the hook for a portion of your spouse’s credit card debt, as long as the debt was incurred during your marriage.

How can I prepare my finances for divorce?

There are steps you can take to prepare your finances before the paperwork is filed. One helpful strategy is to keep track of your income and household expenses, such as food, child care, home repairs, and housing. It’s also a good idea to estimate future expenses, such as your child’s school tuition. This information will come in handy as you create a post-divorce budget, but it can also help the judge determine how to split your combined assets and debts.

About the author

Julia Califano

Julia Califano is an award-winning journalist who covers banking, small business, personal loans, student loans, and other money issues for SoFi. She has over 20 years of experience writing about personal finance and lifestyle topics. Read full bio.

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In the fall of 2024, more than 19 million students attended American colleges and universities.

As exciting as this phase of life can be, experiencing some level of homesickness during the home-to-college transition is common. As a parent, you may feel a sense of responsibility when it comes to helping your now-adult child get over their homesickness. And there could be a reason for concern, since studies have shown that emotional or mental distress in college students can impact academic performance.

Fortunately, there are a number of ways parents can help their child adjust to being away from home (perhaps for the first time) and get the most out of their college experience. Read on to learn some simple ways you can help your child feel less homesick at college.

Strategies to Help Your Child Cope with Homesickness

Watching your child experience homesickness from afar can be challenging. It may be tempting to rush to the rescue, but it is also important that your child find their footing on campus. These tips and ideas may be helpful as you support your child as they navigate homesickness and life on-campus.

Acknowledging the Situation

It can be comforting to know that you’re not the only one struggling with a given situation. As a parent, it might be helpful to share with your child how common homesickness is among first-year students. Providing comfort and reassurance that they are not alone and that in time, their feelings of homesickness will pass, can go a long way.

Keeping In Touch

As you and your child adjust to your new dynamic, you may need to find new ways to keep in touch. Keep in mind that while your child is adjusting to on-campus life, you don’t want to be overbearing. Try setting up a weekly video chat or sending over fun updates from home in a text message. Remember to give your child the space they need to find their footing at school.

Recommended: College Planning Guide for Parents

Sending a Care Package

When packing for college, adding a few items that bring the comfort of home could be helpful if your child starts feeling tinges of homesickness. Things like a favorite book, a blanket, or a stuffed animal could be just the thing when homesickness creeps in.

Sending over a care package with some of their favorite cookies, candies, or snacks and a photo of a fun memory can provide a touch of home, too.

Encouraging Your Child to Get Help if They Need It

If your homesick college student seems like they may benefit from professional help, you might encourage them to visit their campus counseling center. Many colleges also offer mental health services and counseling on campus, often at little to no cost.

If there are fees involved, they may be covered (at least partially) by health insurance. If your child is no longer on a family medical plan, it’s likely you’ve enrolled them in a college health insurance plan, which is often rolled into costs of tuition, room, and board.


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Helping Your Child Find a New Familiar

It’s probably not the best idea for parents to visit their child every weekend — though it may be hard to control yourself if your child’s university is easily accessible. As lovely as it is that you’re a familiar face, it might be more helpful for your child to find a new familiar.

Instead, you might encourage your child to find ways to make their not-yet-so-familiar home feel more known. If your college student loves coffee, they might want to find a local shop they can visit frequently — turning it into their own personal hang-out spot.

If they’re into museums, discovering the best ones nearby could help them feel more grounded in their new environment.

Getting Involved on Campus

When someone is feeling down, it can be tempting to stay indoors and wallow in those feelings. Getting involved on campus can help students build community and connect with their peers. Colleges often have many clubs and extracurriculars that can help students find like-minded individuals.

If committing to a club feels like too much, your child might connect with peers in a more casual way, from making friends in class or meeting new people during a dorm hall function.

Developing Healthy Routines

Physical health and mental health go hand in hand, so if your homesick college student is making less-than-healthy choices during this tough transition period, you might encourage them to make some changes in their routine.

This might look like starting their day with a walk to the campus coffee shop or finding a weekly exercise class. Creating a schedule and finding new, healthy routines can give your student something to look forward to.

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Developing a Plan to Pay for College

In addition to homesickness, paying for college can be an added layer of stress for both parents and students. If your child is worried about money or constantly working at a job to help cover costs (rather than acclimating to college), you might want to look into additional sources of funding, such as scholarships and grants and/or student loans.

It’s important to fill out the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) every year, since this is required for a student or parent to qualify for federal funding.

For some students, federal student loans and other sources of aid may be enough to fund their college education. If it’s not, parents also have the option of taking out loans, such as the Direct PLUS Loan or a private student loan.

When comparing federal vs. private student loans, keep in mind that private student loans aren’t required to offer the same borrower protections, like deferment options or income-driven repayment plans, as federal student loans. For this reason, you generally want to look at private student loans only after you’ve exhausted federal loan and aid options.


💡 Quick Tip: Parents and sponsors with strong credit and income may find much lower rates on no-fee private parent student loans than federal parent PLUS loans. Federal PLUS loans also come with an origination fee.

The Takeaway

The transition to college life can be stressful for both students and their parents. Being in an unfamiliar environment, while trying to balance classes and making new friends can lead to feelings of apprehension, anxiety, and homesickness. As a parent, providing support from a distance can include things like sending a care package, checking in with a video call once a week, and encouraging your child to get involved in extracurricular activities.

Hopefully, in time, your child will settle into their life on campus — finding a new normal. If money worries are adding to your child’s (or your own) college stress, it can also be a good idea to explore funding options you or they might qualify for. Once the financial side of college is taken care of, your child will be free to focus solely on assimilating into campus life and fully embracing this exciting time in their life.

If you’ve exhausted all federal student aid options, no-fee private student loans from SoFi can help you pay for school. The online application process is easy, and you can see rates and terms in just minutes. Repayment plans are flexible, so you can find an option that works for your financial plan and budget.

FAQ

How common is homesickness during college?

Homesickness is incredibly common in college students, with 94% experiencing it in the first 10 weeks. Homesickness is an emotional response to being in a new environment and can affect a student’s academic performance and overall well-being.

How can parents support their homesick college student from afar?

Parents can support their child by acknowledging that homesickness is normal, maintaining regular but nonintrusive communication, sending care packages with familiar items, and encouraging their child to seek campus resources if needed.

What strategies can help students adjust to college life and alleviate homesickness?

Encouraging students to get involved in campus activities, establish healthy routines, and find local spots that bring comfort can help them build a sense of belonging and reduce feelings of homesickness.

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