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Trying to sleep on an overnight flight can feel like a mission impossible, what with the noise, cramped quarters, uncomfortable seats, plus all those meal and beverage service interruptions. Lack of sleep on an all-night flight can leave you feeling drowsy, irritable, and lethargic upon arrival at your destination, which is not the way you want to start your trip.

Despite the inherent obstacles, you shouldn’t resign yourself to spending a long flight wide awake. There are hacks that can help you get some quality slumber on an overnight flight. Read on to learn:

•   The importance of getting sleep on an overnight flight

•   How to sleep well by choosing the right flight and seat

•   What you can do to prepare ahead of your flight

•   Things you can do to wind down and relax on your flight

Why It’s Important to Get Sleep on an Overnight Flight

When you get adequate sleep during the night, your brain and body rest and recover, allowing you to feel energized the next day. Without enough shut-eye, you’ll likely feel more physically, emotionally, and mentally tired.

In addition, lack of sleep on an overnight flight can contribute to jet lag, which typically happens when an individual travels east or west across three or more time zones.

•   Besides fatigue, symptoms of jet lag can include trouble processing information clearly, difficulty coping with change, having slower reaction times, and experiencing problems with balance and coordination.

•   Jet lag can impair your alertness, which can be dangerous if, for instance, you’re renting a car and will be driving right after your flight. It can also make you more vulnerable to pickpockets and scammers.

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Choosing the Best Flight and Seat

The timing of your flights and where you sit on the plane can play a key role in how well you sleep overnight. Certain departure times sync better with your body clock to make sleep come on a little easier. And some seats and areas of the plane work better for sleeping.

Here, consider these suggestions for when to take off and how to pick the prime seat for snoozing.

Timing Your Flight for Optimal Sleep

Our bodies have an internal clock, or “circadian rhythm,” that tells us when it’s time to sleep and wake up. Taking an overnight flight can disrupt your body’s natural cycle of wakefulness and sleep. For example, if you’re flying from New York City to Paris, which is six hours ahead, you’ll land when it’s already morning, but your body is telling you it’s still nighttime. Two points to keep in mind:

•   When it comes to taking an overnight flight, you’re working with your natural body clock instead of fighting against it. So go ahead and book that 9am vs. 4pm flight. At some point, you’re bound to get sleepy around your usual bedtime. Overnight flights can be better if you’re traveling with babies and children, since the flight coincides with their bedtime too.

•   You can also get more uninterrupted sleep by choosing a direct flight. Yes, it can be pricier, but having to switch flights in the middle of the night results in broken sleep, plus layovers can further mess up your internal clock.

Picking A Seat

Many airlines offer first class and business class red-eye passengers the most sleep-focused perks, such as extra leg room, more privacy, and seats that convert into beds. However, buying seats in these sections can be very expensive — thousands of dollars more than a seat in coach. If you don’t have that much money socked away in your travel fund, consider the following:

•   Do you have unused miles you’ve accrued by using an airline credit card? Now might be the time to cash in and use them for a first or business class seat or upgrade.

•   Consider if it’s worthwhile to charge an expensive and more comfortable seat and then have the credit card reward points to use as you see fit. Or you might opt for cash back.

•   If you purchase your ticket with a travel credit card or cash back rewards credit card, you might earn miles that you can use on future travel, which can help offset the expense.

If you choose to fly coach, there are ways to snagging the best type of seat in which you can doze off. Some tips:

•   Window seats tend to be best for sleeping. You can rest your head against the window or wall, and don’t have to deal with passengers waking you up as they climb over you to move around the cabin. Window seats also provide the most privacy and give you control of the window shade. Book early, as window seats are popular and tend to disappear quickly.

•   Your next choice might be to opt for an aisle, which can give you more room to stretch your legs. Beware of falling asleep that way, though; you’ll likely be woken up by flight attendants or fellow passengers who need to get by you.

•   Seats closer to the front of the plane are often quieter and make for a smoother ride. Sitting in the back of the plane doesn’t bode well for sleeping, especially if you’re in the last row in a seat with limited to no recline.

•   Another reason the rear of an aircraft is best avoided: It’s usually the location for the restroom, which can be noisy and have frequent passenger traffic.

•   Steer clear of a seat near the galley areas where flight attendants may be moving around at all hours.
Once you’re safely in the air and the seatbelt sign is turned off, look around to see if there are any free rows where three empty seats could give you the opportunity to lie down. Check in with the flight attendants to make sure it’s allowed and the seats don’t belong to anyone else.

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How to Prepare

Here’s some advice to help you fall and stay asleep on a long-haul overnight flight.

•   Adjust your sleep schedule before you leave. Begin to reset your body clock several days prior to your voyage. The Mayo Clinic suggests if you’re traveling east, go to bed one hour earlier each night for a few days before your trip. When heading west, hit the hay one hour later than usual for a couple of days.

•   Eat lightly and clean. Eating spicy, fatty, fried, or high-carb foods before the flight can leave you feeling too full and uncomfortable to sleep.

•   Make sure your seatbelt is visible. This will avoid sleep interruptions by flight attendants who may need passengers to put on their seatbelts during the flight. If you’re covering yourself with a blanket, fasten your seatbelt over it so there’s no need for flight staff to rouse you.

•   Skip caffeine and alcohol. Caffeinated and alcoholic beverages can interrupt sleep and dehydrate you. Instead, keep yourself hydrated by drinking H2O or herbal tea , such as chamomile, valerian root, or passionflower. Research has shown these can help you feel sleepy and improve sleep quality. (You might bring your own teabags and ask the flight attendants for hot water.)

•   Get some exercise that day. Physical activity can help improve sleep quality. Even walking around the airport before your flight counts.

•   Dress in comfortable layers. You never know what the cabin temperature might be, so it’s a good idea to layer up in case you get too hot or cold. Wearing cozy lounge-wear, versus skinny jeans, will up your comfort level so you can sleep better.

•   Take a sleep aid. Many people find taking a prescription or over-the-counter sleeping medication helps them sleep on a plane. One caveat: Both nonprescription and prescription sleeping pills can cause daytime grogginess. A safer option? Try taking melatonin supplements, a synthetic version of the natural hormone your body makes to produce sleepiness .

•   Use your tray table as a head rest. Some people find leaning over and resting their head on their tray table with a pillow makes it easier to get some sleep. This can be especially helpful if you’re in a middle or an aisle seat.

What to Bring for an Overnight Flight

Some airlines may give you a complimentary kit with toiletries and other items to make your night flight more comfortable. You might, however, want to put together your own in case you don’t get one or the airline’s kit doesn’t have everything you might need. Here are some suggested sleep-better items to pack in your carry-on:

•   Neck or travel pillow

•   Noise-canceling headphones or ear plugs

•   Eye mask

•   Cozy warm socks and slipon shoes

•   Blanket or wrap

•   Snacks in case you sleep through meal service or get hungry in between

When and How to Wind Down in the Air

Your pre-bed routine doesn’t have to fall to the wayside just because you’re flying. There are some things you can do during your journey to relax and encourage sleepiness:

•   Listen to calming music or a podcast

•   Engage in a relaxing activity such as reading a book, knitting, or breaking out a mini deck of cards to play Solitaire.

•   Avoid looking at screens and skip the inflight entertainment since exposure to blue light can interfere with sleep.

•   Don’t stress if sleep doesn’t happen. It can be difficult to sleep when you can’t get comfortable. Anxiety around traveling with pets and/or small children or just flying in general, can prevent you from relaxing. Instead, try to at least rest your eyes and do some deep breathing.

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The Takeaway

No doubt about it, trying to snooze on an overnight flight can be downright challenging. Lack of sleep on a redeye can result in physical and mental exhaustion, which isn’t the best way to kick off your travels. Fortunately, by booking certain seats and following a few steps, you can likely get the in-flight rest you need to help make you feel alert and ready to roll once you touch down.

Whether you want to travel more or get a better ROI for your travel dollar, SoFi can help. SoFi Travel is a new service exclusively for SoFi members that lets you budget, plan, and book your next trip in a convenient one-stop shop. SoFi takes the guessing game out of how much you can afford for that honeymoon, family vacation, or quick getaway — and we help you save too.

FAQ

Should I pull an all-nighter to sleep on a plane?

No. Getting on a night flight already sleep-deprived doesn’t guarantee you’re going to sleep well on the plane. It’s also counterproductive. If you haven’t slept the night before, you’ll most likely be struggling to stay awake when you need to get things done on your travel day.

How many hours should you wake up before you land?

Plan to set your alarm so you can wake up somewhere between 45 minutes to an hour before landing. Since waking up on a plane can be disorienting, it’s important to have some time to become fully alert before you disembark.

Is jet lag easier flying east or west?

It’s easier to deal with jet lag when you’re flying west than east. When you fly east, you “lose” time as opposed to flying west when you “gain” time. It’s believed your body can adapt more quickly to staying up late than going to sleep earlier.

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When you use your SoFi Credit Card to make a purchase on the SoFi Travel Portal, you will earn a number of SoFi Member Rewards points equal to 3% of the total amount you spend on the SoFi Travel Portal. Members can save up to 10% or more on eligible bookings.

Dogs are such an integral part of many families that we humans hate to go on vacation without them. Today, 45% of American households include a canine, and the dog population is inching ever closer to 90 million.

There are many places you can take your good boy on your travels, but it requires research and preparation to pull off a successful dog-friendly vacation. Here, we present valuable tips and inspiration, including:

•   Best dog-friendly vacation spots

•   Dog-friendly road trip ideas

•   Apps for pet-friendly vacations

•   What to bring on a dog-friendly vacation

Guidelines for Traveling with Your Dog

Before traveling with your pet, you should research the rules for any form of transportation that you may be taking: planes, trains, buses, rental cars, and boats. You should also look into which hotels and attractions allow dogs.

Dogs on a Plane

Each airline has its own policy regarding bringing your dog on the plane, such as:

•   Many airlines allow dogs only under a certain size. Some allow you to bring your dog into the cabin and put them in a carrier under the seat in front of you, while others may want you to have your dog in the cargo compartment. Alaska, Southwest, and Frontier are regarded as some of the most pet-friendly airlines, but others allow pets as well.

•   Many airlines charge fees for traveling with your pet. For dogs traveling in-cabin, the fee can typically range from about $50 to $250 for a one-way trip. If your dog is flying in a pressurized, temperature-controlled cargo compartment in a carrier, the cost is usually based on the size and weight of your dog plus their crate. If you are flying within the U.S., this can cost up to several hundred dollars for a 75-pound dog. Keep this in mind because it can mean you need to plunk more cash into where you keep your travel fund.

•   Some airlines do not allow dogs at all, even if you have elite status in their frequent flier program or have one of their airline credit cards. You should always check with your airline before bringing your pet.

Trains and Buses

Rules regarding bringing pets on trains or buses will vary. Amtrak allows dogs and cats up to 20 pounds (combined weight of pet and carrier) on train rides that are up to seven hours. Dogs are allowed only on select routes, and the pet fees vary by route.

Car Safety

When traveling by car with your dog, make sure that they are safe inside your vehicle. If you can, get a car seat or buckle attachment for your dog. If you are renting a car on your trip, it’s wise to bring a buckle attachment with you.

Boats and Cruises

Most cruises do not allow dogs, except for service dogs. The only cruise line with dedicated pet facilities is the Cunard Line. They allow dogs on their ship Queen Mary 2, which has 24 kennels, space for the dogs to play, and a dedicated owner’s lounge on board.

Hotels

Some hotel brands are known to be more pet-friendly than others. When a hotel says that it is “pet-friendly,” it likely means that they allow pets in the rooms. Some points to consider:

•   Some hotels will charge a pet fee, require a pet deposit, or allow pets only under a certain size.

•   Pet-friendly hotels include IHG (Kimpton), Marriott, Hilton, Hyatt, Wyndham, and Best Western. However, pet policies will vary based on property. There are also pet-friendly boutique hotels.

•   To find lodging that welcomes your doggo with open arms, you can search sites like TripAdvisor or apps like Bring Fido and BarkHappy.

•   Some hotels go above and beyond in allowing pets and providing extra amenities like dog treats or toys upon check-in.

•   If you are wondering how to save money on hotels with a pet, some more affordable forms of lodging also allow pets, and some don’t even charge a pet fee. At Red Roof Inn, pets under a certain weight limit can stay for free. Motel 6 also allows pets, and doesn’t charge a fee for well-behaved pets.

•   Some state and local municipalities have different rules about pets in hotels, which may override the hotel’s policies. Be sure to check with the specific hotel before bringing your pet with you.

Sights

When planning out what you want to do on vacation with your dog, be sure to research which attractions allow dogs. You should be able to find out this information on the destination’s website or by calling them directly. Many attractions may allow service dogs only.

A bit of research can help save you time and spare you disappointment. You are more likely to find dog-friendly attractions that are outdoors, though not all outdoor attractions allow dogs. There are plenty of dog-free parks, for instance, so take a few minutes to search for information as you look for the best dog-friendly travel spots.

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What to Bring

When packing for your vacation with your dog, you should think about what your dog needs on a daily basis at home. This could include things like:

•   Food

•   Food and water dishes

•   Any medications

•   Toys and any comfort objects

•   Clothes (if your pooch wears them)

•   Treats

•   Poop bags

•   A bed or crate

Bring plenty of food and dog-waste bags in case your dog goes through more than normal due to the stress of traveling.

Dog-Friendly Places to Go

There are an endless array of places you can go for a dog-friendly vacay. Some of the best dog-friendly spots include:

•   Cities. Some are more dog-friendly than others. Look for cities with lots of outdoor spaces. Some ideas for dog-friendly places to go include Austin, TX; Albuquerque, NM; Asheville, NC; Seattle (you can visit the Voff Barn and Brew, a dog-friendly bar), and Huntington Beach, CA.

•   Beaches. If you are planning summer travel and have a pup that loves sand and surf, a getaway by the shore can be heavenly, combining beautiful scenery and staying active.

•   Natural Paradises. If you and your furbaby like to hike, check out locations like Lake Placid, NY, or Sedona, AZ, where you can spend time exploring together. You might also go on a dog-friendly road trip (whether you are traveling solo or with friends and family) and stay at a couple of pet-friendly campsites with your dog.

•   Resorts. If you want to relax, a dog-friendly resort could be just the thing. Some locations specialize in welcoming pets and offering amenities that will have you and your doggo feeling totally pampered. At Inn by the Sea in Cape Elizabeth, ME, there’s dog-friendly dining and all kinds of treats for you and your pooch (like at turndown time) at no extra fee. Dog-sitting and dog-walking services are also available if you need some just-me time. (If you pick a resort that does charge a fee, you might check if you have credit card cash back on your credit card rewards to help cover the extra expense.)

Helpful Apps

There are several apps that can be useful if you are taking a trip with your dog.

•   Bring Fido. Find a pet-friendly hotel, dog park, beach, or other attraction while on vacation, anywhere in the world.

•   BarkHappy. Find dog-friendly restaurants, hotels, parks, and other attractions based on your current location. You can even find events and other nearby dogs for your boy to socialize with.

•   Pet First Aid. Get information in case of an emergency medical situation with your pet, as well as first aid, health issues, and dog CPR. You can also store your pet’s health info (like when they got their shots) in the app so you have it handy.

•   Rover. If you need a pet sitter or dog walker while you are on a trip with your pet, Rover may be helpful. You can find a sitter or walker that has been through a background check from Rover. You can then pay the pet sitter or dog walker directly through the app. You’ll get photo updates while you are away from your dog.

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How to Prepare Your Dog for Travel

Before traveling with your dog, you should make sure you get him prepared and acclimated:

•   If your pet will be traveling with some kind of restraint in a car or in a crate/carrier on a plane, take time to expose them to it and get them comfortable with it.

•   Make sure your dog has up-to-date tags or that your microchip info is current.

•   Always keep a pet travel bag nearby with essentials (food, water, any meds, poo bags).

•   Consider having a vet check prior to travel, especially if flights are involved and/or your dog has a medical condition.

The Takeaway

Traveling with your dog can be a fun bonding experience for both of you. Be sure to research transportation and hotel policies ahead of time so you know where your dog is allowed. Whether you go to a city, get back to nature, or visit a resort, spending time with your pet can make a good getaway even better.

Whether you want to travel more or get a better ROI for your travel dollar, SoFi can help. SoFi Travel is a new service exclusively for SoFi members that lets you budget, plan, and book your next trip in a convenient one-stop shop. SoFi takes the guessing game out of how much you can afford for that honeymoon, family vacation, or quick getaway — and we help you save too.

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¹See Rewards Details at SoFi.com/card/rewards.

**Terms, and conditions apply: This SoFi member benefit is provided by Expedia, not by SoFi or its affiliates. SoFi may be compensated by the benefit provider. Offers are subject to change and may have restrictions, please review the benefit provider's terms: Travel Services Terms & Conditions.
The SoFi Travel Portal is operated by Expedia. To learn more about Expedia, click https://www.expediagroup.com/home/default.aspx.

When you use your SoFi Credit Card to make a purchase on the SoFi Travel Portal, you will earn a number of SoFi Member Rewards points equal to 3% of the total amount you spend on the SoFi Travel Portal. Members can save up to 10% or more on eligible bookings.

You have likely heard the term “all-inclusive resort” when researching vacation ideas and know that some of the most popular ones are located in the Caribbean. And for good reason: Stunning turquoise water, miles of sandy beaches, brilliant sunshine, and loads of fresh-caught fish are big draws.

But are all-inclusives all they’re cracked up to be? Some people prefer a more authentic experience when traveling, and more upscale cuisine. Pools, parties, and group activities can be fun in moderation, but sometimes you just want peace and quiet.

Here, you’ll learn more about staying at an all-inclusive Caribbean resort, including such factors as:

•   What do all-inclusive resorts actually include?

•   How much do all-inclusive resorts cost?

•   What are the pros and cons of all-inclusive Caribbean resorts?

What Do All-Inclusive Resorts Include?

What all-inclusive resorts include varies by property, but they generally include:

•   The price of the hotel room

•   All food, snacks, and beverages

•   Most likely alcoholic beverages, though they may include only certain brands of alcohol

•   Possibly room-service meals

•   Entertainment, activities (including water sports like kayaking), and kids’ camp, depending on the resort

•   Taxes and tips

•   Possibly airport transfers

All-inclusive resorts usually don’t include the cost of excursions, but some may have activities included for free. They don’t include extras like renting a car for a day trip.

How Much Do All-Inclusive Resorts Cost?

You pay for an all-inclusive vacation upfront based on the number of nights you’re staying and the number of people in your party. Prices usually start at about $200 a night per person, with some properties costing much more, especially during peak time like winter (in the hot Caribbean, summer travel is considered off-season).

You may want to bring extra cash to tip staff, like bartenders, waiters, and housekeeping. Even if gratuities are included in the price of your stay, there may be times that you want to thank a staff member for helping you out.

Types of All-Inclusive Resorts

There are many different types of all-inclusive resorts. There are all-inclusive resorts that are meant for singles, couples, couples on their honeymoon, adults-only, families, and groups. There are even some pet-friendly all-inclusive resorts, if you like traveling with pets.

Some of the brands you may hear mentioned are Beaches, Breezes, Riu Palace, and Sandals, among others. The best all-inclusive Caribbean resorts for you will depend on the location you’re seeking, the kind of accommodations, and amenities that suit you, and of course the price tag.

Pros of All-Inclusive Caribbean Resorts

All-inclusive Caribbean resorts definitely have their advantages. Here are a few of the upsides:

Good Value

If you typically spend a lot on food and beverages on vacations, an all-inclusive resort can actually provide good value. Drinks in particular can add up quickly. So if you like to indulge in big meals and lots of cocktails while on vacay, you can really “get your money’s worth” (though it may not be the best for your health).

Live the Caribbean Dream

If you have always dreamed of relaxing on a beach in the Caribbean, an all-inclusive Caribbean resort can be an easy way to achieve that dream. All-inclusive Caribbean resorts are engineered to please tourists’ every whim, so they likely have almost anything you want on your vacation.

Low Stress

All-inclusive vacations can be appealing to those who want a relaxing vacation without having to do much planning. You don’t have to search out restaurants, beaches, or activities; everything is ready and waiting for you.

24-Hour Service

At an all-inclusive resort, you usually have staff on call 24/7 to assist you. Plenty of staff members are available to bring you a drink or room service, answer any questions, and help with special requests.

Cost Is Predetermined

When you book an all-inclusive vacation, you typically have to pay ahead of time. You will know exactly how much your vacation will cost you, unlike a typical vacation, where you may not know the cost of food, drinks, attractions, and more until your credit card bill arrives. Plus, since you have already paid for the vacation, it may make you more relaxed on the actual vacation, since you don’t have to worry about how much you’re spending.

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Cons of All-Inclusive Caribbean Resorts

All-inclusive Caribbean resorts may not be the best option for everyone. Some of the cons to consider before booking include the following:

Inauthentic Version of Local Culture

When you stay at an all-inclusive resort, you may rarely or never leave the resort. Because of this, you won’t experience the true local culture or cuisine of wherever you’re staying. Appreciating other cultures is a major component of travel for many people, which is why they may dislike all-inclusive resorts.

Food Can Be Mediocre

The food at all-inclusive resorts can vary. Some guests may find it to be mediocre, depending on the particular property. Since these resorts have to feed a lot of people (who are not paying extra for food), the food options may be cheaper, blander, and less distinctive than you would find at a local restaurant. You also may not get to experience a variety of options, since you have the same restaurants to choose from every day.

Potential Crowds

All-inclusive Caribbean resorts can get crowded. You may have trouble finding a chair by the pool or beach. Activities could be at capacity. If you go to the restaurants during the popular mealtimes, you may have to wait for a table or have slower service. (One hack for that: Consider booking dinner reservations ahead of time.)

You Can’t Cut Costs

All-inclusive resorts are like a package: You pay one price for everything. With other types of vacations, you can cut costs by eating at less expensive restaurants, cooking meals, or picnicking. You might also opt for less pricey lodging (if you know how to save money on hotels) or skip renting a car and use public transportation instead.

These are some examples of how families afford to travel. However, with an all-inclusive vacation, you have to pay the price they quote you.

Tips for Staying at an All-Inclusive Resort

If you do plan to stay at an all-inclusive Caribbean resort, here are some tips to make your vacation as enjoyable and affordable as possible:

•   When booking an all-inclusive resort, the dates will have an impact on the nightly rate. If you’re able to, travel during the off-season, like fall or spring, to save money.

•   Some all-inclusive resorts are bookable using credit card rewards. If you have a travel credit card that lets you transfer points to hotel chains with all-inclusive resorts, this could be a way to save money and use points instead.

•   Before booking a vacation, including an all-inclusive resort, you may want to consider travel insurance to protect your investment in your vacation in case something goes wrong. If you have a travel credit card, make sure you understand how credit card travel insurance works. That could be a way to get coverage.

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The Takeaway

All-inclusive Caribbean resorts have their pros and cons. Some people love them: These destinations can be relaxing and low-stress and provide good value. Others may find them crowded, with mediocre food, and they don’t allow you to cut costs. Weighing the upsides vs. the downsides should allow you to decide if an all-inclusive resort is the right way for you to make your Caribbean dream come true.

Whether you want to travel more or get a better ROI for your travel dollar, SoFi can help. SoFi Travel is a new service exclusively for SoFi members that lets you budget, plan, and book your next trip in a convenient one-stop shop. SoFi takes the guessing game out of how much you can afford for that honeymoon, family vacation, or quick getaway — and we help you save too.

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**Terms, and conditions apply: This SoFi member benefit is provided by Expedia, not by SoFi or its affiliates. SoFi may be compensated by the benefit provider. Offers are subject to change and may have restrictions, please review the benefit provider's terms: Travel Services Terms & Conditions.
The SoFi Travel Portal is operated by Expedia. To learn more about Expedia, click https://www.expediagroup.com/home/default.aspx.

When you use your SoFi Credit Card to make a purchase on the SoFi Travel Portal, you will earn a number of SoFi Member Rewards points equal to 3% of the total amount you spend on the SoFi Travel Portal. Members can save up to 10% or more on eligible bookings.

Receiving a destination wedding invite typically prompts one of two responses: excitement or low-key panic. After all, the couple getting married aren’t the only ones who may be apprehensive about the cost.

Destination weddings are undoubtedly more expensive for guests than local weddings. And the cost of travel is usually the deciding factor in who comes versus who stays home and watches it all on Insta.

Before you RSVP to a destination wedding invitation, you’ll probably have some practical money questions. We have answers, as well as guidance on how to politely get the clarity you need to budget appropriately.

1. Who Pays for What in Destination Weddings?

Generally speaking, when it comes to destination weddings, guests are responsible for paying for their own transportation, accommodations, and meals that won’t be covered by the wedding party. If the wedding venue is not at the hotel where everyone is staying, transportation is often provided.

At a minimum, you’ll be paying for your own travel, whether that’s booking a flight or renting a car. For a larger wedding, it’s likely the couple have booked a destination wedding package. This might include dinner the night before the wedding, plus the ceremony and reception of course, and maybe a brunch or lunch the next day. And for more intimate destination weddings, especially far-flung ones, it’s not unusual for the couple to host guests for multiple meals apart from the reception.

Most couples will make it very clear on their wedding website what they’re covering for their destination wedding and what guests are expected to pay for. If the schedule, for example, says Thursday night welcome cocktails, Friday night beach dinner, Saturday reception, and Sunday brunch, you know those meals are covered.

Average Cost of a Destination Wedding for Guests

A survey by The Knot found the average cost of being a wedding guest was $460. The amount fluctuates based on wedding location, type, and date (say, casual beach nuptials nearby vs. black tie across the country during peak summer travel).

For a non-destination wedding requiring no transportation or accommodation, The Knot found the average cost to be $270. Driving out of town brings you to $660; flying bumps that to an average of $1,270. The Knot survey also includes the average cost of a wedding gift — $160 — but this will be lower for a destination wedding (more on that below).

Who Pays for Bridesmaid Dresses? (and Shoes and Makeup and Hair)

With destination weddings, who pays for bridesmaid dresses, shoes, makeup, and hair really depends on the couple. Bridesmaids and groomsmen are usually responsible for their own outfits and shoes. Some destination wedding packages include hair and makeup, and the couple may pay for this or tell you in advance how much it’ll cost. Some destination wedding resorts even have services on-site.

If you are asked to be in a wedding party and truly cannot afford the outfits and accessories, talk to the couple: Tell them you love their destination wedding ideas and want to celebrate with them, and see how you can work things out.

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How to Save Money On A Destination Wedding

When considering how to save money on hotels, start with recommendations on the wedding site. Many destination wedding packages include discounted rooms for guests. You can then compare the rates secured by the couple to nearby hotels and vacation rentals. (Keep in mind that if you stay too far from the wedding hotel(s), where shuttles may be available, you’ll have added transportation costs.)

Splitting a hotel room certainly saves money. Depending on the size of your group, sharing a suite may make more sense. The best destination wedding resorts often have suite and/or family-room options, and these may have a lower cost-per-person than booking separate rooms. (Whether you want to share a bathroom with your parents is up to you.)

Most destination wedding invitations go out far in advance so guests can make plans. Use this to your advantage; book now, pay later travel allows you to lock in good deals when you find them, and pay for them after a few months of saving. But always read the fine print and make sure you’re paying low or no interest, or this option could end up costing you more than paying up front.

Likewise, if you’re committed to the wedding and you see a good price on flights, book them. Already-low flight prices are unlikely to drop further.

Another way that destination wedding guests can save money is by using credit card cash back rewards to offset the cost of flights and hotel rooms. Consider which is more useful to you, credit card miles vs. cash back.

If you travel a lot, miles can be the better value — assuming you actually use them. But if you’d rather not track miles, you might prefer a cash-back card.

Many travel and/or airline cards have an added benefit — built-in travel insurance. Be sure to review carefully how your credit card travel insurance works.

As you book flights and accommodations for a destination wedding, try a spending tracker app to keep track of costs.

What If I Find a Better Deal Than the Group Price?

Though it’s not that common, some destination wedding packages include a group price, usually for an all-inclusive resort. In general, the couple will tell guests this is an option and, if you want in, you sign up and pay a deposit.

If you find a better deal than the group price, you can certainly organize your own accommodations. Just be sure to let the couple know you won’t be participating in the package.

Do I Have to Give a Big Gift Too?

Many destination wedding invitations will say something like, “Your presence is our present,” making it clear that guests’ attendance is the gift. After all, many couples know destination wedding costs can be high, and many are concerned about how their families can afford to travel.

A heartfelt card is always well-received. Mail it to the couple so you and they have one less thing to carry. If the invitation doesn’t explicitly say no gifts, and you can afford one along with the other destination wedding expenses, you can give a lower-cost gift than you normally would.

What If My Kids Are Not Invited?

Some couples may want an adults-only celebration, which can be difficult for parents who want to attend but don’t have extended overnight childcare at home.

Depending on how old your kids are and how long you’ll be away, you may be able to arrange sleepovers with their friends or ask a relative or family friend to come stay one or two nights. This is of course much easier with older, more self-sufficient children.

If your destination wedding invitation says no kids and you’re determined to go, you can still bring them to the destination and attend the wedding events on your own. Many destination wedding packages include childcare. If they don’t, the best destination wedding resorts can certainly find babysitters or have them on staff.

Can I Ask for a Plus One?

Budget is the most common reason to be invited to a destination wedding without a plus one. But you can gently and politely ask to bring a guest, citing the plus one’s relationship to you (maybe you have a new partner) and, if you feel comfortable, the benefit of having someone to share costs. At worst, the couple will say no, and from there you can decide how to RSVP.

What If I Want to Go But Can’t Afford It?

First consider whether you want to go to a destination wedding but can’t afford it, period, or you just can’t afford it at the moment you receive the invitation. If the latter, you may be able to save up for the trip, especially as destination wedding invitations are usually sent far in advance. Also consider whether you have time to earn credit card rewards, if you can minimize costs by sharing a hotel room (there are surely other guests concerned about costs), and the possibility of staying somewhere less expensive than the wedding hotel.

If you truly cannot afford the wedding, or don’t feel comfortable financially, don’t go. Do not go into debt to go to a wedding. The couple invited you because they want you to share in their special day, but not at the expense of your finances. You can RSVP no and then explain to your friends that you’re thrilled for them and honored to be invited but that a destination wedding isn’t in the financial cards right now.

True friends will be far happier to receive a heartfelt note than to have you suffer financially on account of their wedding.

Recommended: How to Balance the Urge to Travel and the Need to Save

The Takeaway

Destination weddings can be a wonderful chance for couples and their family and friends to celebrate together in a fun place, but they can also be more expensive for guests than local weddings. Before saying yes to a destination wedding invitation, try asking a few money questions of either the couple or potential wedding guests, so that you have a better idea of the associated expenses. Once you know relatively fixed costs like travel, accommodations, gifts, etc, you’ll know how much you need to save.

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If you like to travel and appreciate the finer things in life, you might dream of a posh vacation. Maybe your fantasy is staying at a sprawling resort by the sea or an urban boutique hotel with a spectacular rooftop bar. Or perhaps you dream of immersive experiences, liking a private cooking class with a local chef or a wine-tasting tour through Napa Valley.

But then reality kicks in. You look at your actual budget and realize you probably can’t make that fantasy a reality.

Or could you? It just so happens there are a few ways to snag luxury travel for less. Learn more here, including:

•   Which destinations can help you afford luxury travel

•   Tips for traveling posh for less

Average Cost of an Affordable Luxury Vacation

It’s hard to give just one number here, since costs will vary depending on the number of travelers, your destination, and how long you plan to stay. But expect to pay a few thousand dollars.

Recent surveys indicate that the cost strictly for travel (airline tickets, parking, car rental) for a family of four on a four-day domestic trip can easily nudge close to $2,000. And that’s not including lodging or food, let alone expenses for attractions and entertainment, which can easily add another $1,000 to that sum.

So make sure to decide where to keep a travel fund and nurture it, and then work to keep your vacation’s price tag from busting your budget.

Destinations Where You Get More for Less

According to crowd-sourced travel expense site Budget Your Trip, here are a few places where you can get more bang for your buck. The average prices listed below are for two people for a week on a high-end trip. Your cost may vary, but this should give you an idea of destinations where you can travel luxuriously for less than you might think.

•   Thailand $4,675

•   Mexico $4,091

•   Portugal $3,807

•   Slovakia $3,311

•   Costa Rica $3,098

•   Vietnam $2,077

•   Morocco $1,475

Obviously, if you are traveling domestically, you’ll save money by avoiding air travel. If you can drive to a nearby city or resort, you can reallocate dollars to lodging or entertainment.

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7 Tips for Traveling Posh

If you want to travel in luxury on a budget, here are a few tips to keep in mind.

1. Visit Off-Season

It’s generally true that if you want to visit a popular destination at the same time that everyone else wants to go there, you’re likely to pay more. If your summer travel takes you to a popular beach destination, you’ll pay more than if you visit it in the off season. A week of shopping and cafe hopping in Paris may be pricey in July, but what if you went in March or November? You might be able to afford a junior suite at the hotel you’ve been eyeing vs. a standard room. The more flexible that you can be with your travel dates or destination, the more likely you’re able to travel in luxury at a reduced cost.

One way that families afford to travel is by traveling during the off season or shoulder season, which is the bridge between high season, when everyone wants to go, and the low season, where demand is much diminished.

Book a (Semi-) Private Plane

Some ultra-glamorous experiences have a surprisingly manageable price. An example: With the rising cost of airfare, you may be able to fly a semi-private jet for not much more than flying commercial. While booking a private plane will likely cost more than flying with a traditional airline (especially if you usually travel basic economy), the added cost may be worth the trade off for the extra luxury and convenience. Plus, you get bragging rights to drop the phrase “private jet” into your conversation.

With a semi-private flight, 15 to 30 passengers fly on a predetermined route and schedule. Carriers include Aero, Blade, Surf Air, and Set Jet. Typical flights go from California to Mexican getaway destinations, or New York to vacation islands off the Eastern seaboard.

Prices can be similar to first-class flights: $200 and up for a short hop; into four figures for ones that are longer flights. Bonuses include avoiding the draining experience of going through long security lines at major airports, as these carriers often use smaller private terminals.

You may also be able to use credit card rewards to help defray some of the costs.

Book New Hotels

If you’re wondering how to save money on hotels and travel in luxury for less, look into booking a brand new hotel. Sometimes new hotels will offer discounts when they first open. They might not have all the kinks worked out yet, plus they need to start building a clientele.

Just make sure that you stay flexible with your plans, since hotels don’t always open on time — consider booking your stay with a travel credit card that offers trip insurance if your hotel is still under construction.

Recommended: How Does Credit Card Travel Insurance Work?

Skip the Hotel

Another luxury travel tip is to consider alternative forms of lodging. Rather than stay in a chain hotel, you might be able to find an alternate vacation rental that gives you a more elegant and authentic experience at a similar price point.

For instance, instead of booking into a small and expensive Los Angeles hotel room, you might stay in an Airbnb or VRBO apartment in a cool neighborhood. Having, say, a whole one-bedroom to yourself can make for a stay that’s more posh and memorable.

If you are traveling with pets, you may be able to find a place that is more pet-friendly and allows you to skip hotel pet fees.

Use a Travel Agent

If you prefer elegant travel, consider using a travel agent that specializes in luxury travel. Many travel agents have access to special deals or know of ways to travel in luxury on a budget. It’s possible to come out ahead even after paying the agent their commission.

Redeem Your Rewards

Another way to travel in luxury for less is to consider using your credit card miles or credit card cash back to travel. As one example, many airlines allow you to redeem miles for business class flights, often at very reasonable rates. Or if you don’t have enough miles for a free ticket, you could buy an economy class ticket and use your rewards to bump up to business class.

Either way, when you arrive at your destination relaxed and rested after using your miles to fly business class at a fraction of the cash cost, you’ll definitely feel like you’ve traveled in style.

You may also get other bonuses. Some hotel rewards programs will offer a free night when you book three, free breakfast, and other perks for being a member. Working those freebies and discounts can really pay off.

Also, you may have points from renting a car from the same agency every time. That can give you an affordable set of wheels for the weekend so you and your bff can stay at a posh spa together.

Plan a High-Low Trip

Another way to travel posh is to prioritize what’s important to you and allocate more of your travel budget there. For instance, if you want to go to London for the theater and high tea, you can fly economy and stay in a basic hotel so you can enjoy those luxurious experiences.

Or if it’s your dream to spend a week somewhere near Cancun or Tulum and snorkel every day, make that snorkel time your top priority, budget for it, and then find a small, relaxed hotel versus one of the mega-resorts to save on your lodging bill.

The Takeaway

A luxury trip doesn’t always have to break the bank. Instead, set a budget and decide beforehand what types of lodging, experiences, and activities are most important to you. If you have the money set aside for it, don’t be afraid to splurge on something that is meaningful to you. Often those types of experiences can make memories that stay with you forever. Remember, not every aspect of a trip needs to be five-star in order for you to savor a posh getaway.

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**Terms, and conditions apply: This SoFi member benefit is provided by Expedia, not by SoFi or its affiliates. SoFi may be compensated by the benefit provider. Offers are subject to change and may have restrictions, please review the benefit provider's terms: Travel Services Terms & Conditions.
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