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Apr

2025

Money and Marriage: Making Important Money Decisions in Marriage

By Julia Califano | Budgeting & Goals, Family Finances, Life & Career | No Comments

Financial decisions are difficult enough on your own. But they can get even harder when you bring a significant other into the mix. After all, you both are coming from different life experiences and may have very different (often deep-seated) views on money, including how it should be spent and whether it should be saved.

Not surprisingly, money is a common cause of stress in relationships and, if left unaddressed, it can start impacting more things than just your bank account. Research consistently shows that financial problems and disagreements over money is a leading cause of divorce.

Considering how personal, and therefore complicated, each partner’s relationship with money can be, navigating money conversations can be tricky.

A great first step is to understand that financial decision-making as a couple may not come naturally, and that’s completely fine. These conversations take practice. What follows are a few strategies to try and some ideas to keep in mind when making financial decisions with your partner.

Key Points

• Financial decisions can be more challenging when involving a partner due to differing backgrounds and views on money.

• Common causes of financial disputes among couples include budgeting, spending, and handling past debts.

• Effective strategies for couples include scheduling money discussions, writing down feelings about money, and actively listening to each other.

• Compromise and joint decision-making can strengthen the relationship and improve financial outcomes.

• Implementing a financial plan with clear actions can help couples achieve their shared financial goals.

Common Causes of Couple Money Fights

Whether you and your partner are struggling to make a particular money decision or generally don’t see eye to eye on money, know that money fights are normal and common. Here’s a look at some of the most common hot button issues for couples.

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Sharing Account Information

Some couples struggle with privacy limits and may disagree about what level of access their partner should have to their financial accounts. If one partner feels they don’t have fair access to financial accounts, passwords, and paperwork, resentment can build.

Married couples in particular may find it confusing and challenging to not have a full picture of their complete financial health.

Determining Budgeting and Spending Limits

Maybe one of you likes to spend and enjoy life, while the other prefers to save for a rainy day. This disconnect happens all the time. Not all couples agree on how much they should be spending versus putting aside for the future and this can lead to anger and tension.

Dealing With Past Debt

If one partner brings a sizable amount of debt into the relationship, couples may disagree about who is responsible for paying off the debt.

You might take some solace in knowing that debts brought into a marriage stay with the person who incurred them and are not extended to a spouse. It won’t hurt the other partner’s credit rating (which is linked to their Social Security number and tracked individually). In most states, however, debts incurred after marriage jointly are owed by both spouses.

Saving and Investing

Many couples can’t agree on how much money they should save each month, as well as how they should be saving it. One partner may feel investing is the best path to a stronger financial future, while the other might be more risk averse, preferring to stash extra funds in a high-yield savings account.

7 Tips for Making Financial Decisions as a Couple

Just having a conversation about money with your significant other can be fraught. Coming to an agreement on how to manage your money is often even harder. Fortunately, these eight strategies can help you find common ground.

1. Make a Date to Talk

Your instincts might tell you to dive headfirst into a big money talk in order to get it the heck out of the way. But this may not be your best strategy. No one is their best self when they feel caught off guard. A conversation about a tough financial decision will likely be more productive when there are two calm, prepared people at the table.

Instead of bringing up the topic of money out of the blue, you might give your partner some notice. You can simply set a time to talk about the financial decision at hand. Or, you might want to turn it into a real “date” and treat yourself to a coffee at the local shop or pick up your favorite take-out dinner. Either way, the most important thing is that you have a designated time for the talk. This strategy can be applied to discussing one particular financial decision, or you can utilize it on a regular basis.

2. Write It Out

Sometimes, it’s simply hard to communicate how you feel. This is especially true for topics that affect us deeply and in confusing ways, like money. If you and your partner are people that like to put their feelings down in writing, consider writing each other a letter prior to your financial “date.”

In your letter, you might include some background on how you were raised to think about money, your money stressors, and your financial goals. Focus the letter on yourself and from where your financial beliefs stem.

Not only will this help your partner understand where you are coming from, but it can also provide you with some very useful introspection about money and your system of values.

3. Be Prepared to Listen

When making financial decisions, your main objective should not be to explain your point of view. To have a truly productive conversation, you must be committed to listening, too. This is good practice in all conversations with your partner and loved ones, but especially when talking about financial decisions.

Here’s the thing about making financial decisions: It’s rarely black and white and, generally, there is no right and no wrong. Being open to listening often translates into being open to learning.

Not only is your partner’s perspective important, but you might even be able to learn something from them. We’re all learning as we go anyway, and by listening, you have a chance to learn and evolve as a couple.

4. Be Communicative

One key to having a productive and healthy conversation regarding money or a specific financial decision with your partner is to communicate your feelings, thoughts, and fears. Something that seems obvious to you may not be obvious to them, so give your partner the benefit of explaining yourself in a calm and thorough way.

When you communicate, try to stick with talking about how you feel regarding a matter and avoid making declarations about what your partner has done in the past or what you’re hoping that they will do in the future.

Making comments about how a person is spending can quickly turn accusatory, putting them on the defensive. Even when having tough conversations, do your best to remove judgment from the equation.

Also, it’s best not to assume that just because you have explained something to your partner once, that they understand what you mean and where you are coming from. Don’t lose your cool if you have to remind your partner what’s important or a priority to you, especially if your priorities don’t align on this particular issue.

Recommended: Guide to Improving Your Money Mindset

5. Crunch the Numbers

Sometimes, the numbers help guide financial decision-making within a relationship. It can be worth taking the time to figure out exactly how each financial decision would play out over the short and long term.

By breaking big costs down into monthly numbers, you and your partner can see on paper what is possible (and what isn’t). The exercise may provide a new perspective altogether or, at the very least, get you on the same page regarding the different options with your money.

If you feel at a loss for what you should be focusing on or how to accomplish your goals, you may want to hire a financial expert, such as a credentialed financial planner. Some financial guidance from a person skilled in financial planning could be just what a couple needs to step up their money game.

6. Compromise

If you’re in a partnership, you already know that compromise is key. The good news is that with money, compromising is not only possible but often ideal. For example, you don’t have to pick just one savings goal to work on at a time. Financial decisions don’t have to be one or the other. Indeed, a multi-pronged approach is often the best way to build financial security.

Also, know that there is no perfect formula for how a couple makes financial decisions. Just because your best friend and her spouse divide their finances in a certain way or prioritize certain money goals over others doesn’t mean that you have to do it this way. Part of compromise with your partner is abandoning the idea that your partnership should work like anyone else’s.

7. Put Plans Into Action

Once you’ve hashed out your money goals and fears with your honey, and made some key financial decisions together, it’s a good idea to come up with an actionable plan to make your shared goals a reality.

If you’ve decided that you want to purchase a home in two years, for example, figure out how much of a downpayment you’ll need and, then, how much money you need to siphon into savings each month to reach your goal. You might then set up an automatic transfer from your checking account(s) and into your joint savings account each month.

A fringe benefit of making financial decisions as a couple is that you have a built-in accountability buddy to make sure you follow through on your plan and don’t spend that savings on something else.

Smart Money Decisions Couples Make

Here’s a look at some smart money moves you may want to make as a couple:

• Opening joint accounts: Having at least one joint bank account can simplify your finances and make it easier to work towards your shared goals. That said, you don’t have to merge everything. You might decide to keep individual accounts for personal use — this gives each partner some freedom to spend on themselves without having to explain their expenditures.

• Labeling your savings: Having separate savings accounts for separate goals (even giving them labels, like a “downpayment” or “vacation” account) can help you stay on track and reach your goals sooner. Some savings accounts have a sub-savings account feature, which allows you to split funds in one primary savings account into separate categories.

• Automate your savings: It can be smart to set up recurring automated transfers from your checking account(s) to your savings and investment accounts based on your goals.

• Increasing your emergency reserve: Your emergency fund should be large enough to cover living expenses — for both of you and any dependents — for anywhere from a few months to a year, depending on your situation.

The Takeaway

Talking about money with your partner isn’t always easy, but having honest discussions about your financial situation and goals is critical. This can help you better understand each other, make important financial decisions as a couple, and come up with a plan that can make your shared goals and dreams a reality.

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FAQ

Should married couples make financial decisions together?

Even if you don’t merge all of your money, it can be a good idea to work together on some key financial decisions that will impact both of your futures. Making financial decisions together can have multiple benefits, including increased closeness and trust, less conflict over money, and better financial outcomes.

How should money be split in a relationship?

There are several methods couples can use to manage money and cover their living expenses. One option is to merge all or some of your funds in a joint bank account and use it to pay for shared expenses. Another option is to keep separate accounts, but have each partner make equal payments towards shared expenses.

A third approach you might consider is to split bills proportionally based on each partner’s income. So if one partner makes 70% of the total household income, they would then cover 70% of shared expenses, while the other partner would pay for 30%.

What are financial red flags in a relationship?

Financial red flags are money issues that are either currently causing problems in a relationship or have the potential to do so in the future. While they are not necessarily deal-breakers, they are harbingers of future relationship and financial strain. If you notice any of the following six signs, it’s important to deal with them promptly, ideally before your life is too intertwined with your partner’s.

• Unwillingness to discuss money

• Excessive credit card or other debt

• Flaunting their wealth

• Severe frugality

• Using money to manipulate or shame

• Keeping secrets or telling lies about money

About the author

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Julia Califano is an award-winning journalist who covers banking, small business, personal loans, student loans, and other money issues for SoFi. She has over 20 years of experience writing about personal finance and lifestyle topics. Read full bio.

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Apr

2025

What Is Loud Budgeting?

By Julia Califano | Budgeting & Goals | Comments Off

Loud budgeting is a money-saving trend that is encouraging people to be honest with others about their finances and feel okay about saying “No” to expensive invitations.

The concept was first introduced by TikTok content creator and comedian Lukas Battle in late 2023 as an alternative to “quiet luxury” and involves talking openly — or loudly — about your financial goals and spending limits to those around you. Since Battle first coined the term, TikTok has been deluged with videos extolling the benefits of loud budgeting and how to do it.

Is it time to get on the loud budgeting bandwagon? Maybe. While you can’t trust all the financial advice you get on social media, many finance experts say that loud budgeting is rooted in a time-honored financial principle — that people should make spending decisions based on their budgets and savings goals, rather than peer pressure or FOMO.

Here’s a closer look at what loud budgeting is and how to incorporate this approach into your own life.

Key Points

• Loud budgeting, a concept introduced by TikTok creator and comedian Lukas Battle in late 2023, encourages transparency about financial goals and spending limits.

• Benefits of loud budgeting may include: reduced financial stress, avoiding overspending due to peer pressure, building an enhanced support system, and reaching financial goals.

• It can be implemented by determining priorities, building a basic budget, and being honest with those around you about your budget.

• Budgeting tools, such as those provided by your bank or apps that track or permit you to share your spending and savings goals, can assist with loud budgeting.

• Loud budgeting doesn’t have to entail disclosing financial or personal details — it can be as simple as sharing your financial goal and/or limits.

The Psychology of Loud Budgeting

When it comes to maintaining close ties to friends and family, it can be hard to decline an invitation to a catch-up dinner, reunion weekend, or destination wedding — even if you’re not comfortable with the cost. So, you might grudgingly say “Yes,” and figure you’ll deal with the financial fallout later. Or, you might say “No,” but make up a fake reason why you can’t be there. Neither option is ideal.

Loud budgeting offers an alternative solution — bowing out while being honest about your money concerns. It’s based on the premise that staying close and connected with people you care about doesn’t have to cost a lot. Often, it just takes one member of the group to say “No,” and suggest a way to bring down the cost of a social outing or gathering.

Recommended: 7 Tips for Living on a Budget

Benefits of Practicing Loud Budgeting

While loud budgeting isn’t for everyone, it has a number of benefits. Here are some to consider.

Reduced Financial Stress

Money worries can be a significant source of stress. Loud budgeting can immediately take some of the pressure off by making it acceptable to opt out of social plans that will cause you to spend more than you can afford. Over time, loud budgeting can help you grow the balance in your bank account, pay down debt, and achieve your goals — all of which can improve your financial well-being.

Improved Financial Transparency

While talking about money has long been considered taboo and can even trigger shame, loud budgeting aims to reduce the stigma around having financial limitations. Instead, it advocates being transparent about your budget and why you’re choosing not to spend your hard-earned cash on something. By starting the conversation, loud budgeters may also encourage others in their circle to be more authentic and honest about their finances.

Enhanced Support System

Not everyone will necessarily be receptive and understanding when you get loud with your budget. But there is also a good chance that you will get support from others who (unbeknownst to you) are in the same financial boat. This can help you build a community of people working towards similar financial goals. Your community can help hold you accountable to your plan. You can also share tips and experiences and cheer each other on when you achieve success, such as reaching a savings goal.

How To Implement Loud Budgeting in Your Life

If you’re interested in trying out this Gen Z budgeting trend, here are some tips for how to incorporate loud budgeting into your life.

Determine Your Priorities

Budgeting (loudly or quietly) is about making sure your spending aligns with your priorities. So a great first step is to sit down and lay out some specific and achievable financial goals, along with a timeframe for when you want to reach them. For example, maybe you want to pay off your credit cards in the next six months or put a down payment on a home in one year. Knowing what you want to accomplish gives you the “why” behind your loud budget and helps you stick to your plan.

Build a Basic Budget

Before you can get loud about your budget, you actually need to make a budget. To do so, you might start by looking at what’s coming in each month (on average) and what’s going out each month (on average). If your total monthly spending is higher than your total monthly income — or it’s about the same (meaning you’re not saving anything) — you’ll need to adjust accordingly.

There are all kinds of budgets, but one simple framework to consider is the 50/30/20 rule. This entails allocating 50% of your monthly take-home income to needs, 30% to wants, and 20% to saving and paying more than the minimum on your debts.

Once you come up with a basic budget, it’s a good idea to track your spending (there are budgeting apps that make this easy) to see how well you’re sticking with the plan and, if necessary, make some tweaks to your budget.

Be Honest With Others

Once you have a clear sense of your budget, priorities, and savings goals, don’t be afraid to share this information with friends and family. While you don’t have to delve into the intricate details of your finances every time you decline a social invitation, you can say that you’re trying to spend less and be better about managing your money. You might also talk about some specific goals you’re trying to achieve. Being honest in this way can help make it easier to decline costly invites and keep you accountable to your plans.

Suggest Alternatives

When someone in your circle suggests an outing that doesn’t work with your budget, consider suggesting alternative options. For example, if you can’t swing an expensive brunch, you might suggest a picnic in the park. Or if your friend group wants to spend the afternoon shopping, see if you can entice them to go hiking instead. The idea is to find some simple, wallet-friendly ways to have fun and stay connected without sacrificing your financial health.

Find Allies

Sticking to a budget can be a lot easier when you have a supportive community — or even just one or two allies — who are on the same financial page. If you can’t find any good budgeting buddies in your circle, you might search the #loudbudgeting hashtag on your social media channels to find others who are blazing the same path. This can help you build a community of people who can hold you accountable and cheer you on as you hit your goals.

Recommended: 7 Different Types of Budgeting Methods

The Takeaway

Loud budgeting promotes being more honest about your financial circumstances and goals, rather than accepting expensive invites out of fear of being a wet blanket and then dealing with the aftermath. While it can be challenging to speak your truth, being vocal about your budget can strengthen your connections and help you stay committed to your financial health — not just while it’s the latest trend on social media, but throughout your adult life.

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FAQ

How can I start loud budgeting without oversharing?

While loud budgeting involves being open about your financial situation, you don’t have to share sensitive details about your finances with everyone you know. Rather than lay out the specifics of your income and monthly bills, you can simply say that you are working toward a particular goal (like paying off your student loans or saving for a home) and trying to be more responsible about spending, saving, and managing your money. That can help explain why you are declining invitations to, say, pricey meals out or weekends away.

Does loud budgeting work for all income levels?

Yes, loud budgeting can be effective for all income levels, as it primarily involves being open about your financial goals and priorities with those close to you. While higher earners may be focused on wealth building and investment strategies, lower-income loud budgeters might share how they are working towards being free of credit card debt, building an emergency fund, or saving for a down payment on a home.

What apps or tools can help with loud budgeting?

Any budgeting app that helps you make better spending decisions can assist you with loud budgeting. Even better if the app allows you to track and share your progress with others. You might consider the tools your bank offers for budgeting. Other options include YNAB (You Need a Budget), which can help you create a plan for every dollar you earn; Goodbudget, which digitizes the “envelope system” of budgeting and allows you to share your budget categories with family or friends, or Honeydue,which helps couples sync bank accounts, credit cards, and more for easier viewing of your financial picture.

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Apr

2025

Guide to Budgeting as Couples

By Julia Califano | Budgeting & Goals, Financial Independence, money | No Comments

When you partner up, it’s likely that you are focused on building a home together and merging lifestyles: morning person vs. night owl, how to accommodate both of your vinyl and book collections, and so forth.

But there’s another important consideration: setting up a budget for two. You may choose to combine some, all, or none of your funds, But many people do want to mix at least some of their money and get on track for shared budgeting, spending, and saving.

This guide can help you explore your options and make the right decisions. You’ll learn such points as:

• Why to budget as a couple

• How to budget as a couple

• Pros and cons of budgeting as a couple.

How to Budget as a Couple

Here are some steps to take when you budget as a couple.

Decide How Much You Want to Combine Your Money

Depending on how much you want to combine finances as a couple is a key part of budgeting as a couple. Each of you will have your own money style and potentially money issues, so a frank discussion on how comfortable you are merging your money and sharing, say, your spending habits is a wise first step.

Calculate Your Combined Income

If you have decided on merging at least some of your funds, take a look at your shared income to know what amount you are working with. Consider if you are on salary, freelance, have side hustle income, or dividends/passive income to come up with the right number.

Determine Shared Expenses

Next, look at where that income will go. You likely have shared housing, food, utilities, transportation, insurance, and healthcare expenses in terms of necessities. You may have varying debt payments to make as well.

Perhaps one of you has more in the way of student loans or credit card debt than the other. Discuss what feels fair in terms of paying that down.

You will also probably want to take a look at your usual discretionary spending, such as what you pay towards dining out, travel, entertainment, yoga classes, clothing, and the like.

You may decide you are more comfortable keeping some of your money separate rather than have full transparency regarding every dollar spent. It’s your call.

Figure out Future Goals

Then, turn your attention towards saving. Perhaps you two want to buy a home in a couple of years, start a family, begin a business, or pad out your retirement account. Or all of the above. You’ll want to factor in those savings for tomorrow.

Make Your Budget

With this information in hand, you’re ready to create a budget. It can be wise to review a few different types together, such as the popular 50/30/20 budget rule, the envelope budget system, and the zero-dollar method.

Recommended: Check out the 50/30/20 budget calculator to see the breakdown of your money.

Create Joint Accounts

At this point, if you have decided to merge some of your money, you may want to open shared accounts, such as a joint checking and savings.

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7 Reasons to Budget as a Couple

Budgeting as a couple vs. budgeting as two individuals can have its pros. Consider the following.

1. Controlling Your Spending as a Team

One of the basics of budgeting is to prioritize your spending. Once you, as a couple budgeting, have decided where your money must go every month — toward groceries, utility bills, car payments, rent, and other essential expenses — you’ll have a better idea of how much will be left for discretionary expenses.

And instead of being restrictive, your budget could give you some spending flexibility. You’ll know if you need to cut back and when you can loosen up a little, and you’ll be accountable to each other.

Sometimes, one person in a couple budgeting is better at finances or just enjoys it more. It might be a good fit for that person to be in charge of managing the bills. But it’s also a good plan to come together for regular budget reviews so both of you know where the money is going and there will be some balance in the financial decision making.

Leave room for some splurges, or the spender in the family probably won’t be too happy. And be proactive about big purchases: Identify a threshold for how much each of you can spend so there are no surprises. Or, of course, you can keep some discretionary spending separate if this feels too stressful for the two of you.

2. Being Honest About Money Problems

This can be the time to talk about any hidden debts, bad habits that cost money, or if you can’t trust yourself not to overspend when there’s a credit card in your wallet.

Then you can start tackling those issues by setting spending limits, cutting up some of those credit cards, perhaps getting financial therapy, and, of course, incorporating those looming debt payments into your budget.

3. Being Prepared for Emergencies

A common recommendation is to have three months’ worth of living expenses set aside in emergency savings in case you lose your job or are sick or injured and can’t work. An emergency fund can also be used for unexpected costs such as home or car repairs or a medical procedure.

Not only can a couple budgeting determine how much to set aside each month to build that emergency fund, you can also choose which expenses to put off or do without if you don’t have enough in your fund when a crisis strikes.

Some budget ideas for couples who need to cut back on spending are reducing the number of date nights you had planned or putting your tax refund toward a bill instead of taking a spring vacation.

Having a budget can help you replace panic with a plan, and having a financial tool like SoFi can help you keep tabs on your cash flow and spending habits.

4. Creating Goals

If there’s a “fun” part of working together as a couple budgeting, this is it: deciding your priorities for the future.

Whether it’s saving for a home, having children, taking a cruise, starting your own business, or all of the above and more, your budget will help you focus on the things that are most meaningful to you as a couple.

Your strategy can help you set aside the money to reach those goals, aka turning the dreaming into doing. And you’re more likely to stay on track if you’re checking in on your spending each month.

5. Deciding How Much to Combine Finances

You will likely want to tackle the question of whether to have joint bank accounts vs. separate bank accounts or even a little of both. Making the right call can strengthen your bond financially and holistically.

You may decide to completely merge your bills and bank accounts, or you might want to keep your own accounts and divvy up the bills. There are pros and cons to each approach in budgeting for married couples or cohabiting couples.

Combining accounts can simplify your finances and build trust. But if you feel strongly about financial independence — or you’ve been burned in the past — you may feel more secure if you have your own money. Negotiating an agreement that’s comfortable for both parties can be a real win-win.

6. Reducing Financial Stress

Here’s a solid upside to merging your money: Once you get the numbers down on paper instead of just swirling around in your head, you may feel more in control of your finances. Even if the situation is shaky, you can take steps to do something about it. What’s more, you are likely on a path to making your money work harder for you.

7. Having Something to Talk About

Here’s another benefit: Once you create your couples budget, you’re going to want to revisit it on a regular basis. You can discuss how your various budget categories are holding up and if you need to make adjustments. Or how to tweak your budget so you can afford that destination wedding. You’ll be able to sync up as a team.

It’s a good idea to go over any upcoming expenses that aren’t in the budget or only come up occasionally. And you can talk about how you’re doing with your short-term financial goals as well as your long-term ones.

An example of longer-term money aspirations? You can take a closer look at how college expenses for your future kids are trending. Or what might be a good monthly retirement income for a couple.

Are There Any Downsides to Budgeting as a Couple?

Now that you know the positives, consider these potential negatives whether you are marking a married couple budget or budgeting as a couple living together:

• A partner could feel as if they have less control over their money, which could be uncomfortable.

• A person could feel as if their partner’s spending habits are challenging.

• The full transparency of merging finances could be a problem for some people who don’t like sharing their financial life.

• There could be more time and effort and potentially banking fees involved as you set up joint accounts and find a new way to operate as a team.

Budgeting and Saving with SoFi

The good news, especially for those who dig technology, is that there are plenty of online tools and apps that can help you put together a budget and manage your money as a couple.

Better banking is here with SoFi, NerdWallet’s 2024 winner for Best Checking Account Overall.* Enjoy up to 3.80% APY on SoFi Checking and Savings.

FAQ

What is the best way to budget as a couple?

A key decision will be how much of your money to merge, looking at shared income and expenses, determining goals, and then finding a budget that works for both of you. Regular check-ins to see how you are managing your money are important too.

How do you split finances as a couple?

This will vary from couple to couple. Some will want to pool all of their resources and pay everything 50-50. Others may have circumstances (such as one partner having considerable credit card debt) that indicate a different arrangement may be necessary.

How much should a couple save per month?

How much a couple should save per month will depend on a variety of factors such as income, cost of living, and debt. However, many financial experts suggest saving 20% of one’s income is a good guideline.

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Apr

2025

How to Stick to a Budget: 6 Ways to Stay on Track

By Julia Califano | Budgeting & Goals | No Comments

Building a budget isn’t hard, but it does require time and effort. And once it’s completed, it’s something you should be proud of. Yet, many people have trouble sticking to a budget. They wind up essentially throwing all their work out the window as a result of impulse buys, unrealistic expectations, or a lack of discipline.

Don’t let that happen to you: Here’s a look at some of the reasons budgets can fail and tips for making a budget you can stick to.

Key Points

• A budget helps organize money according to priorities and achieve financial goals.

• Assess income and expenses to create a realistic budget.

• Set SMART financial goals for better budget adherence.

• Automate bill payments and savings and use apps to help stay on track.

• Revisit a budget regularly to reassess, and update it when major life changes occur.

Understanding the Importance of Budgeting

A budget allows you to organize your money according to your priorities and plays a key role in achieving financial goals. Those goals can be anything from taking a vacation and buying a new car to funding future education and retirement. With a well-crafted budget, you can work on multiple goals at the same time.

A budget is also one of the top tools to help you stay out of debt or rein in any outstanding debt you may already have. In addition, having a budget can help simplify your spending decisions, making it easier to determine which purchases are worth making and which you don’t actually need.

The Role of Budgeting in Financial Planning

Budgeting can play a critical role in financial planning. It can allow you to balance your income into such buckets as paying for necessities, enjoying discretionary spending, and saving for your future as well as managing debt responsibly.

With a budget in place, you can earmark dollars toward short-term goals, such as redecorating your bedroom, and longer-term goals, such as having enough cash to retire early. You can divide your income and funnel it toward different financial goals.

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Overcoming Common Budgeting Challenges

Budgeting usually begins with the best of intentions. However, it’s all too easy to get sidetracked. Temptations and unexpected expenses can cause a budget to go off the rails, leading to overspending, missed bill payments, and debt. Here’s a look at some of the most common reasons why budgets fail.

Lack of Discipline

Even if you’ve created a budget, it can be easy to slip into a free-spending lifestyle in the moment (say, when out with friends who have deeper pockets than you do). If you generally live within your means, that might be okay. But if you’re a habitual overspender, it’s important to recognize that those behaviors have to change to keep your budget on track. A budget can’t help your financial situation if you don’t follow it.

Unrealistic Expectations

Many people think budgeting requires drastic measures. For example, if you’ve been living beyond your means and want to rein in your spending, you may decide you must go from spending more than you make to living off half your income. But that stringent plan may not be a viable option. When you fail, you might give up on budgeting altogether. It’s important to set achievable expectations.

Discounting Irregular Expenses

While building your budget, you probably remember to factor in regular expenses like your monthly electricity bill and grocery shopping. But it can be easy to forget to include budgeting categories and expenses that occur on a more infrequent schedule, such as quarterly or annually.

Annual membership fees, homeowners’ association fees, insurance premiums, holiday spending, and kids’ camp tuition may come up only once a year, and that can make them easy to forget. Failing to account for these costs can throw your budget off once they come due and you may have to scramble to find the cash to pay them. You can try to account for these expenses by saving a little each month to help cover them.

Recommended: Money Management Guide

Getting Lost in the Weeds

While it’s important to take a thorough accounting of your expenses when making a budget, it is possible to go overboard with so many line items that can make your head spin. How do you stick to a budget when it’s several pages long? With difficulty, if at all.

A budget with too many line items can be tedious to update and track. It can be more productive to have broad line items that encompass a wider array of expenses, so if you spend a bit too much on one small item, it won’t make much difference.

Your Social Circle

The people you surround yourself with, including your friends, family, and partner, can have a huge impact on your spending. If these people tend to be big spenders, you might be tempted to spend when you’re around them. That’s sometimes known as FOMO spending or “fear of missing out” spending. It would be a shame if one big night on the town threw off a whole month’s worth of budgeting plans.

If you’re saving for a specific goal, like putting a down payment on a home, you might let your friends know that you’re trying to stick to a budget, so maybe they won’t tempt you with expensive sushi dinners or weekends in Vegas. In their excitement to help you achieve your goal, they may be willing to trade nights at the bar for cheaper activities like game nights in.

Steps to Creating a Realistic Budget

One of the most important tips for how to stick to a budget is to start with a realistic budget — or, in other words, a budget that is easy to stick with. These three steps are key to starting off on the right foot.

Assessing Income and Expenses

To create a realistic budget, you need to first assess where you currently stand. That means calculating how much, on average, is coming in each month and how much, on average, is going out each month.

You can do this by reviewing bank statements from the past several months, then adding up all of your (after-tax) monthly income. This is how much you have to spend each month. Next, add up what you are spending each month to come up with a monthly average. If your average monthly spending exceeds your average monthly income (meaning you’re going backwards) or is about the same (meaning you’re not saving), you’ll need to find places to cut back.

Setting SMART Financial Goals

Whether your goal is to build an emergency fund or go on a great vacation, setting clear, achievable financial goals will help you create — and stick to — your budget. Strong goals serve as reminders for why you’re choosing to spend less in some areas, which can make sticking to your budget feel more rewarding.

Consider using the SMART framework when setting goals. You’ll want your goals to be:

Specific: Rather than saying, “I’d like to save more,” try to be more specific, such as “I’d like to save enough for a down payment on a car in four months.”

Measurable: You want your goals to have a measurable outcome, such as a set amount of money you’d like to save by a certain date.

Attainable: If a goal is too hard to achieve, you might give up before you get very far. Strive to set goals that are attainable given your current income, expenses, and time frame.

Relevant: It’s key that your goals address your top needs and concerns. Consider what will give you the most security and value to your life right now.

Time-based: Having a set timeline can help you stay on track and reach your financial goals.

Recommended: Savings Calculator

Allocating Funds to Financial Goals

You may wonder how to best allocate money toward your financial goals. One method that can work well is to have separate savings accounts for each short-term goal, such as one for your emergency fund, one for your beachhouse rental next summer, and one for the down payment you are saving for a new car. It can be wise to keep these accounts at an online bank, where interest rates are typically higher and fees lower (or non-existent), helping your money to grow faster.

You may find that if your paycheck goes to your bank by direct deposit, you can determine how much goes into different accounts. In other words, you could direct most of it into your checking account and some into a savings account or two.

Prioritizing Essential and Non-Essential Expenses

A budget is an opportunity to align your spending with what’s most important to you. You’ll want to have three main categories for spending:

• Essential expenses (“needs”) These are your necessities, such as groceries, housing, healthcare, and transportation. Minimum debt payments fall into this category as well.

• Nonessentials (“wants”) These are the expenses that aren’t necessary for survival but enhance your quality of life. Examples include dining out, gym memberships, and travel expenses.

• Savings This is the money you separate from spending each month that will allow you to reach the financial goals you established earlier.

A very basic approach to budgeting is the 50/30/20 budget rule, which divides your net income into the above categories, spending 50% on needs, 30% on wants, and 20% on savings. Those percentages may not be realistic for everyone, however, If you live in an area with a steep cost of living, for example, you may need to spend more than 50% on needs and take some away from the wants and/or savings categories.

Recommended: 50/30/20 Budget Calculator

Practical Tips to Stick to Your Budget

Once you have a basic budget in place, you’ll need to stick to it — or you won’t see any progress toward your goals. Here are six ways to keep spending and saving on track.

1. Sleep on Big Purchases

Impulse buys can quickly throw your budget off course. To avoid the problem, try the 30-day rule: If you see something nonessential you want to buy either online or in person, put the purchase on a one-month pause. Tell yourself that if, after 30 days, you still want the item and you can afford it, you’ll buy it. This gives you time to reflect. You may well decide that you don’t need or want the item that badly and forgo the purchase.

2. Aim to Never Spend More Than You Have

minimum on your credit card balance, for example, means you’re never getting ahead of your debt. Running a balance also means you’re going to end up paying far more for your purchases than the original price tag.

If you want something you can’t afford right now, plan for it, and start setting money aside for it each month. When you have enough, you can splurge without guilt — or throwing off your budget.

3. Set up Autopayments for Bills and Automatic Transfer for Savings

To make sure you never miss a payment (and avoid late fees), consider setting up autopay (aka automatic bill payments) for all of your regular bills. You can apply the same principle for paying yourself, which means saving.

Simply set up recurring money transfers from your checking account to your savings account for the same day each month (ideally, right after you get paid). Even small amounts will grow into something larger, which can ultimately buy that vacation plane ticket or cover an unexpected car repair.

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4. Plan Your Meals to Curb Impulsive Spending

When you’re hungry and there’s no food in the house, it’s hard to resist the call of the drive-through or your fave local take-out spot. You can avoid this temptation by planning your meals (including breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks) each week, making a grocery list, and sticking to that list in the store.

Meal planning saves you from blowing your weekly food and restaurant budget. It can help you save on groceries if you use items up vs. letting them sit and go bad in the fridge. Bonus: You’ll probably eat healthier, too.

5. Utilize Technology for Tracking and Managing Your Budget

One of the best ways to stick to a budget is to harness technology. Putting a budgeting app on your phone, for example, can help you keep track of your spending and savings. These apps connect with your financial accounts (including bank accounts, credit cards, and investment accounts), so you don’t have to manually enter your purchases and transactions.

Leveraging Budgeting Apps for Financial Success

Apps can help you stay on a budget, too. They can monitor bank accounts, credit card spending, and even keep track of how much you spend in cash. Some apps allow you to split your spending into your own categories and can send you alerts when you start to max out your budget to help keep you from going over. Even better, many budgeting apps are provided by financial institutions, and third-party ones are also available and may be free (at least for the basic service).

With this kind of support, you may find it easier to stay on target with your budget and financial goals.

6. Revisit and Adjust Your Budget as Needed

A successful budget is rarely a one-and-done proposition. As your income, expenses, and/or financial goals change, it’s a good idea to revisit your budget and make adjustments.

You may want to check in on your budget every six to 12 months to reflect on your budgeting journey. How well is your budget working to advance your goals? Is it still relevant to your life? Maybe you’re spending more in certain categories and less in others. Perhaps you can siphon off a bit more in automatic savings each month and reach your goals faster. Picking up changes in your financial habits can help ensure that your budget reflects your current priorities.

Also, it can be wise to revisit your budget when you have a major life change: Did you get married, buy a house, or have a baby? Were you laid off and unemployed for a couple of months? Did you decide to go back to school? All of these events can trigger another look at your financial plans.

The Takeaway

Learning how to stay on a budget means starting with a realistic budgeting plan, setting SMART goals, picking the right tools, and keeping a watchful eye on your money as your income and expenses change. Remaining agile and staying disciplined with your budget will allow you to meet your expenses, enjoy extras like travel and entertainment, and achieve your future goals. There may be tech tools offered by your bank that can help as you manage your budget.

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FAQ

How often should I review and adjust my budget?

It can be wise to review and adjust your budget every six to 12 months, Some people may prefer a more frequent cadence. Also, if you have a major life experience or shift, from having a baby to deciding to go back to school, you will probably want to revisit your budget.

How do I adjust my budget when my income changes?

When your income changes, you could use a budgeting app to recalculate your spending and savings goals, or you could use a budget method such as the 50/30/20 rule. This says to dedicate 50% of your take-home income to needs, 30% to wants, and 20% to savings and additional debt payments.

How do I set financial goals while sticking to a budget?

You can incorporate financial goals into your budget. For instance, with a line item budget, you could have lines for saving for a new car and for retirement. Also, you can set up automatic transfers to help you effortlessly move money to accounts being held for those aspirations.

What should I do if I consistently overspend on my budget?

If you are consistently overspending, it can be wise to evaluate whether your budget is too stringent and unrealistic. In that case, you may need to re-allocate your funds and put more money toward where you are overspending and less elsewhere. Or you may need to exercise some self-discipline and look carefully at your budget, vow to change your behavior, and recognize that it’s important to work toward your long-term financial wellbeing.

How can I involve my family in sticking to a budget?

To involve your family in sticking to a budget, it can be wise to hold regular family meetings (but they should be fun and collaborative, not punitive) and talk about money goals and spending options together. Children can, once they reach a certain maturity level, be part of this process and contribute ideas and effort. Grocery lists and holiday gift lists can be created and discussed with an eye toward understanding how a budget works.

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How to Split Finances As a Couple

By Julia Califano | Budgeting & Goals, Family Finances | Comments Off

If you’re ready to take your relationship to the next level — whether through marriage or moving in together — you may also be thinking about how, once you’re sharing a household, you’re going to handle your finances. Should you split everything 50/50? Divide expenses based on income? Put all of your money in a joint account and pay bills from there?

There are numerous ways to split bills as a couple and no one “right” answer. The key to getting it right is to maintain honest, open communication about your expenses and income and to create a plan that works for both of you. Here’s a look at the variety of ways married (and unmarried) couples can share and pay expenses.

4 Different Ways to Split Bills

The best way to share expenses as a couple will depend on your financial circumstances and personal preferences. Here are four different options to consider.

Splitting Bills Evenly: The 50/50 Split

Many couples find it easiest to maintain separate financial accounts with their own funds and split shared bills — like rent, food, and subscriptions — down the middle. While this is easy in terms of math, it can be a little tricky when it comes to payments, since some service providers may not let you have two names on the account and accept two payments.

To make it work, you may want to have one partner cover the bills and save receipts, then have the other pay their half at the end of the month. Or, you could set up a joint bank account, each contribute the same amount of money each month, then pay shared bills from that account.

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Splitting Bills Proportionally Based on Income

Splitting expenses down the middle might not seem fair if one person makes significantly more than the other. In that case, a more equitable solution might be to split expenses proportionally according to each partner’s income. For example, if you make $60,000 and your partner makes $40,000, you might split bills using a 60/40 split. If, for example, the utility bill is $100, you would pay $60 and your partner would pay $40.

To do this, you both can set up a direct deposit from your individual accounts to the shared joint account for your agreed share of the expenses.

Or, you might agree to each contribute 35% of your monthly income to shared living expenses to a joint account each month, and use that account to pay bills. While the percentage you’re depositing is the same, the higher earner will be contributing more actual dollars into the account than the lower earner each month.

Assign Bills to Each Partner

Another way couples can split expenses is to simply divide up the bills into “yours” and “mine” piles. One partner might pay for the rent, while the other might cover utilities, insurance, and streaming services. If you’re looking for a 50/50 split, however, you’ll want the amounts to be somewhat equal.

This approach to splitting bills may require some occasional tweaking, since expenses may change over time. However, it allows each partner to maintain their own separate bank accounts and maximum financial independence.

Pooling All of Your Funds

With this approach, what’s yours and what’s theirs is all considered “ours.” You only have a joint account — both of your paychecks go into that combined account and all expenses come out of that account. This can be a good way for married couples to split expenses and can enhance trust in a relationship, since there won’t be any secrets about money.

If you want to maintain some independence and privacy with your money, you might each have your own separate credit cards.

Should You Have a Joint Bank Account?

If both you and your partner earn money and are married or committed to a shared life, it can be helpful to set up a joint checking account. You can both direct your paychecks into this account and use it to pay for your shared expenses and transfer a set amount each month into savings to work toward shared goals.

This doesn’t mean you need to pool all of your money, however. You may still want to maintain personal checking accounts so you can continue to maintain some financial independence. Some couples opt to set up an automatic monthly transfer from the joint account into each partner’s personal account (say a few hundred dollars). This gives each person a “judgment-free” spending zone.

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Tips When Deciding How to Split Bills

However you decide to divvy up expenses, here are some tips that can help simplify the process and keep money tensions from taking a toll on your relationship.

• Determines who will pay the bills. To avoid confusion (along with missed payments and late fees), it’s a good idea to put one partner in charge of paying all the bills or, if you want to share the task, clearly determine who will pay what each month and stick to the plan.

• Check in with each other regularly. Once you decide on a bill-sharing strategy and have been using it for a few months, it’s a good idea to regroup and discuss how the plan is working, and whether you need to make some adjustments. Continue to schedule regular financial check-ins, so you each have a chance to bring up any money concerns that are on your mind.

• Agree to disagree about some things. You and your partner likely don’t see eye-to-eye on all things money. Indeed, you may have very different viewpoints about spending and saving. And that’s okay — you don’t have to agree on everything. Try to respect each other’s feelings about money and come up with compromises that make you both feel happy and secure.

• Get help from a free app. Budgeting apps, like HoneyDue and Goodbudget, can be a big help as you learn how to manage your finances as a couple. They bring all of your financial information together in one shared digital place. No more wondering if your partner paid a bill or what the balance is on your debt.

The Takeaway

When it comes to splitting bills as a married or cohabiting couple, there is no “should.” The best approach is one that works for each of you and for your relationship. Some options you might consider include: splitting bills in half, using an income-based percentage, assigning specific bills to each person, and pooling all of your funds in a joint account.

Whichever way you go, keep in mind that it doesn’t have to be all or nothing — you can choose to merge some of your money to use for shared expenses and savings goals, while still keeping some funds separate.

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FAQ

How do most married couples split their finances?

Married couples approach their finances in all different ways. Some combine all of their funds in a joint account out of which all expenses get paid. Others opt to keep their finances separate and split the cost of shared expenses (either 50/50 or proportionately based on income). Still others take a hybrid approach, pooling some money in a joint account but still keeping some money separate.

Is it okay to keep finances separate when married?

Yes. Many couples choose to keep their money separate even after they get married. You can split expenses from separate accounts or you might choose to pool some money in a joint checking and/or savings account to use toward shared expenses and goals.

Who should pay the bills in a relationship?

These days, dual-income couples often choose to split the bills, either down the middle or proportionately based on their incomes.

Should couples pay 50/50?

Many couples split bills 50/50, especially if they are earning similar salaries. If your incomes are significantly different, however, a more equitable solution might be to split expenses proportionally according to each partner’s income. For example, If you make $60,000 and your partner makes $40,000, you might pay 60% of shared expenses, and your partner would be 40%. So, if your rent is $1,000, you would pay $600 and your partner would pay $400.

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Money and Marriage: Making Important Money Decisions in Marriage

Common Causes of Couple Money Fights

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7 Tips for Making Financial Decisions as a Couple

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How should money be split in a relationship?

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What Is Loud Budgeting?

The Psychology of Loud Budgeting

Benefits of Practicing Loud Budgeting

Reduced Financial Stress

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Enhanced Support System

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How To Implement Loud Budgeting in Your Life

Determine Your Priorities

Build a Basic Budget

Be Honest With Others

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FAQ

How can I start loud budgeting without oversharing?

Does loud budgeting work for all income levels?

What apps or tools can help with loud budgeting?

Guide to Budgeting as Couples

How to Budget as a Couple

Decide How Much You Want to Combine Your Money

Calculate Your Combined Income

Determine Shared Expenses

Figure out Future Goals

Make Your Budget

Create Joint Accounts

7 Reasons to Budget as a Couple

1. Controlling Your Spending as a Team

2. Being Honest About Money Problems

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